{"id":29394,"date":"2018-12-05T09:14:27","date_gmt":"2018-12-05T09:14:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29394"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:14:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:14:02","slug":"7-formas-en-las-que-saboteas-accidentalmente-tu-relacion-de-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-formas-en-las-que-saboteas-accidentalmente-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"7 formas en las que saboteas tu relaci\u00f3n sin querer"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. Control mode \u2018ON\u2019<\/h2>\n<p>Es natural tener control sobre tu propia vida, pero no puedes controlar la vida de tu pareja ni cada peque\u00f1a cosa que te ocurra.<\/p>\n<p>Pensar con demasiada antelaci\u00f3n y tratar de predecir todas las situaciones posibles ser\u00e1 demasiado para cualquiera, y tu pareja puede sentirse f\u00e1cilmente agobiada por vivir seg\u00fan tus normas y deseos, lo que acabar\u00e1 por hacerle huir.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Esconder las cosas debajo de la alfombra<\/h2>\n<p>You expect things to sort themselves out. You don\u2019t want to deal with issues your relationship comes across. You just brush them under the carpet and pray that they\u2019ll magically disappear.<\/p>\n<p>They never do; they just get bigger and bigger as time goes by. Don\u2019t be afraid to face them. If you allow your problems to pile up, your relationship <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-signos-reveladores-de-rotura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">se romper\u00e1 inevitablemente<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Siempre a la derecha<\/h2>\n<p>Even though facing your problems is a good thing, you shouldn\u2019t create problems where they aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n<p>Your way of seeing and dealing with things doesn\u2019t always have to be right. Acknowledge the other person, and take their thoughts into consideration. Listen before you act, and try to see the bigger picture.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships are about togetherness, not about a division between who\u2019s right and who\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Comparar su relaci\u00f3n con la de sus amigos<\/h2>\n<p>Tu amiga te acaba de contar c\u00f3mo su novio le ha comprado alg\u00fan regalo incre\u00edble o ha planeado un viaje para los dos, y t\u00fa sientes que tu novio deber\u00eda hacer lo mismo. As\u00ed que empiezas a sentir que te est\u00e1s perdiendo algo en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, that could be the only decent thing your friend\u2019s boyfriend did in their entire relationship while yours is thriving in some other areas already.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas son diferentes; las relaciones son diferentes. Intenta no comparar cosas. Presta m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a las peque\u00f1as grandes cosas que tu novio hace por ti a diario.<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u201c An eye for an eye\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Revenge is never a good idea. If you\u2019ve talked things through with your boyfriend, if you\u2019ve decided to forgive him for something, leave it at that.<\/p>\n<p>There is no point in getting even, no matter how big or small his mistake was. Be the bigger person\u2014forgive. Because revenge is an endless circle, and there is no happiness there.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Existe algo llamado ser demasiado honesto<\/h2>\n<p>Demasiado de algo bueno te llevar\u00e1 por mal camino. Aunque la sinceridad es siempre la mejor manera de actuar, hay cosas que es mejor no decir.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner might mistake your brutally honest sentences for insults or attacks. It\u2019s ok to hold some things to yourself, especially the ones that can hurt your partner&#8217;s feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Aferramiento<\/h2>\n<p>La mitad de las mujeres son acusadas injustamente de aferradas, y la otra mitad lo son en realidad. Determina de qu\u00e9 lado est\u00e1s y s\u00e9 sincero contigo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>You should have your own life and not everything should revolve around your partner. If you notice that you depend on him for all sorts of things or expect him to make you happy, you might be clingy, and it\u2019s time to change that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-29398 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 formas en las que saboteas tu relaci\u00f3n sin querer\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Marry-The-Man-Who-Will-Be-The-Best-Father-To-Your-Children-5.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Control mode \u2018ON\u2019 It\u2019s only natural to have control over your own life, but you can\u2019t control your partner\u2019s life or every little thing that happens to you. Thinking too much ahead and trying to predict every possible situation will be too much for anyone to handle, and your partner can easily feel burdened&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":29397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29394","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/justin-chrn-1126631-unsplash-1.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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