{"id":29558,"date":"2020-03-07T08:36:22","date_gmt":"2020-03-07T08:36:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29558"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:31:34","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:31:34","slug":"las-9-etapas-de-la-relacion-por-las-que-pasan-todas-las-parejas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-9-etapas-de-la-relacion-por-las-que-pasan-todas-las-parejas\/","title":{"rendered":"Las 9 etapas de la relaci\u00f3n por las que pasan todas las parejas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las relaciones pueden ser complicadas y duras, y requieren un equilibrio perfecto entre dar y recibir para sobrevivir a todos los obst\u00e1culos.<\/p>\n

Every relationship is a unique experience in itself and you can never know how it\u2019s going to finish until you reach the end of the relationship cycle.<\/p>\n

But, there are some stages that all couples need to go through and if they \u2018survive\u2019 them, they will reach the stage of an unconditional love meaning that they have developed an ultimate trust and mutual understanding of each other.<\/p>\n

Si fracasas en la primera etapa, nunca llegar\u00e1s a la siguiente, porque todas est\u00e1n interconectadas.<\/p>\n

Por eso las relaciones requieren grandes dosis de esfuerzo para sobrevivir y volverse indestructibles.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Algunas parejas se dar\u00e1n cuenta despu\u00e9s de la primera etapa de que no son compatibles entre s\u00ed y es entonces cuando deciden tomar caminos separados.<\/p>\n

The worst thing that could happen is to fail in the very last stages when you\u2019re almost there.<\/p>\n

Por muy dif\u00edcil que parezca, no cejes en tu empe\u00f1o de reavivar la pasi\u00f3n y dar alegr\u00eda a tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Piensa en las relaciones como si fueran beb\u00e9s. Necesitan que se les alimente, vista y ba\u00f1e constantemente, y necesitan el calor del amor.<\/p>\n

That is how you should treat your relationship if you don\u2019t want to get stuck at one stage and waste your potential for unconditional love.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Y t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n puedes conseguirlo. Solo tienes que confiar en ti mismo y esforzarte siempre pase lo que pase, y el \u00e9xito estar\u00e1 garantizado.<\/p>\n

Here are 9 stages of a relationship that all couples need to go through and you\u2019ll find all of them described in detail below:<\/b><\/p>\n

1. Etapa de atracci\u00f3n y enamoramiento<\/p>\n

2. La fase de comprensi\u00f3n<\/p>\n

3. La fase de lucha<\/p>\n

4. Etapa de opini\u00f3n y expectativas<\/p>\n

5. La etapa de dar y recibir<\/p>\n

6. La etapa del amor radiante<\/p>\n

7. La etapa de crisis<\/p>\n

8. La etapa de la confianza inquebrantable<\/p>\n

9. La etapa del amor incondicional<\/p>\n

Etapa de atracci\u00f3n y enamoramiento<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is the first relationship stage that we go through when we meet someone who makes us feel like we\u2019re living in clouds.<\/p>\n

It has the same effect on our brain like drugs, except that you\u2019re being high on love. And you can never get enough of this feeling.<\/p>\n

Aprecias cada segundo que pasas con esa persona y quieres que dure hasta la eternidad.<\/p>\n

And when the two of you part, you feel like you\u2019re missing a big part of you even though the two of you haven\u2019t been together for a long time now.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La atracci\u00f3n es algo muy poderoso y a veces nos hace comportarnos de forma irracional.<\/p>\n

For example, you\u2019ve met a chico malo<\/a> o una chica y sabes que no te conviene, pero sigues dese\u00e1ndolo.<\/p>\n

You still want them so bad because you\u2019re in a way ADDICTED to them. You\u2019re addicted to the way how they make you feel.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re infatuated by them because you\u2019ve never felt like this before and it\u2019s a real breakthrough for you.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you\u2019ll go through the different kinds of happy, but sometimes it may end fatally if you rush things instead of taking it slowly.<\/p>\n

Etapa de comprensi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En la fase de comprensi\u00f3n, los dos se dedican a conocerse mejor.<\/p>\n

You talk a lot and it feels like you\u2019ll never run out of potential topics. Whatever you say to your partner, it immediately turns into a discussion.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you realize each other\u2019s likings, preferences, attitudes, interests and many more.<\/p>\n

Esta etapa consiste en entenderse y escarbar cada vez m\u00e1s para desenterrar todo lo que quieres saber sobre la persona que te gusta.<\/p>\n

You ask each other questions all the time and you\u2019re happy and excited about everything new you hear about your partner.<\/p>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

Y entonces empiezas a formar su personalidad en tu cabeza y por fin conoces todas las piezas que faltan del puzzle.<\/p>\n

You learn so much about them and you don\u2019t forget to tell everyone what an amazing partner you have.<\/p>\n

