{"id":29382,"date":"2020-08-05T08:15:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T08:15:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29382"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:19","slug":"si-no-aprecian-lo-que-traes-a-la-mesa-que-coman-solos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-aprecian-lo-que-traes-a-la-mesa-que-coman-solos\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no aprecian lo que aportas a la mesa, deja que coman solos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hace poco le\u00ed la siguiente cita en alguna parte: <b>I know what I bring to the table, and I\u2019m not afraid to eat alone.<\/b> He tardado dos largos d\u00edas en comprender de qu\u00e9 va esta cita.<\/p>\n<p>Lo primero que me vino a la mente es alguien que lleva comida real y f\u00edsica a la mesa.<\/p>\n<p>He knows what he is bringing and because of that he\u2019s not afraid to eat by himself. He\u2019s not afraid of everyone leaving him because he knows the true worth of the nourishment he is bringing.<\/p>\n<p>Esta es una interpretaci\u00f3n b\u00e1sica de la cita, pero cuando se profundiza en ella, uno se da cuenta de su verdadera belleza. Puede aplicarse b\u00e1sicamente a cualquier cosa y su significado sigue siendo el mismo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Si quieres que los dem\u00e1s te aprecien, tienes que saber lo que vales.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103013\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si no aprecian lo que aportas a la mesa, deja que coman solos\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto es lo primero que debes recordar para comprender el significado de la cita. Vuelve a leerla si es necesario.<\/p>\n<p>Absorb it. Feel the beauty of it. This simple statement means that you need to know your worth (you need to know what you\u2019re bringing to the table) if you want others to appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p>Algunas personas han olvidado lo dignas que son y se dan por sentadas, lo que pronto les lleva a decepcionarse de los dem\u00e1s. Tienes que entender que todo empieza por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que darte cuenta de tu valor y mostr\u00e1rselo a los dem\u00e1s para que sepan que no pueden tontear contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you\u2019re not worthy of being respected and appreciated for who you are.<\/p>\n<p>Eres incre\u00edble y eres suficiente. Y aunque la mayor\u00eda te diga lo contrario, \u00a1contr\u00e1stales y demu\u00e9strales que no tienen raz\u00f3n!<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the only one who knows what challenges you had to overcome in order to become who you are today. You\u2019re the only one who knows your ability to love, give and receive.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019re the only who can tell them that this is who you are, and they better appreciate it or you\u2019ll go with those awesome traits of yours somewhere else to someone else who will appreciate them.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pon l\u00edmites.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>La gente comete errores. Yo cometo errores. T\u00fa cometes errores. Y eso es lo que nos hace humanos.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to make mistakes, but you should also know when to apologize or when to say that it\u2019s enough.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres que los dem\u00e1s te respeten, debes fijar tus l\u00edmites y ce\u00f1irte a ellos. Si alguien te dice algo amable, dale las gracias.<\/p>\n<p>But, if someone pisses you off, don\u2019t be nice to them. Show them your rage, and they will respect you.<\/p>\n<p>Show them that you\u2019re only human just as they are, but also show them that you\u2019re not just any kind of human.<\/p>\n<p>You are a human with a big heart, and that is what distinguishes you from the others. And if they don\u2019t appreciate your big heart, they are certainly not worth your time.<\/p>\n<p>Life\u2019s too short to waste time on people who are not worth your second. You should never make someone a priority who is not ready to simply be there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Diles que aprecias demasiado tu vida como para perder el tiempo con gente como ellos. Diles: <b>It\u2019s enough!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Tienes que aprender a quererte por lo que eres.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103014\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"Si no aprecian lo que aportas a la mesa, deja que coman solos\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-1-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tienes una voz \u00fanica. Tienes una forma \u00fanica de pronunciar ciertas palabras.<\/p>\n<p>You have a unique way of walking, greeting people and smiling. There\u2019s not a single person in the world who shares your traits and abilities.<\/p>\n<p>You are you. And why would you let anyone tell you that you\u2019re not doing something right (if they don\u2019t have a valid reason for it)?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 dejar\u00edas que te hicieran odiarte por lo que eres? \u00bfQue te hagan desear ser otra persona? No hay bien ni mal.<\/p>\n<p>Nadie puede decirte que tu forma de caminar y de comportarte es incorrecta porque no est\u00e1 autorizado a juzgarte.<\/p>\n<p>Usted es una creaci\u00f3n propia. Todo lo que haces representa tu mente, deseos y anhelos \u00fanicos. Tienes que aprender a quererte por lo que eres, porque eres incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n<p><b>And if they don\u2019t appreciate what you bring to the table, let them eat alone.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If they don\u2019t appreciate you for who you are, don\u2019t change yourself. If they don\u2019t appreciate your efforts, stop trying.<\/p>\n<p>If they don\u2019t appreciate your love, give your heart to someone else. Just don\u2019t let them take you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them think that you\u2019ll do anything to make them happy. If you\u2019re not happy with something, leave.<\/p>\n<p>Demu\u00e9streles que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/perdonate-por-las-veces-que-olvidaste-tu-propio-valor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> conoce tu valor <\/a>, and if they don\u2019t respect it, leave them. Leave them because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/rompio-se-alejo-lo-suficientemente-bueno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> eres lo suficientemente bueno <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9jales porque t\u00fa tienes tus normas y no vas a cambiar s\u00f3lo para apaciguar su naturaleza codiciosa.<\/p>\n<p>And if they don\u2019t recognize your efforts and you\u2019re killing yourself to achieve something, leave them.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9jalos porque sabes que diste todo de ti, y ellos a\u00fan no son capaces de reconocerlo.<\/p>\n<p>And when you give all of yourself, you have every right to expect that it will be noticed and that you\u2019ll receive something in return.<\/p>\n<p><b>Espera a alguien que te respete y te quiera por lo que eres.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No dependes de nadie. Vuelve a recordarte que eres una creaci\u00f3n \u00fanica y que mereces a alguien que te trate con respeto, que te quiera por lo que eres.<\/p>\n<p>And if they don\u2019t appreciate you at your worst, they certainly don\u2019t deserve you at your best.<\/p>\n<p>Muestra tus verdaderos colores. Baila, sonr\u00ede, muestra rabia y espera a que alguien se fije en tu verdadera belleza.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que t\u00fa no eres tu pasado. No eres tus malas decisiones ni tus errores.<\/p>\n<p>You are here, living in the present, and if you\u2019re reading this, it means you\u2019re aware of yourself, and you\u2019re not afraid to get inspired by things around you.<\/p>\n<p>Ves el bien en todo el mundo, y por eso debes esperar a alguien que vea lo mismo en ti.<\/p>\n<p>But, please, don\u2019t try to be perfect. Know that you don\u2019t have to be perfect in order to be loved and respected.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas correctas te querr\u00e1n por lo que eres. Aceptar\u00e1n tus imperfecciones y se quedar\u00e1n contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas correctas nunca se ir\u00e1n, pase lo que pase, porque conocen la belleza de ser un ser humano imperfecto que vive en un mundo imperfecto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103015\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"Si no aprecian lo que aportas a la mesa, deja que coman solos\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone-pinterest-2-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently I read the following quote somewhere: I know what I bring to the table, and I\u2019m not afraid to eat alone. It took me two, long days to truly understand what this quote is about. The first thing that came to my mind is someone who is bringing actual, physical food to the table&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":103016,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-They-Dont-Appreciate-What-You-Bring-To-The-Table-Let-Them-Eat-Alone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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