{"id":29154,"date":"2020-09-30T10:29:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-30T10:29:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29154"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:46:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:46:20","slug":"6-senales-alarmantes-de-que-tu-novio-necesita-tiempo-a-solas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-senales-alarmantes-de-que-tu-novio-necesita-tiempo-a-solas\/","title":{"rendered":"6 se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que tu novio necesita tiempo a solas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfHas notado algo diferente en tu novio \u00faltimamente? \u00bfSe ha mostrado distante de repente y siempre que intentas hablar con \u00e9l parece ausente?<\/p>\n<p>Se enfada f\u00e1cilmente por las cosas de las que antes se re\u00eda y te sientes impotente sin saber qu\u00e9 hacer y c\u00f3mo llegar a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest problem with guys is that they won\u2019t tell you when something bothers them because they are taught to find solutions on their own and to keep things to themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Les cuesta abrirse a ti porque temen ser juzgados o mostrarse vulnerables ante ti.<\/p>\n<p>And that is why he\u2019ll choose to stay silent instead of telling you that he just needs some time for himself.<\/p>\n<p>Pero se olvida de que sus acciones dicen mucho de c\u00f3mo se siente y siempre puedes ir un paso por delante de \u00e9l si prestas atenci\u00f3n a estas 6 se\u00f1ales alarmantes que indican que s\u00f3lo necesita un tiempo a solas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s feeling down all the time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105231\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre baj\u00f3 la cabeza mientras la mujer yac\u00eda en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It is completely normal to feel down sometimes but if he\u2019s constantly in a bad mood and when you ask him for a reason, he tells you that he doesn\u2019t know, this might mean that he needs some alone time in order to recharge.<\/p>\n<p>Another indicator is if he\u2019s no longer enjoying the activities the two of you used to enjoy before. This means he has some barriers that are preventing him from relaxing and enjoying spending time with you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s making excuses<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105235\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre sentado junto a la ventana bebiendo pizza\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-150x101.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si te das cuenta de que tu novio es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/deja-de-poner-excusas-hombre-trata-como-una-mierda\/\">poner excusas<\/a> every time you ask him to go for a drink or something else, it is the ultimate sign that he needs alone time. Don\u2019t confuse this with his affection toward you.<\/p>\n<p>This has nothing to do with you and you shouldn\u2019t be offended if he starts making excuses all of a sudden. Just be patient and leave him be for some time and he\u2019ll come back to you rejuvenated.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pasa mucho tiempo con sus amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105285\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre con amigos est\u00e1 de pie junto a un coche\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a guy feels like he\u2019s suffocating in a relationship, he\u2019ll start spending a lot of time with his friends. His friends will become his shelter from the things that might bother him and that is why he\u2019ll spend more time with them than he\u2019s spending with you.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-esta-necesitada-solo-esta-locamente-enamorada-de-ti\/\">ser demasiado necesitado<\/a> or you\u2019re not giving him some space for himself? Think about the possible reason that might have caused this sudden change of behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t forget to give him some time with his friends because it is his way of dealing with things. And don\u2019t forget that this is just temporary.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s not that interested in sex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105286\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre discute con una mujer en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a guy is not interested in sex, you can be sure that something\u2019s going on with him.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s probably lost his will for sex due to being overly annoyed or irritated by some trivial things. He simply cannot be relaxed because his subconscious is telling him that he needs some alone time to come to his senses.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s delaying his replies<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105287\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre se sienta y teclea en el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve noticed that it takes him more time than usual to text you back, it means he needs some space.<\/p>\n<p>Te dejar\u00e1 esperando su respuesta no porque quiera castigarte, sino porque no puede luchar contra el impulso de hacerte saber sutilmente que quiere estar solo.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s hard not to get mad when something like this happens but try to respect his decision and he\u2019ll appreciate you even more. Next time you find yourself waiting for him to reply, simply ignore it and give him some space.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hiere tus sentimientos sin querer<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105288\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre grita a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s constantly looking for arguments (for no apparent reason) and only to get rid of his rage, you\u2019ll know it\u2019s time to intervene and pull away.<\/p>\n<p>He might even say something insulting to you just because he\u2019s desperate to have his alone time.<\/p>\n<p>I know it would be much simpler if he decided to say this to you (instead of making a scene) but that\u2019s just how guys work. You can never know what\u2019s on their mind until their actions show it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-105289 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que tu novio necesita tiempo a solas\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you noticed anything different about your boyfriend lately? Has he been acting distant all of a sudden and whenever you try to talk to him, he seems absent? He gets easily annoyed at the things that he used to laugh at before and you feel helpless not knowing what to do and how to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":105229,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-e1603106771689.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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