{"id":29268,"date":"2020-02-03T12:19:38","date_gmt":"2020-02-03T12:19:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29268"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:39:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:39:25","slug":"asi-es-como-aprenderas-a-desamarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-aprenderas-a-desamarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como aprender\u00e1s a no quererle"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s been a while now since this man walked away from you. The man you thought was your soulmate and forever person. <\/span><\/p>\n

El hombre con el que planeabas pasar el resto de tu vida y el hombre del que estabas convencida que nunca te abandonar\u00eda como lo hiciste t\u00fa.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s been a while since the man you loved more than anything left you. A while since you\u2019ve been feeling lost, desperate and brokenhearted. <\/span><\/p>\n

A while since you\u2019ve been stuck in one place, without any hope of moving forward.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando piensas en ello, recuerdas c\u00f3mo llegaste a amar a ese hombre. Recuerdas c\u00f3mo te enamoraste de \u00e9l y c\u00f3mo, con el tiempo, se convirti\u00f3 en el centro de tu universo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

But you can\u2019t seem to figure out the right way to <\/b>sup\u00e9ralo.<\/b><\/p>\n

No matter how you try, you can\u2019t forget about him and despite all of your efforts, you can\u2019t seem to figure out how to unlove him.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014even though you don\u2019t believe me now, you will heal, and you will be better. You will stop loving him sooner or later, and you\u2019ll leave him in the past, exactly where he belongs. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desamar\u00e1s a este hombre, de la misma manera que empezaste a amarlo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Bit it won\u2019t happen overnight. It is a process which takes time and devotion. <\/span>Firstly, you\u2019ll be angry at him. You\u2019ll be furious for everything he\u2019s done to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo pudo haber aplastado todos los sue\u00f1os que construyeron juntos? \u00bfC\u00f3mo pudo romperte el coraz\u00f3n sin pesta\u00f1ear?<\/span><\/p>\n

Then, you\u2019ll be angry at yourself. How could you have been so foolish to believe him? <\/span><\/p>\n

How come you didn\u2019t see his true face in time? How could you share a life with a man who obviously never loved you enough?<\/span><\/p>\n

After that, when you get rid of the anger, sadness will come. You\u2019ll only think about your beautiful memories and when you remember them, you’ll want this guy back in your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is when you\u2019ll start feeling lonely because you got used to always having him by your side. You\u2019ll be convinced that you will spend the rest of your life crying for this man.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Y cuando por fin toques fondo, no habr\u00e1 otra forma de subir.<\/span><\/p>\n

What you won\u2019t know is that while all of this was happening, you were actually travelling on the path of unloving this man. <\/b><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be aware that you\u2019ve already started your journey of <\/b>dej\u00e1ndolo ir<\/b><\/a>y que estas eran todas las fases de tu proceso de curaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

And then, one morning, all of a sudden, he won\u2019t be the first thing that comes to your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will catch yourself smiling without a particular reason, and you won\u2019t hear his voice in the back of your head.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you\u2019ll catch yourself not thinking about him every single day.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that your heart buried him and that he\u2019s become nothing more than a distant memory.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, you won\u2019t be scared of going through life on your own because you\u2019ll see that you made it just fine without him. You won\u2019t miss him, and you won\u2019t feel incomplete on your own.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you\u2019ll start enjoying your single life. You\u2019ll start pampering yourself the way you were spoiling him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start loving yourself more than you\u2019ve ever loved this guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

When that happens, you\u2019ll be more fulfilled than ever. You\u2019ll finally see how strong a woman you are. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that your worth doesn\u2019t have to do with the fact that this man loves you or doesn\u2019t love you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll remember that you existed before he entered your life and that his departure didn\u2019t destroy you or change the essence of your being.<\/span><\/p>\n

And just like that, you\u2019ll unlove him, the moment you start loving yourself for real.<\/b><\/p>\n

moment you realize that you\u2019ve always been more important than this man is the moment you\u2019ll stop idealizing him, and you\u2019ll see that he never deserved you.<\/span><\/p>\n

El momento en el que comprendes que ese chico que te dej\u00f3 fue en realidad lo mejor que te pod\u00eda haber pasado; el momento en el que <\/span>deje de esperar al cierre<\/span><\/a> y cuando te das cuenta de que simplemente no estabais hechos el uno para el otro.<\/span><\/p>\n

No, you won\u2019t forget that this man ever existed in your life. Instead, you\u2019ll start seeing him as a lesson, as a healed scar and as a vague reminder of past times.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean you will be haunted by the memory of him because the moment you stop loving him is the moment in which you won\u2019t feel his absence any more. <\/span><\/p>\n

The moment in which you won\u2019t feel this emptiness inside of your heart and the moment in which you won\u2019t crave for him anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"As\u00ed<\/p>\n

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