{"id":29110,"date":"2020-07-29T11:54:15","date_gmt":"2020-07-29T11:54:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29110"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:45:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:45:49","slug":"6-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-el-no-deja-de-mirar-a-otras-mujeres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-el-no-deja-de-mirar-a-otras-mujeres\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que hacer cuando no deja de mirar a otras mujeres"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Y la historia es la siguiente: est\u00e1s en tu restaurante favorito un viernes por la noche, relaj\u00e1ndote con tu hombre mientras \u00e9l te piropea y te dice lo afortunado que es de haber conocido a una mujer como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>Te ruborizas pero te gustan sus palabras porque te hacen <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/los-20-mejores-piropos-para-chicas-haz-que-se-sienta-especial\/\">si\u00e9ntete especial<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Y mientras sue\u00f1as con volver a casa para seguir disfrutando del tiempo con tu hombre, una mujer extremadamente sexy pasa por delante de tu mesa.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces miras a tu hombre y sus ojos est\u00e1n clavados en su culo o sus pechos.<\/p>\n<p>And those words that he said a little while ago now don\u2019t mean anything to you. You feel anger and frustration and you curse him for being so dumb.<\/p>\n<p>Y toda la noche que se supon\u00eda que iba a resultar genial se convierte ahora en tu peor pesadilla.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know if he thinks she is hotter than you or if he wants to sleep with her. You don\u2019t know whether you should talk to him or curse him for acting like an idiot.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, \u00a1espera! No todo est\u00e1 perdido. S\u00f3lo necesitas parar y respirar. T\u00f3mate un tiempo para organizar tus pensamientos y pensar con claridad.<\/p>\n<p>Hay cosas que puedes hacer cuando ocurre algo as\u00ed (tambi\u00e9n les pasa a otras chicas), pero tienes que actuar con calma.<\/p>\n<p>Once you have listened to my advice, you will have a totally different outlook on relationships. And on your man\u2019s behavior as well.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Mant\u00e9n la calma<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103121\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven respirando hondo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Okay, your man just checked out that hot woman but you shouldn\u2019t lose your cool about that.<\/p>\n<p>Think about the way he did it. If he told you that she is hot or sexy then you should know that is not a normal guy\u2019s behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Pero en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, los chicos lo hacen sin ni siquiera pensar que lo hacen.<\/p>\n<p>And they believe it won\u2019t bother you because they don\u2019t have any sexual thoughts about those women.<\/p>\n<p>But no matter how bad it might look, you shouldn\u2019t react impulsively but be cool, calm and collected and act like nothing happened.<\/p>\n<p>Y aseg\u00farate de que tu hombre te ve mirando a un chico guapo. Tal vez s\u00f3lo entonces se dar\u00e1 cuenta de c\u00f3mo te sientes cuando te hace eso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t think it is your fault<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103122\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada sentada al aire libre y pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muchas mujeres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-te-sientes-deprimido\/\">deprimirse<\/a> cuando su hombre mira a otras mujeres porque empiezan a creer que no son lo suficientemente guapas o sexys para ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Y quiero que sepas que los chicos mirar\u00e1n a otras mujeres aunque seas Miss Mundo.<\/p>\n<p>That is simply in their genes and they can\u2019t control it. They are like animals who don\u2019t think when they do something like this.<\/p>\n<p>They behave like it is the most normal thing in the world, not thinking about your feelings. So, don\u2019t think it is your fault if your man checks out other women.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn\u2019t mean he isn\u2019t sexually attracted to you. It doesn\u2019t mean he wants to cheat on you with them or that he doesn\u2019t like you anymore.<\/p>\n<p>It is just something he can\u2019t control so don\u2019t be too harsh on him if he does this.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hable con \u00e9l abiertamente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103123\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja discutiendo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tu hombre hace esto cada vez que sal\u00eds y si te molesta, entonces deber\u00edas hablar abiertamente con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Ask him if he actually knows what he did. I bet he will react like he doesn\u2019t know what is happening\u2014because he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks that this is normal and that you know that you are his choice. But you should tell him that you can\u2019t read his mind and that he should stop doing that because it makes you feel bad.<\/p>\n<p>Si dice que lo siente y hace alg\u00fan esfuerzo por dejar de hacerlo, es que realmente te respeta y siente haberte hecho sentir mal sin querer.