{"id":29704,"date":"2020-06-10T09:18:54","date_gmt":"2020-06-10T09:18:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29704"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:29:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:29:54","slug":"que-te-trate-mal-es-solo-un-signo-de-que-no-se-quiere-a-si-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-te-trate-mal-es-solo-un-signo-de-que-no-se-quiere-a-si-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"Que te trate mal es se\u00f1al de que no se quiere a s\u00ed mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apuesto a que era maravilloso cuando se conocieron. Hizo todo seg\u00fan las reglas. Llamaba y mandaba mensajes regularmente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te colmaba de atenciones. Era amable y dulce. Se esforzaba. <\/span><\/p>\n

Justo cuando empezabas a pensar que viv\u00edas en una de esas novelas rom\u00e1nticas perfectas, \u00e9l te demostr\u00f3 lo contrario. <\/span><\/p>\n

His behavior changed so drastically. At first, he couldn\u2019t stand to be apart from you or to hear from you. Then all of a sudden, he completely ignored you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me when I say you had nothing to do with his behavior. It\u2019s not that he doesn\u2019t like you anymore. He did it because he doesn\u2019t like himself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A confident man, a man who loves himself, behaves differently. Even if he loses interest in a woman, he will tell her. If he\u2019s not ready for a relationship, he will be honest about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t string her along and treat her like she is the center<\/span> de su universo s\u00f3lo para poder deshacerse de ella m\u00e1s tarde como si no significara nada.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s not how a real man behaves. That\u2019s how<\/span> cobardes <\/span><\/a>y los manipuladores juegan.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he deliberately started your relationship with love bombing. He knew you will hold on to that perfect beginning when he starts mistreating you later on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que esos momentos perfectos con \u00e9l te bastar\u00edan para seguir perdon\u00e1ndole cada vez que te hiciera mal. Que ser\u00e1n suficientes para que esperes que vuelva a cambiar. Pero nunca lo har\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

Men like him don\u2019t change; they only get worse. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sadly, you are unable to see it right away. You can\u2019t grasp that someone who was so warm and loving to you can be so cold and heartless. <\/span><\/p>\n

A pesar de todo, sigues creyendo en lo bueno que hay en \u00e9l. Sigues reviviendo esos momentos felices con \u00e9l y te aferras a ellos con todas tus fuerzas.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Te culpas de todo porque \u00e9l te ense\u00f1\u00f3 a hacerlo. Siempre fue tan h\u00e1bil, y siempre interpret\u00f3 el papel de v\u00edctima tan maravillosamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

You truly started to believe that everything he says is the truth. And it\u2019s no wonder because he used every atom of his strength to lower your self-esteem. He needed to make you emotionally weak, so he could rule your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trust him when he says he loves you. He is incapable of love you because he doesn\u2019t love himself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If he treats you poorly, don\u2019t believe his declarations of love. Trust your tears. Trust your nervous breakdowns. Trust your feeling of helplessness that he is not the one for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trust his words because words don\u2019t mean much when <\/i><\/b>acciones fallidas<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

El \u00fanico que puede amarte es el hombre que ya se ama a s\u00ed mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Derramar\u00e1 todo su amor sobre ti, desinteresadamente. Te tratar\u00e1 bien, pase lo que pase. Seguro que tendr\u00e9is desacuerdos de vez en cuando, pero nunca te har\u00e1 pasar por un infierno. <\/span><\/p>\n

Un hombre que se ama a s\u00ed mismo ser\u00e1 el viento bajo tus alas. Nunca se le pasar\u00e1 por la cabeza menospreciarte o hacerte sentir menos porque te tiene en gran estima.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see a man like this will make efforts not excuses. He will give as much as he takes. He will never make you feel alone. A man who loves himself will know how to love you, and that\u2019s the only truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, wait for him…find him… find yourself and acknowledge your worth. Don\u2019t allow anybody to treat you like you are unworthy. Don\u2019t settle for someone who treats you badly. That\u2019s not love… that\u2019s torture.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Que<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I bet he was wonderful when you first met. He did everything by the book. He called and texted regularly. He showered you with attention. He was gentle and sweet. He made efforts. Just when you started to think you are living in one of those perfect romance novels, he proved you wrong. His behavior…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":95325,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Him-Treating-You-Poorly-Is-Just-A-Sign-He-Doesnt-Love-Himself.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29704\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95325"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}