{"id":29486,"date":"2018-12-06T09:09:26","date_gmt":"2018-12-06T09:09:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29486"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:12:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:12:33","slug":"5-cosas-que-nunca-dirias-si-fueras-realmente-feliz-con-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-nunca-dirias-si-fueras-realmente-feliz-con-el\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que nunca dir\u00edas si fueras realmente feliz con \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si tienes que convencerte de que tu relaci\u00f3n es feliz y de que has encontrado el hombre adecuado<\/span><\/a>, then you probably aren\u2019t as content as you would like to be.<\/p>\n

If you find yourself in situations where you keep finding excuses as to why things aren\u2019t that peachy anymore and are constantly trying to make yourself believe that this is how it\u2019s supposed to be, then you probably aren\u2019t that happy with him anymore.<\/p>\n

When you have to convince yourself that you\u2019re happy, that is a clear sign that your relationship isn\u2019t fulfilling anymore.<\/p>\n

Here are 5 things people only say when they\u2019re no longer happy with their partners but are trying to convince themselves otherwise.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t lie to yourself anymore, and figure out what makes you happy. Then go for it!<\/p>\n

1. \u201cAfter being together for a while, the excitement is supposed to go away.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n

It is impossible to have those first-date jitters and butterflies for the duration of your entire relationship. That usually occurs at the beginning of the relationship while you\u2019re still falling for each other.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean you should stop being excited about seeing tu hombre<\/span><\/a>! He is still the one you come home to every day, and if the thought of seeing his face at the end of a long day doesn\u2019t put a smile on your face, you\u2019re probably not as happy as you think you are.<\/p>\n

Your man is someone who should make you feel warm and happy to be home, not someone whose presence annoys you and makes you go crazy or even worse\u2014uninterested. That is a sign of a bigger problem.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cWork is just stressing us out, that\u2019s all.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n

You will go through challenges in life. It\u2019s not always going to be easy, and you\u2019re not always going to be happy with one another. All relationships go through their ups and downs, but the important thing is that you both want to work on it.<\/p>\n

But if you keep blaming outside influences for your perpetual problems, that might mean there is something bigger going on. When you always find a good excuse for why you and your partner have disconnected\u2014like work, family and other stuff\u2014you will never be happy. You\u2019re just lying to yourself.<\/p>\n

Try to find the real issue here, and stop blaming your unhappiness with each other on things that have nothing to do with it. If you two simply aren\u2019t working anymore and there is no more spark or mutual respect, it\u2019s better to call it quits than to keep finding excuses.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re making yourself more miserable than you need to be.<\/p>\n

3. \u201cI don\u2019t want to bother him with my issues; it\u2019s not important.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n

Tu hombre es tu santuario. Es la persona que se supone que estar a tu lado<\/span><\/a> and be your helping hand through life\u2019s unpredictable storms.<\/p>\n

Siempre deber\u00edas querer desahogarte con \u00e9l y compartir tus problemas m\u00e1s profundos y oscuros porque \u00e9l deber\u00eda estar ah\u00ed para ti en las buenas y en las malas.<\/p>\n

If you find yourself not wanting to open up to him, and instead, talk to your friends and family while keeping him in the dark, you\u2019re probably no longer feeling connected to him and need to reevaluate your relationship.<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWe\u2019ll deal with it eventually.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n

Si tienes problemas en tu relaci\u00f3n, tienes que resolverlos cuanto antes. Aplazar las cosas y no tratarlas cuando los sentimientos a\u00fan est\u00e1n frescos va a estropear vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Comprometerse<\/span><\/a> to one another doesn\u2019t mean being without issues. It means dealing with them in a healthy way and wanting to fight for each other\u2014always.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t have the will to talk things over anymore and would just rather sweep things under the rug, eventually, it\u2019s going to seal the deal\u2014and not in a good way.<\/p>\n

O habl\u00e1is de vuestros problemas y trabaj\u00e1is en vuestra relaci\u00f3n o romp\u00e9is y os centr\u00e1is en encontrar a alguien que os haga querer esforzaros.<\/p>\n

5. \u201cIt just makes sense to stay together, for practical reasons.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re only staying with him for things that have nothing to do with love and respect, you\u2019re in it for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t keep being in a loveless relationship just because it\u2019s more convenient that way! If you two are living together and it would just be so complicated to move out and find a new place, you should break it off ASAP.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be with someone out of love and not out of practicality! Everything can be worked out. Don\u2019t be discouraged just because it seems a little complicated right now. Make the best decision for yourself, and don\u2019t stick around just because it makes more sense on paper.<\/p>\n

Listen to your heart, and do what feels right\u2014not what feels practical.<\/p>\n

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