{"id":29158,"date":"2018-11-30T10:48:23","date_gmt":"2018-11-30T10:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29158"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:20:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:20:26","slug":"no-te-preocupes-sigo-siendo-tuyo-aunque-te-perdi-hace-mucho-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-preocupes-sigo-siendo-tuyo-aunque-te-perdi-hace-mucho-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"No te preocupes, sigo siendo tuya aunque te perdiera hace mucho tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Me han dicho muchas veces qu\u00e9 hacer y c\u00f3mo actuar para tener una vida mejor. Recuerdo que mi madre me dec\u00eda que deb\u00eda comer mucha fruta para mantenerme sano.<\/p>\n

If I wanted to go outside she would always tell me to take warm clothes because she didn’t want me to get some cold. She took care of me like I was a baby and, even if that annoyed me at that time, now I understand that she only took care of me like every mom takes care of her child.<\/p>\n

And she wasn\u2019t the only one, there were close people in my life who wanted me to always be safe. To keep me safe, they gave me advice about life. Some of it was useful so I listened but some advice I ignored completely.<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s interesante es que todas esas cosas eran cosas que aprender\u00eda tarde o temprano en mi vida. Aprender\u00eda estas lecciones cuando llegara el momento adecuado, pero estoy enfadada porque nadie me ense\u00f1\u00f3 c\u00f3mo actuar cuando te tropiezas accidentalmente con el hombre que fue toda tu vida y ahora es s\u00f3lo un extra\u00f1o<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo act\u00faas cuando sales por la ma\u00f1ana a comprar leche y pan para desayunar y le ves? \u00bfC\u00f3mo reaccionas cuando sabes que eres un desastre y te gustar\u00eda ser la mujer m\u00e1s guapa cuando \u00e9l te vea para que se desilusione por haberte perdido?<\/p>\n

And you are standing there saying nothing and you would like that your mom is there to tell you what to do now. But there isn’t anyone there. Nobody except your heart that beats like crazy and the fuss in your head.<\/p>\n

Toda tu vida con \u00e9l pasa por delante de tus ojos. Recuerdas vuestras tardes juntos mientras \u00e9l estaba tumbado boca abajo mientras t\u00fa jugabas con su pelo.<\/p>\n

Recuerdas todas sus promesas sobre tener una gran familia y una casa con un patio trasero donde jugar\u00e1n tus hijos. Y entonces su voz te trae a la realidad y te das cuenta de que tienes que salir de esta situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You would be so glad if the ground could just open and take you with it but you are still there in front of him while he is watching you with his eyes. And you know that look very well. You know what he is trying. You know it all but yet you don\u2019t know anything. There is nobody to tell you how to get out of this situation.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t someone who will tell you c\u00f3mo seguir adelante<\/a> like you were never together. You need someone who will help you carry that burden because you can\u2019t take it alone anymore. You need someone to tell you how to act when you meet the man who was your everything but now behaves like he is just a stranger.<\/p>\n

Necesitas a alguien que te diga que ahora est\u00e1s en una buena fase de tu vida y que tu novio actual es todo lo que necesitas.<\/p>\n

Deseas con todas tus fuerzas tener a alguien en tu vida que te diga qu\u00e9 hacer para seguir adelante desde el d\u00eda en que te dej\u00f3.<\/p>\n

I need someone who will tell me how to get over something that finished but that won\u2019t ever finish for me. No matter how much I try, it will never truly be over. How should I calm all these emotions that are waking up in my mind and my heart while you see him walking away from you?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo estar tranquila mientras el que lo era todo para m\u00ed se marcha como si nunca hubiera significado nada para m\u00ed?<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que ahora no estoy tranquila pero s\u00e9 que el tiempo lo cura todo y que tal vez, pero s\u00f3lo tal vez podr\u00e9 amar a alguien de la misma manera que te am\u00e9 una vez.<\/p>\n

Christine es autora de \u2018Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>\u2019<\/span><\/em>Un libro que cambiar\u00e1 tu forma de combatir la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

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You know, I have been told so many times what to do and how to act to have a better life. I remember my mother used to tell me that I should eat a lot of fruits to stay healthy. If I wanted to go outside she would always tell me to take warm clothes…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29163,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/megan-lewis-601494-unsplash.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29158"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29158\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29163"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}