{"id":29972,"date":"2023-10-19T10:13:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-19T10:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29972"},"modified":"2023-10-20T16:02:55","modified_gmt":"2023-10-20T16:02:55","slug":"la-dura-realidad-de-conocer-a-un-buen-chico-justo-despues-de-un-desengano-amoroso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-dura-realidad-de-conocer-a-un-buen-chico-justo-despues-de-un-desengano-amoroso\/","title":{"rendered":"La dura realidad de conocer a un buen chico justo despu\u00e9s de un desenga\u00f1o amoroso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todav\u00eda estaba recogiendo mis pedazos rotos intentando pegarlos de nuevo cuando te conoc\u00ed. Estaba lejos de estar preparada para empezar algo nuevo, mi coraz\u00f3n apenas lat\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>I was learning to breathe again, I was learning to love myself again I was trying to put my life back on the right track &#8212; I wasn\u2019t expecting you to cross my path.<\/p>\n<p>Todo a lo que estaba acostumbrado era al dolor y a la decepci\u00f3n. Era todo lo que conoc\u00eda y se convirti\u00f3 en algo normal, aunque en el fondo supiera que estaba muy lejos de serlo.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you came as a shock, you see for me getting hurt was something I expected but all that happiness that you brought into my life is something I never imagined &#8212; the feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Me sent\u00ed incre\u00edble, nunca hab\u00eda sentido nada igual. Calmaste mis ansiedades y temores tranquiliz\u00e1ndome. Siempre fuiste abierto y sincero, y nunca tuve que esforzarme por descifrar se\u00f1ales contradictorias como en el pasado.<\/p>\n<p>I wasn\u2019t the only one making all efforts it was all reciprocated. The emphasis was on creating emotional bonds and not just physical.<\/p>\n<p>And I stood in awe thinking that this can\u2019t be real, men like you don\u2019t exist, I am in a dream and I don\u2019t want to wake up from it ever.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Pero mis miedos segu\u00edan despert\u00e1ndome, ten\u00eda tanto miedo de perderte. Estaba aterrorizada porque por primera vez ten\u00eda algo genuino y real. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Tuve a alguien que sabe amar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nuestra relaci\u00f3n progres\u00f3 r\u00e1pidamente, fue f\u00e1cil para ti abrirte e invitarme a entrar en tu mundo y en tu coraz\u00f3n. Pero yo segu\u00eda siendo cautelosa, segu\u00eda con el coraz\u00f3n roto, as\u00ed que intent\u00e9 que avanz\u00e1ramos m\u00e1s despacio.<\/p>\n<p>Ten\u00eda miedo de que el amor que se enciende r\u00e1pido arda a\u00fan m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido. Ten\u00eda miedo de que t\u00fa fueras igual que \u00e9l. Estaba lleno de dudas en la relaci\u00f3n que intent\u00e1bamos crear.<\/p>\n<p><b>As\u00ed que segu\u00ed huyendo, pero t\u00fa nunca me dejaste, s\u00f3lo me acercabas. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I wanted you to know all about me, so I literary told you everything &#8212; from things I was most proud of to the ones that I was so ashamed of.<\/p>\n<p>Compart\u00ed contigo historias felices y tambi\u00e9n las m\u00e1s dolorosas.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted you to know the real me and not just the good parts. I wanted you to know that I still haven\u2019t found a way to let go of my past.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to bear my soul and what\u2019s left from my heart.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>My past didn\u2019t allow me to enjoy my present. The pain I carried with me kept mixing with happiness and I was so lost. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Y una vez m\u00e1s, me dejaste sin palabras, trataste mis palabras, mis miedos y mi pensamiento ansioso como si fueran lo m\u00e1s normal del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Me abrazaste tanto y tan fuerte hasta que empec\u00e9 a sentirme segura en tu abrazo. Realmente lo necesitaba.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitaba a alguien que comprendiera. Necesitaba a alguien que aceptara. Necesitaba a alguien que realmente se preocupara por m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>But don\u2019t ever think that you were there to fill some void that somebody else left. You were there as an angel sent from the heavens that stood by me while I was strong enough to fill that void myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tuve que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/nunca-necesito-arreglo-necesito-sujecion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">arreglarme<\/span><\/a>Tuve que volver a encontrar mi propia sonrisa, tuve que curarme por completo. Tuve que luchar contra mis inseguridades. Tuve que resolver los problemas de confianza que otra persona cre\u00f3 y dejar de dudar de ti sin ninguna buena raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ten\u00eda que encontrarme a m\u00ed misma para poder encontrarte a ti en esta historia de amor que estabas construyendo para nosotros desde el principio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30033 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/16-Inspiring-Facts-About-Dating-A-Hippie-Girl-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La dura realidad de conocer a un buen chico justo despu\u00e9s de un desenga\u00f1o amoroso\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/16-Inspiring-Facts-About-Dating-A-Hippie-Girl-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/16-Inspiring-Facts-About-Dating-A-Hippie-Girl-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/16-Inspiring-Facts-About-Dating-A-Hippie-Girl-3.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was still picking up my shatter pieces trying to glue them back together when I met you. I was far from ready to start something new, my heart was hardly beating. I was learning to breathe again, I was learning to love myself again I was trying to put my life back on the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29973,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/davids-kokainis-1217561-unsplash.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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