{"id":29752,"date":"2018-12-11T10:41:38","date_gmt":"2018-12-11T10:41:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29752"},"modified":"2022-09-06T11:15:10","modified_gmt":"2022-09-06T11:15:10","slug":"6-metodos-infalibles-para-hacer-frente-al-ghosting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-metodos-infalibles-para-hacer-frente-al-ghosting\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneras infalibles de enfrentarse al ghosting"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know how the story goes – you meet a guy, he\u2019s wonderful. You think that you\u2019ve found the one because you click instantly. Your interests are the same, he acts normal, he does not look like a total douche.<\/p>\n

You go on a couple of dates and finally, you sleep with him. Now, this would be a perfectly normal story with a happy ending if it weren\u2019t for this last activity or better said the lack of one.<\/p>\n

After he sleeps with you, you begin to hear less and less from him. In time, your phone doesn’t ring as much, you never get to see him. You begin to feel invisible and the truth is, in his eyes you are invisible.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re being ghosted for the simplest reason ever. He took what he needed from you and he rejected you.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00eda muy f\u00e1cil mantener la calma en estas situaciones e ignorarlas, pero las emociones nunca son f\u00e1ciles de manejar.<\/p>\n

Your brain is telling you what you should do, the right thing to do and that is to let go and move on, but your heart is still stuck on him because you\u2019re not an emotionless robot who can move on from one person to another with no strings attached.<\/p>\n

Well, this is the harsh reality of modern dating and it\u2019s called ghosting. A guy hooks up with you and then he just disappears with no explanations whatsoever, like nothing ever happened between you two.<\/p>\n

What to do in those situations? How to act when you\u2019re being ghosted?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

1. Aceptar el dolor<\/h2>\n

You didn\u2019t even have to care about the person who ghosted you, but your feelings were hurt. You thought that something is going to evolve from your relationship. But instead, you were humiliated and played.<\/p>\n

Seguramente se lo contaste todo a tus amigas porque estabas entusiasmada con tu nueva relaci\u00f3n y, al cabo de un tiempo, no pas\u00f3 nada. Desapareci\u00f3 y te abandon\u00f3.<\/p>\n

You felt exposed and hurt. Embrace that pain, accept it because it\u2019s real. You can easily get over him, but you can\u2019t get over the pain in a jiff.<\/p>\n

2. Cortar cualquier comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

Don’t fall into the trap most women do. Don\u2019t text him or try to call him. If he doesn\u2019t text you back<\/a> after the first text, he isn’t interested in you anymore. Don\u2019t make a fool out of yourself because you still have feelings for him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only going to embarrass yourself and the pain and humiliation will be even worse. Cut off all communication. Don\u2019t stalk him on social media just to see what he is up to. You\u2019re only going to make it more difficult for yourself to get over being ghosted.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Ghosting despu\u00e9s de la primera cita: Por qu\u00e9 ocurre y c\u00f3mo afrontarlo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t take it personally<\/h2>\n

The fact you were ghosted says nothing about you. It\u2019s not your fault and don\u2019t look at it that way. You did nothing wrong and the silence you\u2019re getting is just a reflection of the person doing that to you.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que en lugar de culparte a ti misma y pensar por qu\u00e9 te ha dejado plantada.<\/p>\n

Piensa en el ghosting e intenta analizar qu\u00e9 ha pasado y c\u00f3mo ha sucedido para saber qu\u00e9 no debes hacer la pr\u00f3xima vez.<\/p>\n

Toma esta dolorosa experiencia y util\u00edzala para el futuro, por tu propio bien.<\/p>\n

4. S\u00e9 amable contigo mismo<\/h2>\n

You\u2019re experiencing pain and pain has to be horrible. You have to feel crapy, but don\u2019t let it get you down. The reason you feel that way is only the proof that you\u2019re human. It proves that you are able to feel and hear all the emotions running through you.<\/p>\n

The reason you feel this way is because you care and you\u2019re capable of love. Too bad that this time, you\u2019ve stumbled upon the wrong man to love. There are plenty of men out there ready to commit, ready to love.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be hard on yourself because it\u2019s not your fault es un imb\u00e9cil inmaduro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

5. Resp\u00e9tate a ti mismo y sigue adelante<\/h2>\n

What is gone, you cannot miss. He could have done things differently. He could have left in a respectful manner with an explanation, but he didn\u2019t. He chose to leave without saying a word, he chose to hurt you.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s it, the story\u2019s done. You don\u2019t need any explanation for why things happened the way they did. What you do need to do right now is to move on. Respect yourself enough to find the strength to forget he ever existed.<\/p>\n

Eres digna de un hombre que te ame y te respete. Mereces un hombre que nunca ser\u00eda tan cobarde para hacer algo tan irrespetuoso como lo hizo.<\/p>\n

6. Volver a salir<\/h2>\n

You\u2019re thinking that you\u2019re done with dating. You\u2019re thinking that you don\u2019t want to go through this ever again. I don\u2019t blame you for that. But things are not as bad as they seem.<\/p>\n

At least now you can recognize a ghoster. You\u2019ve gone through that behavior pattern and it\u2019s not likely someone will do the same thing again. So, get back out there and date.<\/p>\n

This experience has made you even stronger and smarter. All the bad things that happen you should be a lesson. It is a mistake that you\u2019re never going to do again.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the possibility of getting ghosted prevent you from creating a new and meaningful relationship. If you keep living in fear of getting hurt again, you\u2019re never going to let yourself be happy.<\/p>\n

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