{"id":29848,"date":"2018-12-12T09:47:27","date_gmt":"2018-12-12T09:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29848"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:02:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:02:46","slug":"que-se-joda-por-gustarle-pero-no-lo-suficiente-como-para-comprometerse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-se-joda-por-gustarle-pero-no-lo-suficiente-como-para-comprometerse\/","title":{"rendered":"F*ck Him For Like You, But Not Enough To Commit"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you\u2019re <\/span>enamorado<\/span><\/a> or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no room for anything in between.<\/span><\/p>\n

But what happens when the one you\u2019re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn\u2019t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but he doesn\u2019t want a relationship? Why would he show interest and then bail on you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Siento tu frustraci\u00f3n. Puede ser tan confuso cuando alguien es tan atento contigo, te hace sentir tan querida y luego se aleja y te fantasma durante un tiempo. Puede ser tan dif\u00edcil intentar descifrar qu\u00e9 podr\u00eda poseer a un hombre para comportarse de una forma tan cruel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Regardless of how much it kills you not knowing and trying to get to the bottom of his behavior, don\u2019t waste your precious time and nerves on figuring out somebody who clearly has no idea <\/b>lo que quiere<\/b><\/a> and cannot appreciate a good thing, even when it\u2019s standing right in front of him.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you want the honest truth, here it is. Yeah, he likes you \u2013 just not enough to commit to you. And screw him for that!<\/span><\/p>\n

Por eso siempre vuelve arrastr\u00e1ndose despu\u00e9s de romper. Porque est\u00e1 claro que le encanta tu compa\u00f1\u00eda, pero no lo suficiente como para comprometerse permanentemente.<\/span><\/p>\n

F*ck anyone who treats you like you\u2019re not enough!<\/b><\/p>\n

Que le jodan por pasar un fin de semana incre\u00edble contigo y luego negarse a coger tus llamadas durante toda la semana siguiente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que se joda por decirte lo incre\u00edble que eres y luego seguirte la corriente durante semanas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que se j*da por enviarte un mensaje a altas horas de la noche diciendo que te echa mucho de menos pero neg\u00e1ndose a poner una etiqueta a vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que le den por no esforzarse nada, despu\u00e9s de asegurarte que quiere estar contigo, <\/span>pero esta vez de verdad<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve experienced enough lies and tricks from him to expect nothing more than empty words substantiated by occasional professions of affection, which usually translates to sex and a few scattered texts.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re better than <\/b>una llamada de bot\u00edn<\/b><\/a>Recuerda que, por muy buen amante que sea o por mucho que consiga convencerte para que le perdones por milmillon\u00e9sima vez. Ya es suficiente. Que le den.<\/b><\/p>\n

The most important thing here is to know better than to take it personally. You should know by now that it most definitely isn\u2019t you. It\u2019s him. It\u2019s not your fault that he can\u2019t appreciate you for the amazing woman that you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

Never change who you are for someone who won\u2019t know how to appreciate you either way. Never change how you see yourself due to somebody not being able to see you in your full glory. And never let someone diminish your worth by treating you like you\u2019re only what he makes of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re hurting right now. But the reason for that is not because you\u2019re losing the guy who\u2019s right for you because he\u2019s not.<\/span><\/p>\n

The reason you\u2019re hurting is because your ego has been rocked by his inconsistent pattern of behavior. Don\u2019t let that faze you too much. He\u2019s not important enough to shatter your self-confidence.<\/b><\/p>\n

This sucks, sure. But you can\u2019t force people into feeling things that aren\u2019t there. As brutal as it is to hear this, it\u2019s true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer es apreciar a los que saben lo que vales y dejar marchar a los que te hacen sentir menos que nadie.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re a smart, badass, sexy specimen of a human being. And no temporary man can prove you otherwise. Let that f*cker go, and make yourself available for when the right guy comes along.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"F*ck<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you\u2019re in love or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no room for anything in between. But what happens when the one you\u2019re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn\u2019t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29849,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/jonas-svidras-1215372-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29849"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}