<\/p>\n<p>But if he doesn\u2019t want to do anything to make things right, then you know what to do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Piensa si merece la pena luchar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103124\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-woman-lying-in-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-woman-lying-in-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-woman-lying-in-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-woman-lying-in-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-woman-lying-in-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-woman-lying-in-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si puede comunicarse normalmente con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/asi-es-como-sabes-que-has-encontrado-a-tu-pareja-en-el-crimen\/\">tu pareja<\/a> sobre cualquier cosa que ocurra en tu relaci\u00f3n, entonces no hay necesidad de pelearse, especialmente en p\u00fablico.<\/p>\n<p>Try to talk to him about everything that bothers you but don\u2019t accuse him of anything because he might think you are attacking him.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, dile con calma lo que piensas de ese tipo de comportamiento y c\u00f3mo te hace sentir.<\/p>\n<p>If he loves you, he will understand because he also wouldn\u2019t like it if you did something like that to him.<\/p>\n<p>En definitiva, si quiere mejorar las cosas, entonces s\u00ed que merece la pena esperar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dile que se ponga en tu lugar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103125\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Men often don\u2019t understand until they put themselves in our shoes.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to tell your partner to think about your feelings a little bit because things like that can make you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se ponga en tu lugar, ver\u00e1 que no es una sensaci\u00f3n agradable y que deber\u00eda dejar de hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Bear in mind that guys sometimes don\u2019t even know they are making mistakes if you don\u2019t warn them.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si decide trabajar para mejorar su comportamiento, debes saber que sus sentimientos por ti son profundos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trabajen juntos para acabar con su h\u00e1bito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-discussing-with-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven discutiendo con hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-discussing-with-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-discussing-with-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-discussing-with-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-discussing-with-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-woman-discussing-with-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tu chico realmente entiende que su comportamiento te hace da\u00f1o y quiere cambiarlo, ofr\u00e9cele tu ayuda.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, cuando vuelva a hacer eso, simplemente dile que lo est\u00e1 haciendo y que tendr\u00e1 m\u00e1s cuidado la pr\u00f3xima vez.<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante es que quiere trabajar en vuestra relaci\u00f3n porque eres la mujer m\u00e1s bella para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Si te quiere de verdad, incluso romper\u00e1 sus h\u00e1bitos s\u00f3lo para hacerte sentir bien.<\/p>\n<p>Y si encuentras a un hombre as\u00ed, deber\u00edas considerarte afortunada porque te quiere de verdad y siente si te ha hecho sentir mal, sobre todo porque lo ha hecho sin querer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103128\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Wont-Stop-Looking-At-Other-Women-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 cosas que hacer cuando no deja de mirar a otras mujeres\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Wont-Stop-Looking-At-Other-Women-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Wont-Stop-Looking-At-Other-Women-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Wont-Stop-Looking-At-Other-Women-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Wont-Stop-Looking-At-Other-Women-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Wont-Stop-Looking-At-Other-Women-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em> Christine is the author of \u2018 <a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Staring-Into-Eyes-Anxiety-Depression-ebook\/dp\/B07KGGLQGB\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542715256&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=staring+into+the+eyes+of+anxiety+and+depression\" rel=\"noopener\"> Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n <\/a> \u2019 , a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression. <\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And the story goes like this: you are in your favorite restaurant on a Friday night, relaxing with your man while he is complimenting you and saying how he was lucky to meet a woman like you. You blush but you like his words because they make you feel special. And while you are dreaming&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":103127,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Wont-Stop-Looking-At-Other-Women.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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