{"id":29449,"date":"2020-05-05T13:53:54","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T13:53:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29449"},"modified":"2022-03-15T00:54:24","modified_gmt":"2022-03-15T00:54:24","slug":"5-maneras-de-reencontrarse-a-si-mismo-tras-una-ruptura-demoledora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-de-reencontrarse-a-si-mismo-tras-una-ruptura-demoledora\/","title":{"rendered":"5 formas de reencontrarse a s\u00ed mismo tras una ruptura devastadora"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfAlguna vez se ha sentido completamente perdido tras perder a alguien de quien estaba convencido que era el amor de su vida?<\/p>\n<p>The pain consumes you completely and you can\u2019t seem to find a way out of this darkness.<\/p>\n<p>I know this is terrifying but the good news is that we\u2019ve all been there. And even though the path to recovery is a difficult one, it exists, even if you don\u2019t see it now.<\/p>\n<p>When the person you\u2019ve loved more than anything walks away from you or hurts you in any other way, you see it as the end of the world.<\/p>\n<p>For years, this was the man who you thought gave your life meaning and you just can\u2019t seem to move on without him by your side.<\/p>\n<p>You are afraid of living your life on your own and you think you could never make it now that you don\u2019t have him to hold your hand.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like you ceased to exist as an individual while you were with him and you are terrified of stepping into your new life chapter because you\u2019ve completely lost yourself through this relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Pero hay algunas maneras que pueden ayudarle a recoger sus pedazos rotos y ayudarle a encontrarse de nuevo despu\u00e9s de una ruptura dolorosa y aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n algunos de ellos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rompe todos los lazos con quien te ha hecho da\u00f1o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98201\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-lying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo primero que tienes que hacer si realmente quieres recuperarte de una ruptura devastadora es cortar todos los lazos con la fuente de tu dolor y ese es el hombre que te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Pero cuando te digo esto, no estoy hablando s\u00f3lo de no tener contacto con \u00e9l, aunque esto es exactamente lo que debes hacer.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n te digo que cortes con todos los que no paran de mencionarle, que dejes de escuchar las canciones que puedan recordarte a \u00e9l, que te deshagas de todas tus fotos y de sus cosas.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not advising you to pretend as if this man never existed because that would be self-deceiving.<\/p>\n<p>Esto s\u00f3lo ser\u00e1 una forma de que no sigas rompi\u00e9ndote el coraz\u00f3n de nuevo cada vez que te encuentres con alguien o veas algo relacionado con este chico.<\/p>\n<p>Haz todo lo posible por protegerte de todo lo que pueda recordarte a \u00e9l y todo lo que has pasado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Accept your pain but don\u2019t let it define you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98202\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven respirando profundamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you are emotionally broken, one of the worst things you can do is to pretend that the pain doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>I know this is one of your first instincts and that running away from the negativity appears to be easier but trust me\u2014it is not.<\/p>\n<p>So instead of doing this, accept the pain. Accept the anger. Look your emotions straight in the eye and confront them fearlessly. But don\u2019t let them define you.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, they are a part of you at this moment. But it doesn\u2019t mean that you are not the person you used to be.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t have a lot to offer besides this devastating pain you are feeling right now.<\/p>\n<p>Remember\u2014your heart being broken doesn\u2019t mean that you are broken as well.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Perm\u00edtase sanar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98203\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/calm-woman-taking-fresh-breath.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tranquila respirando aire fresco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/calm-woman-taking-fresh-breath.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/calm-woman-taking-fresh-breath-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/calm-woman-taking-fresh-breath-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/calm-woman-taking-fresh-breath-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/calm-woman-taking-fresh-breath-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Healthy healing is a process. Don\u2019t compare yourself to anyone and don\u2019t think that you are taking too long to fix your broken heart.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que en lugar de precipitarte, date tiempo para curarte y recuerda que este dolor es s\u00f3lo temporal.<\/p>\n<p>Si tienes ganas de llorar, llora. Si tienes ganas de gritar, grita. Haz lo que sea que te facilite sobrellevar el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Just don\u2019t expect to be better overnight. Don\u2019t expect for someone to come along with a magic wand to chase all of your pain away.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you\u2019ve been through some serious stuff and it will take some time before things go back to the way they should be.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trabaja en ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98204\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-working-out-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven haciendo ejercicio en el gimnasio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-working-out-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-working-out-in-the-gym-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-working-out-in-the-gym-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-working-out-in-the-gym-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-working-out-in-the-gym-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una vez que veas que puedes desenvolverte en la vida cotidiana, es hora de cambiar el foco de atenci\u00f3n de tu dolor a ti mismo y mantenerte ocupado es la mejor forma de hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>No digo que esto vaya a hacer maravillas, pero sin duda te ayudar\u00e1 a no pensar en todo lo que ha pasado.<\/p>\n<p>La mejor manera de encontrar tu verdadero yo despu\u00e9s de pasar por cualquier tipo de trauma emocional es trabajar para mejorarte a ti mismo de la mejor manera posible.<\/p>\n<p>This is the period in which you\u2019ll have to learn to love yourself and the way to do it is by <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ideas-para-salir-solo\/\">mimarse<\/a> y ser ego\u00edsta por una vez.<\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t feel like getting out of bed but start with setting yourself up with small goals and once you see that you\u2019ve managed to accomplish them, your faith in your own strength will be restored.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, you\u2019ll feel more motivated and before you know it, things will get better.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t lose faith in love<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98205\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-praying-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rezando al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-praying-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-praying-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-praying-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-praying-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-praying-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes que debes recordar en el proceso de no perderte es no perder la fe en el amor.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerde que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-tengas-miedo-de-volver-a-amar-no-todo-el-mundo-va-a-ser-como-tu-ex\/\">no todos los hombres son como tu ex<\/a> y s\u00f3lo necesitas a un tipo para demostr\u00e1rtelo.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que ahora est\u00e1s amargado y pesimista y que est\u00e1s convencido de que la \u00fanica forma de proteger tu coraz\u00f3n para que no se rompa una vez m\u00e1s es construir altos muros a su alrededor.<\/p>\n<p>But trust me\u2014becoming overly guarded is not the answer.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing wrong with becoming more careful after a bad experience but if this man has made you think that you are unlovable or if he killed all of your hopes of finding your Mr. Perfect, he is the one who won and that is something you shouldn\u2019t allow.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98200\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Ways-To-Find-Yourself-Again-After-A-Shattering-Break-Up-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 formas de reencontrarse a s\u00ed mismo tras una ruptura devastadora\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Ways-To-Find-Yourself-Again-After-A-Shattering-Break-Up-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Ways-To-Find-Yourself-Again-After-A-Shattering-Break-Up-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Ways-To-Find-Yourself-Again-After-A-Shattering-Break-Up-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt completely lost after losing someone you were convinced was the love of your life? The pain consumes you completely and you can\u2019t seem to find a way out of this darkness. I know this is terrifying but the good news is that we\u2019ve all been there. And even though the path&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":98206,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29449","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/5-Ways-To-Find-Yourself-Again-After-A-Shattering-Break-Up.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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