{"id":29260,"date":"2020-05-03T11:24:46","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T11:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29260"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:33:21","slug":"perdonate-por-las-veces-que-olvidaste-tu-propio-valor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/perdonate-por-las-veces-que-olvidaste-tu-propio-valor\/","title":{"rendered":"Perd\u00f3nese por las veces que olvid\u00f3 su propia val\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eres muy consciente de que el perd\u00f3n es una parte crucial de dejar ir y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/this-is-what-moving-on-is-really-all-about\/\"> seguir adelante<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>With time, you\u2019ve learned that it is the only way to true liberation and to freeing yourself completely.<\/p>\n<p>And you keep forgiving the ones who have done you harm. You keep accepting the apologies you never got because you\u2019re a kind and loving person who can\u2019t stay resentful for long.<\/p>\n<p>But what about you? Why don\u2019t you treat yourself the same way? <b>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te guardas rencor? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Why don\u2019t you find the strength to forgive yourself?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Porque eso es exactamente lo que debes hacer.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to <b>perd\u00f3nate por cada vez que permitiste que alguien te rompiera el coraz\u00f3n.<\/b> Porque nunca fue culpa tuya.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve always loved the best way you could and the ones who took advantage of your love are the only ones who should be ashamed of their actions.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por cada vez que te conformaste con menos de lo que merec\u00edas.<\/b> Because now you know what you don\u2019t want from life.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora sabes que est\u00e1s hecho para cosas m\u00e1s grandes y para gente m\u00e1s valiosa.<\/p>\n<p>Perd\u00f3nate por dejar entrar a las personas equivocadas y por no cortarles el paso a tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Por darles infinitas segundas oportunidades y por justificar a los que te han hecho da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91813\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria en mentes profundas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-woman-in-deep-minds-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por no haber sabido hacerlo mejor y por no haber aprendido de tus errores pasados.<\/p>\n<p>Forgive yourself for all the times when you begged for someone\u2019s love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Por cada vez que permitiste que alg\u00fan gilipollas te hiciera preguntarte por qu\u00e9 no eres suficiente y por compararte con todas esas otras chicas de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Por cada vez que perseguiste a algunas personas.<\/p>\n<p>For all the sleepless nights you spent trying to decode some guy\u2019s signals and trying to understand what he wanted from you.<\/p>\n<p>Por no saber que un hombre de verdad nunca har\u00e1 que le persigas.<\/p>\n<p>Perd\u00f3nate por todas las veces que esperaste que alguien cambiara y se convirtiera en una persona mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Por no saber que a veces <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/tu-amor-no-puede-cambiar-a-un-hombre-hasta-que-el-mismo-decida-hacerlo\/\"> love isn\u2019t enough to make someone change <\/a> hasta que decidan hacerlo ellos mismos.<\/p>\n<p>For all the times when you tried to save the people who didn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n<p>For trying to fix all those broken men and for not knowing that sometimes they aren\u2019t emotionally unavailable\u2014they are just assholes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perd\u00f3nate por dar m\u00e1s de lo que recibes a cambio.<\/b> Por poner todo tu empe\u00f1o en relaciones condenadas al fracaso.<\/p>\n<p>Por ser el \u00fanico que lo intenta, sin recibir ning\u00fan aprecio, aunque s\u00f3lo sea por eso. Por estar dispuesto a mover monta\u00f1as por la gente que nunca movi\u00f3 un dedo por ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la silla\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-chair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>For every time you loved someone more than you loved yourself and for every time you didn\u2019t prioritize yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por anteponer las necesidades de los dem\u00e1s a las tuyas y por no ser ego\u00edsta cuando deber\u00edas haberlo sido.<\/p>\n<p>Stop blaming yourself for all the times you didn\u2019t appreciate yourself and for all the times when you allowed others to treat you the way they wanted.<\/p>\n<p>For all the times you didn\u2019t see that you matter and for all the times when you didn\u2019t see your true worth.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, be proud of the fact that you\u2019ve always worn your heart on your sleeve. Be proud of always being the good guy and for never hurting anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Pero sobre todo, <b>be proud of yourself for always doing your best. For always trying and for always taking a chance, even when maybe you shouldn\u2019t have.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Si\u00e9ntete orgulloso de ti mismo por haber sido siempre honesto y sincero. Por no haber sido nunca <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-tengas-miedo-de-volver-a-amar-no-todo-el-mundo-va-a-ser-como-tu-ex\/\"> asustado de amar <\/a> o miedo a exponerse, sin esperar nada a cambio.<\/p>\n<p><b>Be proud of your strength and power. Be proud of the fact that you\u2019ve survived every heartbreak and that you\u2019ve always managed to get up when they tried to knock you down. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, en lugar de culparte, t\u00f3mate todo lo que te ha ocurrido como una valiosa lecci\u00f3n y una experiencia digna.<\/p>\n<p><b>See each of your scars as a reminder of the things you went through and as a reminder that you\u2019ve always managed to rise and to pick up the pieces of your broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because trust me\u2014not many can do that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91818\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Perd\u00f3nese por las veces que olvid\u00f3 su propia val\u00eda\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are very well aware that forgiveness is a crucial part of letting go and moving on. With time, you\u2019ve learned that it is the only way to true liberation and to freeing yourself completely. And you keep forgiving the ones who have done you harm. You keep accepting the apologies you never got because&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Forgive-Yourself-For-The-Times-When-You-Forgot-Your-Own-Worth.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29260","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29260"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29260\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29260"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29260"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29260"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}