Esta etapa tambi\u00e9n consiste en comprenderte a ti mismo y saber qu\u00e9 esperas de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You either want it to continue or you see that it is not going to work like you\u2019ve thought it might. You get the understanding of your own feelings because finally, everything makes sense to you.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve known them for years and you\u2019re all positive about the outcome.<\/p>\n

La etapa de la lucha<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La tercera, la etapa de lucha, es aquella en la que el enamoramiento pierde intensidad y te das cuenta de que las cosas ya no son tan vibrantes como al principio.<\/p>\n

This stage starts after six months or more. In this stage, you engage in your first arguments with your partner and both of you struggle to accept each other\u2019s quirks and flows.<\/p>\n

En la primera etapa, simplemente no eras consciente de todas estas cosas porque el enamoramiento te ha vuelto literalmente ciego y prevalece la sensaci\u00f3n de estar colocado de amor.<\/p>\n

Pero, la tercera etapa es la de la lucha real. Luchas con todas tus fuerzas contra el impulso de decirle a tu pareja que algo te irrita.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Y cuando lo cuentas, r\u00e1pidamente se convierten en discusiones, porque \u00e9sa es la lucha que los dos ten\u00e9is que superar para llegar al nirvana final.<\/p>\n

En esta etapa, tienes que aprender a aceptar todos sus lados malos junto con los buenos si quieres que la relaci\u00f3n contin\u00fae.<\/p>\n

Muchas parejas fracasan en este punto porque les cuesta aceptar que sus parejas no son tan perfectas como podr\u00edan haber pensado en la primera etapa, la del enamoramiento.<\/p>\n

Y es entonces cuando experimentan una revelaci\u00f3n y a veces se dan cuenta de que la relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 abocada al fracaso debido a la incompatibilidad y a que son incapaces de llegar a un compromiso el uno con el otro.<\/p>\n

Etapa de opini\u00f3n y expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

In this stage, both of you have developed strong opinions about each other\u2019s habits and general behavior.<\/p>\n

Sabes lo que vuelve loca a tu pareja, conoces sus reacciones ante determinados est\u00edmulos y sabes c\u00f3mo afrontarlos.<\/p>\n

Y t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n esperas lo mismo de tu pareja. Esperas que conozca tus preferencias y te trate con respeto.<\/p>\n

This stage revolves around feeling ecstatic and feeling disappointed. When your partner does the right thing you\u2019ve expected of him, you\u2019ll feel an ultimate joy and appreciation for it.<\/p>\n

But, when he fails at meeting your expectations, you\u2019ll feel utterly disappointed and you will start questioning your relationship.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

For example, your partner surprises you with bringing flowers or making dinner even though you didn\u2019t expect him to do it.<\/p>\n

Y te sientes muy especial<\/a>. But, when your partner fails to do something you\u2019ve expected him to do, you will feel \u2018betrayed\u2019 and disappointed.<\/p>\n

And when they disappoint you, you will feel like they are not trying enough and they don\u2019t take your relationship for serious.<\/p>\n

Y es entonces cuando empiezas a hacer suposiciones sobre su compromiso hacia vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Los clasifica como emocionalmente no disponible <\/a>...ego\u00edsta, f\u00f3bico al compromiso u otra cosa.<\/p>\n

Buscas una explicaci\u00f3n a su comportamiento y no cejar\u00e1s en tu empe\u00f1o hasta que encuentres tus respuestas y comprendas el tipo de relaci\u00f3n en la que te encuentras.<\/p>\n

La etapa del toma y daca<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Usted tiene su propia visi\u00f3n de la pareja ideal.<\/p>\n

And in the fifth stage, you\u2019re trying to change your partner\u2019s habits that you find annoying or you try to find the missing puzzles that will make your partner into an ideal partner you\u2019ve ever wanted to be with.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you need to realize that love is a mutual agreement, giving and not only receiving, and embracing what you\u2019ve got.<\/p>\n

Si intentas cambiar a tu pareja, lo m\u00e1s probable es que vuestra relaci\u00f3n se rompa.<\/p>\n

Para que esto no ocurra, hay que estar dispuesto a transigir, porque transigir es lo m\u00e1s importante. la clave del \u00e9xito de una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La etapa del toma y daca sirve para que aprendas a adaptarte a nuevas situaciones y a aceptar todo lo que no puedes cambiar de tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Pero, si decides s\u00f3lo recibir y no comprometerte con ellos cuando sea necesario, crear\u00e1s una gran brecha entre los dos y ser\u00e1 imposible volver a llenarla de aprecio y respeto.<\/p>\n

Give with all of your heart and receive with an open mind. And don\u2019t forget to be grateful for everything good your partner does for you.<\/p>\n

El aprecio y el agradecimiento son los ingredientes principales del \u00e9xito de toda relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La etapa del amor radiante<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you get to this stage, it means you have accepted all of your partner\u2019s good and bad sides and you\u2019re ready to compromise with them.<\/p>\n

