{"id":29482,"date":"2020-06-06T09:10:12","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T09:10:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29482"},"modified":"2021-12-15T21:28:02","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T21:28:02","slug":"7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-tu-pareja-es-mala-en-los-mensajes-de-texto-pero-genial-en-la-vida-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-tu-pareja-es-mala-en-los-mensajes-de-texto-pero-genial-en-la-vida-real\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que hacer cuando a tu pareja se le dan mal los mensajes de texto (pero es genial en la vida real)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As\u00ed que has conocido a un chico estupendo y te lo est\u00e1s pasando como nunca, pero es un aut\u00e9ntico antitalento cuando se trata de enviar mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n<p>When the two of you are together, everything\u2019s perfect but when it comes to texting, you always have to wait for him to reply or you receive one-word replies.<\/p>\n<p>This is really annoying and you have every right to feel \u2018betrayed\u2019. But you have to understand that guys usually don\u2019t use texting as a means of connecting with someone.<\/p>\n<p>La utilizan para organizar reuniones o para un simple intercambio de informaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t understand that this pisses you off because they don\u2019t see it the way you see it. And that is why you should never question his affection for you or think that he\u2019s deliberately ignoring you.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, debes intentar comprenderlo y llegar a un acuerdo con \u00e9l si es necesario.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>Here are 7 tips that will help you deal with your partner\u2019s bad texting skills:<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t overwhelm him with texting<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93443\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you see that he\u2019s really bad at texting but great in real life, you should never force him to answer you or overwhelm him with a hundred messages in his inbox.<\/p>\n<p>If you do that, he will feel that you\u2019re forcing him to do something he doesn\u2019t like or he\u2019s simply not good at.<\/p>\n<p>Always give him space so that he doesn\u2019t feel cornered or imprisoned by you.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9n los mensajes de texto al m\u00ednimo y env\u00edale mensajes s\u00f3lo cuando se trate de asuntos y acuerdos importantes o cuando realmente le necesites y no puedas esperar a hablar con \u00e9l en persona.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t take it to heart<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta mordi\u00e9ndose las u\u00f1as\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Try to understand that you have a great guy in your life but he\u2019s just not that into texting, which shouldn\u2019t influence the quality of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let your emotions manipulate you into believing that this is a real catastrophe because it is not and you know it too.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are simply not good at some things or they don\u2019t enjoy it the same way as you do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">V\u00e9alo en persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93445\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente mirando a los ojos hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo mejor que puedes hacer en esta situaci\u00f3n es seguir vi\u00e9ndole en persona con la mayor frecuencia posible. Es una alternativa mucho mejor que los mensajes de texto y adem\u00e1s te ayudar\u00e1 a mantener los nervios a flor de piel.<\/p>\n<p>Reserva algunos temas que te gustar\u00eda tratar con \u00e9l y an\u00f3talos en un papel si es necesario, para poder recordarlos m\u00e1s tarde.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll never get bored and you will take your relationship to another level.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre tendr\u00e9is algo interesante de lo que hablar, lo que enriquecer\u00e1 el tiempo que pas\u00e9is juntos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ll\u00e1male<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93446\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven hablando por tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t wait to see him, you can always call him and talk to him about everything that comes to your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n es una buena alternativa a los mensajes de texto, ya que podr\u00e1s o\u00edr su voz y escucharle sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n<p>And he will also enjoy it because calling has more benefits and it\u2019s healthier for your relationship than texting.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">H\u00e1blale de ello<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93447\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio mirando a mujer \" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve tried everything and you still cannot accept this misfortune of him being bad at texting, you should consider talking to him about it.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t raise your voice or freak out about it.<\/p>\n<p>Just stay calm and put everything into words nicely so that he doesn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re blaming him for something.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you\u2019re not mad at him but you would like him to try to work on his texting skills.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t confuse his being bad at texting with his affection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93448\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer enviando mensajes de texto en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-texting-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-razones-por-las-que-nunca-te-manda-un-mensaje-primero-pero-siempre-responde-cuando-le-mandas-un-mensaje\/\">\u00bfEst\u00e1 esperando a que le mande un mensaje primero<\/a>? What if he doesn&#8217;t like me?<\/em> Don&#8217;t let such and similar questions interfere with your romance.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca confundas su problema con los mensajes de texto con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-debes-saber-si-a-tu-pareja-le-cuesta-mostrar-afecto\/\">su afecto por ti<\/a>. It\u2019s obvious that he really likes you and wants to be with you because he wouldn\u2019t bother showing it in real life if this wasn\u2019t so.<\/p>\n<p>Being bad at texting is another type of problem and you should never question his feelings for you if he doesn\u2019t answer you immediately or if he replies with one word.<\/p>\n<p>Y si sigues forz\u00e1ndole a validar sus sentimientos por ti, arruinar\u00e1s vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ac\u00e9ptalo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93449\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz abrazando a un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/happy-woman-hugging-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En lugar de verlo como un problema, hay que aceptarlo. Es una gran oportunidad para pasar m\u00e1s tiempo al aire libre y realizar distintas actividades con tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>You will have more energy and you will feel more stress-free because you won\u2019t be frustrated over him not texting you back.<\/p>\n<p>You should embrace it because you\u2019ll have more fun in life and you\u2019ll spend more quality time with your partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93442\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 cosas que hacer cuando a tu pareja se le dan mal los mensajes de texto (pero es genial en la vida real)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, you\u2019ve met a great guy and you\u2019re having the time of your life but he\u2019s a real anti-talent when it comes to texting. When the two of you are together, everything\u2019s perfect but when it comes to texting, you always have to wait for him to reply or you receive one-word replies. This is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93450,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Things-To-Do-When-Your-Partners-Bad-At-Texting-But-Great-In-Real-Life.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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