{"id":29370,"date":"2020-09-14T14:26:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T14:26:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29370"},"modified":"2021-12-20T18:12:34","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T18:12:34","slug":"si-usted-tiene-que-doblar-hacia-atras-para-estar-con-el-hes-no-el-encendido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-usted-tiene-que-doblar-hacia-atras-para-estar-con-el-hes-no-el-encendido\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tienes que inclinarte hacia atr\u00e1s para estar con \u00e9l, no es el indicado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Es muy duro ser siempre el que pone todo el esfuerzo mientras la otra parte no hace absolutamente nada.<\/p>\n

You bend over backward for someone, you do the impossible to make things between the two of you work even though you know deep down it\u2019s pointless but you can\u2019t seem to help yourself.<\/p>\n

Te preocupas tanto por ellos que no dejas de intentarlo con la esperanza de que te acepten. Por desgracia, casi nunca lo hacen.<\/p>\n

Your emotions shouldn\u2019t exhaust you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sure, relationships demand investments but they have to go from both sides. They re about give and take and you can\u2019t just keep on giving without getting anything in return.<\/p>\n

Agotar\u00e1s cada \u00e1tomo de tus fuerzas. Echar\u00e1s de menos el calor. Echar\u00e1s de menos tener a alguien en quien apoyarte. Echar\u00e1s de menos todo lo que sigues dando desinteresadamente.<\/p>\n

Te echar\u00e1s de menos porque, antes de que te des cuenta, estar\u00e1s emocionalmente agotado <\/a> sin nada que dar, ni a ti mismo ni a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t take the role of a martyr in your relationship. True love doesn\u2019t need sacrifices to that extent.<\/p>\n

Le has dado tanto que ya no te queda nada que darte a ti misma. <\/b><\/p>\n

He shouldn\u2019t behave like he is entitled to your heart. He shouldn\u2019t expect your call or text when he hasn\u2019t reached out for hours or even days. He shouldn\u2019t rely on you to make plans and go above and beyond so you guys could meet.<\/p>\n

He shouldn\u2019t take for granted the fact that you are always there for him when he needs you. He shouldn\u2019t come and go from your life and assume that you can flip the switch on your heart.<\/p>\n

You might be used to all of that but that\u2019s not how things should work. <\/b><\/p>\n

You will probably come to a point where everything starts to feel normal even though it\u2019s far from it. You are just used to things being bad that you have made peace with it.<\/p>\n

This is your wake up call. It\u2019s time to stop fighting for someone who isn\u2019t right for you. It\u2019s time to stop being a doormat he walks on.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas ser la luz de su mundo y no algo que pueda pisar.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Tienes que tomar conciencia de que te mereces algo mejor. Te mereces el amor que sigues dando. Te mereces a alguien en quien puedas confiar.<\/p>\n

Someone you can call or wake up in the middle of the night because you just had a nightmare you can\u2019t snap out of. Someone who makes you laugh and enjoys your smiling face.<\/p>\n

Alguien que te respete. Alguien que hace todas esas peque\u00f1as grandes cosas como texto con regularidad (en lugar de ignorando tus mensajes<\/a>) y planificar las citas con antelaci\u00f3n. Alguien que se implique e invierta en la relaci\u00f3n tanto como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Everything else is too little. Everything else is just crumbs. Everything else is forcing a relationship that isn\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\n

The bad shouldn\u2019t outweigh the good. <\/b><\/p>\n

Your emotions shouldn\u2019t jump up and down from happiness to sadness based on his mood of that day. Sure everyone has their bad days but that doesn\u2019t mean you can take it off out another person or treat her like crap.<\/p>\n

El amor es bondadoso y nunca debe hacerte da\u00f1o. Nunca deber\u00eda hacerte sentir peque\u00f1o y poco apreciado. Nunca deber\u00eda hacerte sentirse solo <\/a> .<\/p>\n

True love doesn\u2019t tolerate onesidedness.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

It needs balance. It needs equal investments. It needs to flow from one person to the other. It needs reciprocity. Without it, it can\u2019t survive.<\/p>\n

You know that well. Just peak into your heart and see that it isn\u2019t full anymore. It lacks affection and attention and, more importantly, it lacks self-love.<\/p>\n

If he truly was the one you wouldn\u2019t have to bend over backward to be with him. <\/b><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t have to work so hard to keep him in your life. You shouldn\u2019t go to all the lengths to make him treat you properly. You shouldn\u2019t read his mixed signals and be the one who always tries and gives more.<\/p>\n

He should be there, too. He should give back all that he is taking. He should be there through thick or thin. He should be in this relationship with you. And that’s the only truth.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, el amor est\u00e1 hecho para dos. Dos personas que se quieren profundamente y que har\u00edan cualquier cosa por permanecer juntas.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s so hard to always be the one who\u2019s putting in all the effort while the other side does absolutely nothing. You bend over backward for someone, you do the impossible to make things between the two of you work even though you know deep down it\u2019s pointless but you can\u2019t seem to help yourself….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":117449,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29370","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-You-Have-To-Bend-Over-Backward-To-Be-With-Him-Hes-Not-The-One-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29370","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29370"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29370\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117449"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29370"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29370"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29370"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}