{"id":29503,"date":"2020-07-06T11:13:50","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T11:13:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29503"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:58:55","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:58:55","slug":"por-favor-deja-de-regalar-tu-energia-a-la-gente-equivocada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-favor-deja-de-regalar-tu-energia-a-la-gente-equivocada\/","title":{"rendered":"Por favor, deja de regalar tu energ\u00eda a la gente equivocada"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eres cualquier cosa menos una tonta. Eres una mujer inteligente, independiente, lista y autosuficiente. Sabes cu\u00e1nto te mereces y conoces tu val\u00eda.<\/p>\n

So, what exactly is the problem? Why do you keep letting the wrong people in and giving them your heart? Why do you keep wasting your time and energy on those who don\u2019t deserve it?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 permites que los dem\u00e1s te agoten y drenen toda tu energ\u00eda positiva? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 sigues aferr\u00e1ndote a alguien, cuando sabes muy bien que deber\u00edas suelta<\/a>?<\/p>\n

I know that cutting off toxic people from your life isn\u2019t easy. That breaking all ties with someone who\u2019s been around for years means stepping out of your comfort zone. I know you are scared of doing all of this, even when you know it is the only option you have.<\/p>\n

But I am here to tell you that it\u2019s time for you to el\u00edgete a ti mismo por encima de los dem\u00e1s.<\/b> And most of all, I am here to tell you that you are strong enough to do it, even if you don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Please, understand that it\u2019s time for you to deja de preocuparte por los dem\u00e1s m\u00e1s de lo que ellos se preocupan por ti.<\/b> Remember that someone\u2019s efforts are the only reflection of their love for you.<\/p>\n

If a guy acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, it is probably the truth and you better start believing him.<\/p>\n

And this goes for everyone else in your life as well. You are not everyone\u2019s mother and making others feel good and rearranging their lives is not your duty.<\/p>\n

En lugar de intentar mejorar a otra persona, c\u00e9ntrate en convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo. Trabaja en hacerte feliz porque esa es la \u00fanica responsabilidad que tienes y es algo que te debes a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Deja de amar a los tipos equivocados m\u00e1s de lo que te amas a ti misma. En realidad, dejar de amar a nadie m\u00e1s de lo que amas a ti mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Por \u00faltimo, ponte t\u00fa primero y deja de dar prioridad a quienes te tratan como a una segunda opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, empieza a valorar tu propio tiempo y esfuerzo y todos los que te rodean te seguir\u00e1n. Empieza a respetarte y a darte a ti mismo el amor que esperas de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Deja de perseguir a los hombres equivocados y deja mendigando su atenci\u00f3n o su amor<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

The moment you see that a guy is playing mind games with you and the moment you see he is trying to make you go after him, understand that he isn\u2019t worthy of your trouble.<\/p>\n

Porque el hombre adecuado te dar\u00e1 todo su amor, sin que tengas que ped\u00edrselo.<\/p>\n

Te prestar\u00e1 toda su atenci\u00f3n y nunca te har\u00e1 sentir indeseada o poco querida. Y si tu chico no es as\u00ed, pasa de \u00e9l, por mucho que te duela.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Deja de intentar <\/b>arreglar a la gente rota<\/b><\/a> who don\u2019t want to heal.<\/b> You need to understand that there are some people who are incapable of loving and it is not your job to ty to save them because you\u2019ll never succeed in doing so.<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019ll just end up being dragged into their darkness and they\u2019ll end up damaging you.<\/p>\n

Deja de esperar un cambio que nunca llegar\u00e1.<\/b> You are a big girl now and you know that sadly, sometimes your love isn\u2019t enough for those who are incapable of loving, regardless of its magnitude or depth.<\/p>\n

So, stop making excuses and stop justifying someone mistreating you. He doesn\u2019t love you in his own special way and he isn\u2019t emotionally damaged\u2014he is a jerk who keeps on breaking your heart and it\u2019s about time you accept this.<\/p>\n

Deja de permitir que otros te infecten con su toxicidad y negatividad.<\/b> Stop thinking about everyone else\u2019s problems, especially when these people couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I know that you are an emp\u00e1tico<\/a> who can\u2019t stay immune to the  misfortune of others.<\/p>\n

But you need to understand that you can\u2019t be everyone\u2019s shoulder to cry on and that you don\u2019t have the ability to repair all the damage in this world.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que eres fuerte, pero tambi\u00e9n eres un ser humano. No eres una supermujer que puede arreglar todo de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, guarda tu energ\u00eda para ti. Porque una vez que te metes en problemas, el<\/b>re won\u2019t be anyone to give you a hand. There won\u2019t be anyone you can count on and you\u2019ll understand that you are on your own.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that is when you\u2019ll understand that you need all the inner strength you can get.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ll understand that you are the one who has to pick up the broken pieces of herself and that you are the one who has to put herself back together, without anyone\u2019s help. That is when you\u2019ll understand that you can\u2019t rely on anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n

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You are anything but a fool. You are an intelligent, independent, smart and self-sufficient woman. You know how much you deserve and you know your worth. So, what exactly is the problem? Why do you keep letting the wrong people in and giving them your heart? Why do you keep wasting your time and energy…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":94663,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Please-Stop-Giving-Your-Energy-Away-To-The-Wrong-People.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29503"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29503\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}