{"id":29304,"date":"2020-06-04T10:01:02","date_gmt":"2020-06-04T10:01:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29304"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:29:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:29:25","slug":"es-simple-si-el-no-te-persigue-no-quiere-estar-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-simple-si-el-no-te-persigue-no-quiere-estar-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Es muy sencillo: Si no te persigue, no quiere estar contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Es dif\u00edcil ser honesto con uno mismo cuando las emociones est\u00e1n a flor de piel. Oyes lo que quieres o\u00edr. Te das cuenta de las se\u00f1ales de que le gustas aunque no est\u00e9n realmente ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>You do everything to convince yourself that he cares. Maybe it\u2019s a bit less than you do, but still there are some feelings there.<\/p>\n<p>But there aren\u2019t any, not genuine feelings at least. He might like you.<\/p>\n<p>He might drop by when it\u2019s convenient. He might give you crumbs but he will never be all in.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>It\u2019s simple really, and we shouldn\u2019t complicate things. If a man wants you, he will pursue you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>If he doesn\u2019t, he might be living across the street, and he would still find excuses not to see you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106222\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The desire to pursue is incorporated into a man\u2019s DNA. He will go after the one he wants, and he will do the impossible to be by her side.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t, he is not interested in having a real and committed relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that it\u2019s so hard to be aware of that sometimes. Not just because you are so in love that you can\u2019t see clearly but because most men want something, but they don\u2019t want everything.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/ensartando-a-lo-largo-de-9-maneras-dicen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> &gt;atarte <\/a>. Te sirven mentiras y conocen todas las palabras adecuadas para que te quedes a su lado.<\/p>\n<p>Te dar\u00e1n lo suficiente para aguantar pero nunca lo suficiente para saber que sus corazones son s\u00f3lo tuyos.<\/p>\n<p>He will have his charming days. Days in which you\u2019ll be sure he\u2019s totally into you. Then he will flip the story upside down.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106223\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-while-she-cooks-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre besando a mujer mientras cocina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-while-she-cooks-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-while-she-cooks-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-while-she-cooks-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-while-she-cooks-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-while-she-cooks-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will forget to text you, sometimes even for days. He will come by when it\u2019s convenient. He will get mad without a reason.<\/p>\n<p>Y te sentir\u00e1s confuso. Se te pasar\u00e1n un mill\u00f3n de preguntas por la cabeza.<\/p>\n<p>Intentar\u00e1s llegar al fondo de las cosas. Te cuestionar\u00e1s e incluso empezar\u00e1s a pensar que ha sido cosa tuya.<\/p>\n<p>Stop! He\u2019s not worth it. He\u2019s not worth your time. He\u2019s not worth the chase.<\/p>\n<p><b>There\u2019s no point in going after someone who always has one foot out of the door. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>There\u2019s no happiness with a man who is not one hundred percent sure about his feelings for you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106225\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-man-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre preocupado pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-man-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-man-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-man-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-man-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-man-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be a woman who waits for his text as if her life depended on it. Don\u2019t let him come in and out of your life as he pleases.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him treat you like a doormat. Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Your feelings aren\u2019t toys he can play with. Your mind isn\u2019t something that he should mess with.<\/p>\n<p>Your body isn\u2019t at his disposal. Don\u2019t let him think that for a second.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 una mujer que sabe lo que vale. Ten confianza en ti misma. S\u00e9 valiente. S\u00e9 independiente.<\/p>\n<p>Toma tu vida y tu felicidad en tus manos.<\/p>\n<p>Never allow a man to waste your time. Don\u2019t wait for him to change. He never will.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106226\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada tumbada en la cama y pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Be the one who doesn\u2019t measure her value by her relationship status. Be the one who knows that being single is always better than putting up with a crappy relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t deny yourself the right to be with someone who can give you that old-fashioned type of love the one in which a man courts you and stops at nothing until he makes you his. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>No, this way of thinking is not a fairy tale. It\u2019s true, and it exists. It\u2019s just that you don\u2019t see it because of the all wrong men that surround you.<\/p>\n<p>Espera la historia de amor en la que un hombre te demuestre que le gustas. Aquella en la que planifica con antelaci\u00f3n. En la que se acuerda de mandarte un mensaje.<\/p>\n<p>En la que encuentra tiempo. En la que te muestra lo importante que eres. En la que te persigue.<\/p>\n<p><b>That\u2019s not too much to ask. You deserve a real love story with a man who is devoted to you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106227\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-sad-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-sad-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who will respect you and be there for you at all times. You deserve someone who accepts your flaws and doesn\u2019t rub your nose in them every time he feels like it.<\/p>\n<p>Te mereces a alguien en quien apoyarte, un hombre que sea tu mayor apoyo y te inspire para hacer grandes cosas.<\/p>\n<p>Te mereces el amor que te hace sentir segura. Te mereces lo aut\u00e9ntico, no algo falso y temporal.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t put up with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/no-perdere-mas-mi-tiempo-con-tus-senales-confusas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> &gt;se\u00f1ales mixtas <\/a> y poco esfuerzo. Usted debe ser su prioridad, no una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You should be his destination, not a stop along the way. Remember that, and don\u2019t fall for his lame excuses.<\/p>\n<p>Rest assured that the man you are supposed to end up with will pursue you. He won\u2019t complicate things and make your life a living hell.<\/p>\n<p>Te demostrar\u00e1 que el amor nunca se fuerza. Siempre fluye de forma natural de su coraz\u00f3n al tuyo, y viceversa una y otra vez.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106220\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Its-Simple-If-He-Isnt-Pursuing-You-He-Doesnt-Want-To-Be-With-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Es sencillo: si no te persigue, no quiere estar contigo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Its-Simple-If-He-Isnt-Pursuing-You-He-Doesnt-Want-To-Be-With-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Its-Simple-If-He-Isnt-Pursuing-You-He-Doesnt-Want-To-Be-With-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Its-Simple-If-He-Isnt-Pursuing-You-He-Doesnt-Want-To-Be-With-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s hard to be honest with yourself when your emotions are running wild. You hear what you want to hear. You notice the signs he is into you even if they are not really there. You do everything to convince yourself that he cares. Maybe it\u2019s a bit less than you do, but still there&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":106229,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Its-Simple-If-He-Isnt-Pursuing-You-He-Doesnt-Want-To-Be-With-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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