Esto har\u00e1 que irradies amor y rezumes felicidad.<\/p>\n

You will finally feel like everything\u2019s the way it should be and you no longer try to change your partner because you like them they way they are.<\/p>\n

Pero, en esta etapa falta la confianza total en el otro.<\/p>\n

You trust to your partner, but to a certain degree because you still have that defense mechanism which tells you that you\u2019re not 100% sure that this is it.<\/p>\n

Y t\u00fa eliges mantenerte en guardia mientras construyes la confianza.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Esta etapa consiste m\u00e1s en contemplar la relaci\u00f3n que en vivirla.<\/p>\n

Your mind is your biggest enemy here because sometimes our mind may deceive us not to trust them because we\u2019ve been hurt before.<\/p>\n

But, if you overcome these barriers and you see that you\u2019re ready to fully comprom\u00e9tase con su pareja <\/a>, you\u2019ll get to the next stage.<\/p>\n

Y para superarlo, hay que pasar por la etapa de crisis que ser\u00e1 un factor crucial para alcanzar el amor incondicional.<\/p>\n

La fase de crisis<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La etapa de crisis est\u00e1 aqu\u00ed por una raz\u00f3n. Funciona como un filtro para todas tus dudas o falta de confianza en tu relaci\u00f3n. Funciona as\u00ed: Si quieres ver el arco iris, primero tienes que pasar por la lluvia.<\/p>\n

Si quieres conseguir ganarte la confianza definitiva de tu pareja, tienes que pasar por la etapa de crisis que revelar\u00e1 la verdadera fuerza de vuestro amor.<\/p>\n

In the crisis stage, your passion and radiant love fade. But, don\u2019t let this confuse you. The crisis stage is about reviving your initial passion and bringing love to another level.<\/p>\n

Y para ello, tienes que pasar por algunos retos que te har\u00e1n m\u00e1s fuerte y m\u00e1s preparado para lo que est\u00e1 por venir.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

En esta etapa, tienes que buscar formas de hacer que tu vida sexual y el tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos sean m\u00e1s excitantes.<\/p>\n

You need to realize that things are not as they were in the beginning and now you have to work hard to preserve the passion you\u2019ve shared in the first few stages.<\/p>\n

Tienes que pensar en nuevas formas de sorprender a tu pareja y mantener el nivel de excitaci\u00f3n al m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n

Porque si fracasas en esto, tu relaci\u00f3n cambiar\u00e1 de rumbo y te encontrar\u00e1s en un atolladero.<\/p>\n

La etapa de la confianza inquebrantable<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve survived the seventh stage, you\u2019ll automatically be in the unbreakable trust stage.<\/p>\n

This stage is the result of all of these previous stages and if you\u2019ve gone this far, you\u2019ve done an awesome job.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you will have no doubts or second thoughts about your partner. You\u2019ve accepted them as they are and you trust them with all of your heart.<\/p>\n

You can also imagine your future with them in it because you\u2019re 100% that your relationship is the right thing.<\/p>\n

The trust stage is all about enjoying a mutual appreciation of each other, being ready to compromise, respecting each other and trusting them as you\u2019ve never trusted anyone before.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Una vez que llegues a la etapa de irrompible, ser\u00e1s IMPARABLE. A partir de esta etapa, todo lo que suceda despu\u00e9s ser\u00e1 una verdadera bendici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ya no cuestionar\u00e1s nada de tu relaci\u00f3n porque \u00e9sta se convertir\u00e1 en tu segundo hogar, donde te sentir\u00e1s segura y cuidada.<\/p>\n

And you will be grateful for all of your efforts and troubles you\u2019ve gone through in order to reach this eighth stage.<\/p>\n

Te convertir\u00e1s en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo y nada se interpondr\u00e1 en tu camino hacia la felicidad.<\/p>\n

La etapa del amor incondicional<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La \u00faltima etapa es la etapa del amor incondicional y es igual a la etapa del amor real.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you come to the realization that you\u2019ll be loving your partner unconditionally no matter what happens. And your partner realizes it, too.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you\u2019ll be asking yourself how you could have lived without that person in your life.<\/p>\n

Before you\u2019ve met them, your life was just another story, but now it has become a fairytale and you feel like you\u2019re the only woman\/man in the world.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

You want to share your joy with the rest of the less lucky who didn\u2019t succeed in coming to the last stage of their relationship.<\/p>\n

And you tell them that you\u2019ve fought hard to come to where you are now and you realize the importance of love.<\/p>\n

Te das cuenta de que el amor de verdad no es algo que puedas empezar a sentir de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana. Es un largo proceso de altibajos que pone a prueba tus l\u00edmites y la voluntad de compromiso.<\/p>\n

Y una vez superada esta prueba, ser\u00e1s bendecido con el amor incondicional que es realmente raro de encontrar hoy en d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Y te ves incapaz de conciliar el sue\u00f1o porque la realidad es finalmente mejor que tus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

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