c\u00farate a ti mismo<\/a>.<\/p>\nNunca podr\u00e1s vivir en paz y armon\u00eda contigo mismo porque la decisi\u00f3n de seguir siendo su amigo te perseguir\u00e1.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ve been intimate<\/h2>\n
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Intimacy is something we shouldn\u2019t take for granted because it is a powerful force that connects us with another human being.<\/p>\n
And once you\u2019re connected, it is hard to disconnect. It is hard to forget the smell of their hair, the way they kiss or hug.<\/p>\n
Once you share your heart and intimacy with someone, they automatically become a part of you and that is why it is almost impossible to all of a sudden shift to the \u2018just friends\u2019 label.<\/p>\n
You will always have some d\u00e9j\u00e0 vus and they will always remind you of what the two of you used to have.<\/p>\n
Ser\u00e1s incapaz de seguir adelante<\/h2>\n
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Si decides seguir siendo su amigo, nunca podr\u00e1s seguir adelante. Vivir\u00e1s en el pasado y en el presente al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n
And the more you go forward, the more you\u2019ll be pulled back.<\/p>\n
You will never be able to find your true self and erase your past because you\u2019ll be too busy thinking about what went wrong.<\/p>\n
Podr\u00eda poner celosa a tu nueva pareja<\/h2>\n
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Seguir siendo amigo de tu ex podr\u00eda afectar mucho a tu nueva pareja potencial.<\/p>\n
They could become jealous and start questioning whether you\u2019ve gotten over them or not. And it will influence them to behave possessively even though they\u2019re not that kind of a person.<\/p>\n
They will never be 100% sure that you\u2019ll not change your mind and reunite with them and that will cause stress and unnecessary arguments with your new, potential partner.<\/p>\n
Estar\u00e1s en una constante monta\u00f1a rusa emocional<\/h2>\n
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Si sigues siendo amigo de alguien a quien una vez quisiste, prep\u00e1rate para estar en una constante monta\u00f1a rusa emocional.<\/p>\n
Tendr\u00e1s sentimientos encontrados sobre todo.<\/p>\n
Sus acciones le recordar\u00e1n sus momentos felices juntos y le har\u00e1n cuestionarse la validez de su decisi\u00f3n de tomar caminos separados.<\/p>\n
Las emociones son realmente complicadas y nuestro cerebro nunca olvida nada.<\/p>\n
Incluso una palabra que \u00e9l haya pronunciado antes puede desencadenar ciertas emociones en ti y hacer que te sientas perdido y confuso. Es porque tu cerebro no entiende que se ha acabado.<\/p>\n
Tu cerebro est\u00e1 programado para disfrutar de las cosas que sol\u00edas disfrutar antes y por eso tus sentimientos pueden aparecer cuando menos te lo esperas.<\/p>\n
And you\u2019ll be in a constant labyrinth of questioning everything.<\/p>\n
La gente podr\u00eda hacerse una idea equivocada![\"la](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/family-having-fun-together.jpg\")
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Tus amigos y familiares podr\u00edan confundirlo con que intentas reunirte con ellos y por eso empezar\u00e1n a hacerte preguntas innecesarias.<\/p>\n
Demostrarles que tus intenciones son exclusivamente amistosas no les tranquilizar\u00e1.<\/p>\n
Y es realmente frustrante cuando necesitas validar cada uno de tus pasos y pensamientos ante ellos.<\/p>\n
To you, \u2018just friends\u2019 might mean something completely different to what they are imagined and in this case, staying away from your ex would be a much better alternative.<\/p>\n
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