{"id":2941,"date":"2020-08-02T11:52:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T11:52:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2941"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:30:06","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:30:06","slug":"al-tipo-que-hirio-a-la-chica-buena-mientras-le-dolia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-tipo-que-hirio-a-la-chica-buena-mientras-le-dolia\/","title":{"rendered":"Al Tipo Que Hiri\u00f3 A La Buena Chica Mientras Le Dol\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Para salvarte, la has rechazado. Por miedo a ser herido, nunca le diste una oportunidad, una verdadera oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p>Lo hiciste incluso <i> como <\/i> intentarlo. Fue un esfuerzo miserable. <b>You didn\u2019t allow yourself to feel while she was the one experiencing the feelings for both of you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Dejas que tu pasado se interponga en tu futuro.<\/b> Segu\u00edas mirando atr\u00e1s y viendo en ella todo lo que alguna vez te hizo da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>She paid for every time your heart was broken. She was the one to carry all the pain at once\u2014all the pain you\u2019ve been through in the past, she lived all at once thanks to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>In Japan, broken objects are often repaired with gold. The flaw is seen as a unique piece of the object\u2019s history, which adds to its beauty. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She could\u2019ve been the very gold for your heart if you gave her the chance. She could\u2019ve patched it together with her love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con abrigo rojo mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-red-coat-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Te asustabas cada vez que se acercaba demasiado a ti.<\/b> You couldn\u2019t keep the distance forever. She proved to you she was different, but you still fought back as if she were your worst enemy.<\/p>\n<p>You made her feel like she was doing something bad when in fact she was only loving you. You made her feel like she was to blame for how the things are between the two of you\u2014it was never you.<\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be called only when you were drunk. <\/b> She didn\u2019t deserve all those after-tequila calls followed by you admitting you care.<\/p>\n<p>You could\u2019ve manned up and said all those things while you were sober. <b>You could\u2019ve come to her straightforward instead of letting the alcohol speak out of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be lied to.<\/b> You lied that everything was fine and you lied when you said \u2018it was nothing\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>It was everything, but you didn\u2019t let her see the real you, the raw you. You chickened out.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107094\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>She didn\u2019t deserve to be hurt first before you got hurt.<\/b> You shouldn\u2019t have seen your relationship with her as a competition\u2014you wouldn\u2019t\u2019ve gotten out as a loser, but you were too blind to see it.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que elegiste ser el depredador s\u00f3lo para evitar convertirte en la presa.<\/p>\n<p>Her only sin was falling for an emotionally broken man. But she didn&#8217;t know you were unavailable.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00eda que estabas da\u00f1ado y eligi\u00f3 amarte a pesar de tu rotura, tus da\u00f1os y tus defectos, \u00bfy qu\u00e9 obtuvo a cambio? Bueno, se rompi\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><b>She deserved a chance, just a small try, even the tiniest effort would&#8217;ve done the cham. <\/b> You should\u2019ve given \u2018you\u2019 at least one chance, but a real one.<\/p>\n<p>Ella realmente se preocupaba por ti. Estaba dispuesta a arriesgarse. <b>Estaba lista para enamorarse de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y ella se enamor\u00f3 de ti. Pero en vez de atraparla, la dejaste caer de bruces.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107095\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el suelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t deserve the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She didn\u2019t deserve to be led on for months and then be left empty-handed.<\/p>\n<p>She didn&#8217;t deserve all the empty promises you made, she didn&#8217;t deserve to be led into believing you two had a future while you were only using her to feel better, to feed your insecurities and to not be alone.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of using her and pushing her away, you should&#8217;ve let her in. She&#8217;d help you heal.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;d show you that there is more to love and life than you&#8217;ve already seen. She&#8217;d loved you the right way. But you were too guarded and too selfish to do that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ahora le hiciste a ella todo lo que te hicieron a ti. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te hace sentir hacer el mismo da\u00f1o que te hicieron a ti? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t blame it on your past or the hell you&#8217;ve been through. Because you could&#8217;ve made it, if you only gave her a chance.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-casi-rompo\/\">Rompiste una buena chica<\/a> and, darling, this one&#8217;s on you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107092\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Al Tipo Que Hiri\u00f3 A La Buena Chica Mientras Le Dol\u00eda\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Hurt-The-Good-Girl-While-He-Was-Hurting-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In order to save yourself, you\u2019ve brushed her off. Because of the fear of being hurt, you never gave her a chance, a real chance. You did even like try. It was a miserable effort. You didn\u2019t allow yourself to feel while she was the one experiencing the feelings for both of you. 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