{"id":29638,"date":"2020-09-09T14:23:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T14:23:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29638"},"modified":"2022-03-23T12:16:05","modified_gmt":"2022-03-23T12:16:05","slug":"7-formas-de-reaccionar-ante-el-silencio-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-formas-de-reaccionar-ante-el-silencio-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"7 maneras de reaccionar ante el tratamiento silencioso en tu relaci\u00f3n de pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

El tratamiento silencioso<\/a> es ignorar deliberadamente a tu pareja porque no est\u00e1is de acuerdo en algo.<\/p>\n

Puede tratarse de una peque\u00f1a pelea, pero tambi\u00e9n puede ser algo serio, como enga\u00f1ar o dar por sentado algo. Pero la conclusi\u00f3n es que no es agradable en absoluto e incluso puede ser llamado alg\u00fan tipo de abuso emocional.<\/p>\n

Because if your partner doesn\u2019t want to talk to you and make things right, it means they feel you are not worthy of their efforts. They want you to hurt as much as you can and they will do everything to see you like that.<\/p>\n

Y en esa situaci\u00f3n, hay ciertas cosas que puedes hacer para responder al trato silencioso que te est\u00e1 dando tu pareja.<\/p>\n

1. Encontrar la ra\u00edz del problema<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si encuentras la ra\u00edz del problema tal vez puedas prevenir el tratamiento silencioso<\/a> la pr\u00f3xima vez. Si sabes qu\u00e9 comportamiento enfada a tu pareja, sabr\u00e1s c\u00f3mo comunicarte con \u00e9l la pr\u00f3xima vez.<\/p>\n

No estoy diciendo que renuncies a tus sue\u00f1os s\u00f3lo porque eso entristezca a tu hombre, pero si crees que has cometido un error, puedes corregirlo. Como para bailar un tango hacen falta dos, tu pareja tambi\u00e9n tendr\u00e1 que esforzarse.<\/p>\n

2. Llevar el coraz\u00f3n en la manga<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Hoy en d\u00eda, la gente guarda sus emociones en el fondo, pero eso es lo peor que se puede hacer.<\/p>\n

If you want to prevent the silent treatment, you need to talk to your partner. Don\u2019t be the one who will run after him if he hurts you but when things calm down, sit and talk to him openly.<\/p>\n

Dile lo que sientes y haz que \u00e9l haga lo mismo. Es una forma estupenda de crear un v\u00ednculo m\u00e1s profundo entre los dos y llevar vuestra relaci\u00f3n a un nivel completamente nuevo.<\/p>\n

3. Llegar a un compromiso<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Las relaciones son un trabajo duro, pero depende de ti ver si tu pareja realmente vale la pena<\/a>. Si os pele\u00e1is por cosas sin importancia, intenta hablar con \u00e9l y llegar a un acuerdo. Seguro que los dos quer\u00e9is que las cosas funcionen, as\u00ed que no hace falta que os call\u00e9is.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, both of you will feel bad and you won\u2019t solve anything. Instead of ignoring each other, open up and talk about all those things that make you feel bad. If you love each other, you will understand each other as well.<\/p>\n

4. Dedique tiempo a que ambos se refresquen<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you were a victim of the silent treatment, don\u2019t jump into a discussion with your partner right away but rather give him time to cool off. You will also need some time to think about what happened and if you can get over it.<\/p>\n

If you discuss the problem right away, you will just yell at each other because of your hurt emotions and you won\u2019t solve anything. But if you take some time to calm down, maybe you can save your relationship.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es si tu pareja tambi\u00e9n lo desea y si, despu\u00e9s de todo, est\u00e1 dispuesta a cambiar.<\/p>\n

5. Comunicarse de forma educada<\/h2>\n

\"t\u00edmida<\/p>\n

There are different types of communication and if you talk to your partner like you are still mad at him, you won\u2019t solve anything. If you were hurt so much, you can separate but at least do it with dignity.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fight and don\u2019t swear because you will only make things worse in that way.<\/p>\n

Good communication is key to a successful relationship so that is what you need to strive for. And if you don\u2019t get a positive answer from your partner, at least you will know it wasn\u2019t your fault.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t do things you are not comfortable with<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There are things some partners will want but if you are not okay with it, don\u2019t accept it. Don\u2019t let your guy blackmail you just because you love him. That is not an act of love but an act of cowardice.<\/p>\n

So, never say that you are sorry if you think you weren\u2019t guilty of the fight and always keep your dignity. Remember that couples need to make an effort and if you are the only one doing it, then it really doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

7. Establece unas normas que funcionen para ambos<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si de verdad quieres a tu pareja y si repas\u00e1is todos esos problemas que ten\u00e9is, entonces poned unas normas que funcionen para los dos.<\/p>\n

No digo que debas inclinarte ante \u00e9l, pero si est\u00e1 dispuesto a hacer que las cosas funcionen, dale una oportunidad.<\/p>\n

If things don\u2019t work out in the end, at least you will know that it wasn\u2019t because of you. If it can be saved then it is great and if not, I guess it wasn\u2019t meant for you to be together. Please bear in mind that when one door gets closed, other ones get opened!<\/p>\n

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The silent treatment is deliberately ignoring your partner because you are not on the same page regarding something. It can be some mini fight but it can be something serious like cheating or taking them for granted. But the bottom line is that it is not nice at all and it can even be called…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":116834,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29638","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/7-Ways-To-React-To-The-Silent-Treatment-In-Your-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29638","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29638"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29638\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116834"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29638"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29638"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29638"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}