{"id":29980,"date":"2020-05-14T10:37:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T10:37:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29980"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:58:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:58:40","slug":"8-pasos-para-pasar-de-amantes-a-amigos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-pasos-para-pasar-de-amantes-a-amigos\/","title":{"rendered":"8 pasos para pasar de amantes a amigos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Convertirse en amigo de alguien de quien estuviste enamorado es extremadamente dif\u00edcil y no todo el mundo es capaz de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

Aunque dese\u00e9is ser amigos de todo coraz\u00f3n, siempre habr\u00e1 algunas barreras que deber\u00e9is superar para conseguir hacer la transici\u00f3n de amantes a amigos.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sure that you\u2019re ready to become friends with the guy you once loved, here are 8 steps that will help you in achieving it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t skip any of it because every single step is equally important if you want to build a true, unbreakable friendship.<\/p>\n

Double check that you don\u2019t have feelings for him<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantate si a\u00fan sientes algo por \u00e9l y si es prudente empezar a trabajar para ser amigos.<\/p>\n

Si tienes alg\u00fan tipo de sospecha sobre tus sentimientos hacia \u00e9l, descarta la idea de entablar una amistad con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Necesitas estar completamente libre de cualquiera de los sentimientos que sol\u00edas tener por \u00e9l antes.<\/p>\n

Only then will you be able to accomplish the transition from lovers to friends. Once you\u2019ve checked this, you can proceed to a step two.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3mate tu tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t rush things. Even if you\u2019re sure that you don\u2019t have any feelings attached to him, this doesn\u2019t mean that you immediately ready to engage in any types of friendship activities with him.<\/p>\n

Dale un poco de tiempo para que puedas empezar de cero. Los dos necesit\u00e1is un tiempo a solas para entender lo que ha pasado y superar los sentimientos no digeridos.<\/p>\n

Tienes que aprender a ser libre de nuevo para empezar a ser amigos despu\u00e9s de amantes.<\/p>\n

Establecer normas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando llegue el momento, lo primero que tienes que hacer es establecer normas. Tienes que hacerlo con \u00e9l porque ambos ten\u00e9is que cumplirlas.<\/p>\n

These can be rules regarding do\u2019s and don\u2019t and if someone fails at respecting it, you can think of some kind of a punishment that will prevent you from failing again.<\/p>\n

Cuando tengas unos l\u00edmites firmes, ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil pasar de todo y no tendr\u00e1s que preguntarte si debes decir algo o no.<\/p>\n

Sabr\u00e9is exactamente lo que se espera de ambos y, si os ce\u00f1\u00eds a ello, os har\u00e9is amigos en poco tiempo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think of hooking up again<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, please don\u2019t even think of enganchando de nuevo con \u00e9l<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a real recipe for a catastrophe. Don\u2019t let your impulse rule your mind if you want to nourish a true friendship with someone you once loved.<\/p>\n

Dejar atr\u00e1s los acontecimientos pasados<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de deshacerte de todos los acontecimientos pasados en tu relaci\u00f3n anterior.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want your past to pop out every time you do something similar with him. If you\u2019re still living in the past, it will be really hard to focus on the present.<\/p>\n

Todo te recordar\u00e1 a lo que ten\u00edais antes y, cuando eso ocurre, la nostalgia es inevitable.<\/p>\n

And, nostalgia makes us do things we normally wouldn\u2019t consider doing.<\/p>\n

Reajuste sus expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Another thing that you need to do is to reset your expectations. Don\u2019t stick to the same expectations you once had in your relationship because now it\u2019s a different story.<\/p>\n

You cannot be mad because he didn\u2019t reply to your text immediately because you are no longer in a relationship with him. If you want to be friends then you need act like that.<\/p>\n

You cannot blame him for some things that you\u2019ve blamed him for in the relationship as well.<\/p>\n

If you do, you\u2019ll destroy every single potential for becoming friends with him.<\/p>\n

Recuerda mantener la informalidad<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Always keep your hanging out as casual as possible. Don\u2019t go to some romantic places like you used to do when you were in a relationship.<\/p>\n

The best choice is to hang out in groups for a start because that way you\u2019ll avoid any possible awkward moments.<\/p>\n

Keeping it casual means behaving casual and enjoying each other\u2019s company. It means enjoying his company on a whole different level \u2013 friendship level.<\/p>\n

And once you master it, you\u2019ll most surely succeed in making the transition from lover to friends.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t pay attention to other people\u2019s opinions<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Desde el momento en que decida hazte amigo de tu ex<\/a>Debes saber que los dem\u00e1s te plantear\u00e1n preguntas, muchas preguntas.<\/p>\n

Y debes estar dispuesto a ignorarlas todas si quieres ser fiel a ti mismo y a tus deseos.<\/p>\n

\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Becoming friends with someone you were once in love is extremely hard and not everyone is capable of achieving it. Even if you want to be friends with all of your heart, there will always be some barriers that you need to overcome in order to succeed in making the transition from lovers to friends….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":94670,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/8-Steps-To-Make-The-Transition-From-Lovers-To-Friends.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29980"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29980\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}