{"id":29732,"date":"2020-04-10T11:39:23","date_gmt":"2020-04-10T11:39:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29732"},"modified":"2022-06-21T00:03:14","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T00:03:14","slug":"una-carta-a-una-chica-desinteresada-no-todo-el-mundo-tiene-un-corazon-como-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-una-chica-desinteresada-no-todo-el-mundo-tiene-un-corazon-como-tu\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a una chica abnegada: No todo el mundo tiene un coraz\u00f3n como t\u00fa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oye, t\u00fa. S\u00e9 que tienes el coraz\u00f3n de un \u00e1ngel. S\u00e9 que eres una emp\u00e1tica que siempre simpatiza con los dem\u00e1s y que siempre piensa en el bienestar de los dem\u00e1s antes que en el suyo propio.<\/p>\n<p>Eres una chica que lleva su coraz\u00f3n en la manga, una chica que nunca retiene ninguna parte de s\u00ed misma y una chica que entrega todo su ser a las personas que ama.<\/p>\n<p>Eres alguien que conf\u00eda en la gente y que piensa que hay algo bueno en todo el mundo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY sabes c\u00f3mo s\u00e9 todo esto? <b>Lo s\u00e9 porque yo era t\u00fa. Hasta que la vida me ense\u00f1\u00f3 lo contrario.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Era una chica ingenua que dejaba entrar a la gente sin pensar en las consecuencias. Una chica que estaba convencida de que su amor pod\u00eda salvar el mundo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-relaxing-with-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven relaj\u00e1ndose con los ojos cerrados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-relaxing-with-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-relaxing-with-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/young-woman-relaxing-with-closed-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una chica que era de todo menos ego\u00edsta y una chica que siempre se esforzaba al m\u00e1ximo por arreglar a todos los que la rodeaban.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero, sobre todo, era una chica que esperaba el mismo trato de los dem\u00e1s. Una chica que esperaba que los dem\u00e1s fueran como yo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Bueno, no todo el mundo tiene un coraz\u00f3n desinteresado como t\u00fa y yo. Y tristemente, tuve que aprenderlo por las malas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Durante a\u00f1os, mi buen coraz\u00f3n s\u00f3lo me trajo problemas. Y lo peor es que me negaba a admitirlo ante nadie y especialmente ante m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas en las que m\u00e1s confiaba me traicionaron y me dejaron colgada cuando las necesitaba. Aquellos por los que estaba dispuesta a mover monta\u00f1as nunca movieron un dedo por m\u00ed cuando les ped\u00ed ayuda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83994\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aquellos a los que quer\u00eda m\u00e1s de lo que me quer\u00eda a m\u00ed misma acabaron actuando como si yo nunca les hubiera importado.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas a las que nunca abandonar\u00eda me abandonaron en cuanto los tiempos se pusieron dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n<p>Y todo ello me ense\u00f1\u00f3 una valiosa lecci\u00f3n, aunque dej\u00f3 cicatrices inborrables en mi alma y en mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>All of this taught me that not everyone is good and that there are some evil people in this world \u2014 people who will take advantage of me at the first opportunity and people who won\u2019t think twice about betraying me once they are given a chance to do so.<\/p>\n<p><b>As\u00ed que, por favor, sean m\u00e1s listos que yo y aprendan de mis errores.<\/b> Don\u2019t wait for anyone to crush you for you to see their true colors.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83995\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-grass.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste sentada en la hierba\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t give them the opportunity to break your vulnerable heart and don\u2019t let them use you, the way they did with me.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 I am not telling you to be self-centered or selfish. I am not telling you to hurt others and to think about yourself only.<\/p>\n<p>No te estoy diciendo que te conviertas en una mujer t\u00f3xica y amargada que s\u00f3lo piensa en sus propios intereses.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que te pido es que te pongas en primer lugar. Que te elijas a ti mismo por encima de los dem\u00e1s y que te aprecies.<\/p>\n<p>Te ruego que empieces a quererte m\u00e1s, porque nadie lo har\u00e1 por ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83996\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-smiling-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer sonriente posando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-smiling-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-smiling-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-smiling-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Lo \u00fanico que te pido es que tengas un poco m\u00e1s de cuidado con las personas a las que entregas tu coraz\u00f3n. Que tengas m\u00e1s cuidado con los que dejas entrar y con los que merecen tus sacrificios.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I am asking you not to waste years of your life on someone who will never appreciate you. Not to give your entire self to those who won\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>Not to put any effort into people who act like they couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\n<p>Te pido que dejes de justificar a quienes siguen haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o. Que dejes de buscar excusas y de dar luz verde a los dem\u00e1s para que sigan haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Te ruego que dejes de dar interminables segundas oportunidades a quienes nunca cambiar\u00e1n. Que dejes de dar prioridad a quienes no piensan en ti m\u00e1s que como un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/lee-esto-si-te-sientes-como-su-segunda-opcion\/\"> segunda opci\u00f3n <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83997\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am asking you to cut off those who don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Y no sentirte nunca culpable por hacerlo, porque eso es exactamente lo que tienes que hacer si quieres ahorrarte sufrimientos innecesarios.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y esto va especialmente por los hombres de tu vida.<\/b> Recuerde que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/tu-amor-no-puede-cambiar-a-un-hombre-hasta-que-el-mismo-decida-hacerlo\/\"> your love can\u2019t change a man <\/a> a menos que decida hacerlo \u00e9l mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that there are some men who can\u2019t be saved and that you are not a superwoman whose job is to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/caracteristicas-del-quebrantamiento\/\"> arreglar su quebrantamiento.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Pero sobre todo<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>recuerda que tu \u00fanico deber en este mundo es hacerte feliz a ti mismo y a nadie m\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84001\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A-Letter-To-A-Selfless-Girl-Not-Everyone-Has-A-Heart-Like-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Carta a una chica abnegada No todo el mundo tiene un coraz\u00f3n como t\u00fa\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A-Letter-To-A-Selfless-Girl-Not-Everyone-Has-A-Heart-Like-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A-Letter-To-A-Selfless-Girl-Not-Everyone-Has-A-Heart-Like-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A-Letter-To-A-Selfless-Girl-Not-Everyone-Has-A-Heart-Like-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A-Letter-To-A-Selfless-Girl-Not-Everyone-Has-A-Heart-Like-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, you. I know that you have the heart of an angel. I know that you are an empath who always sympathizes with others and who always thinks of other people\u2019s well-being before her own. You are a girl who wears her heart on her sleeve, a girl who never holds back any part of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":84000,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29732","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/A-Letter-To-A-Selfless-Girl-Not-Everyone-Has-A-Heart-Like-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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