{"id":30000,"date":"2018-12-14T13:13:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-14T13:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30000"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:58:04","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:58:04","slug":"5-cosas-que-nunca-debes-decir-a-tu-pareja-si-quieres-conservarla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-nunca-debes-decir-a-tu-pareja-si-quieres-conservarla\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que nunca debes decirle a tu pareja si quieres conservarla"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando empiezas a salir con alguien, siempre tienes que vigilar lo que dices y c\u00f3mo te comportas, para dejar una buena impresi\u00f3n y no herir involuntariamente sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

But when you\u2019ve been with your man for a while, things you wouldn\u2019t dream of saying at the beginning are now things you will say without thinking twice. And that\u2019s okay, to an extent.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal to get so comfortable around your partner where you don\u2019t have to watch your every word and knowing they\u2019ll get it either way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero a veces te pasas de la raya. A veces se hieren sentimientos, y con raz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you feel like your partner can endure whatever insult you jokingly throw at him, without explaining yourself, you\u2019re actually wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay cosas que deber\u00edas evitar decirle habitualmente si quieres conservarle y aqu\u00ed tienes algunas frases de las que deber\u00edas abstenerte, si quieres que vuestra relaci\u00f3n dure.<\/span><\/p>\n

1.  \u201cTold you so!\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n

Esta afirmaci\u00f3n es el ep\u00edtome de la inmadurez y s\u00f3lo los ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os deber\u00edan decirla, sinceramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Demuestra tu falta de compasi\u00f3n y respeto hacia <\/span>tu pareja<\/span><\/a> y le hace parecer y sentirse est\u00fapido. Y \u00e9sa nunca deber\u00eda ser su intenci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Evita decir esto, ya que nunca podr\u00eda salir nada positivo de ello, sino que el resentimiento podr\u00eda significar pronto el fin de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

La empat\u00eda y la compasi\u00f3n son el camino a seguir.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. \"\u00a1No puedes hacer eso!<\/h2>\n

Una pareja rom\u00e1ntica nunca debe utilizar la palabra \"no puedo\" cuando habla con su ser querido.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are going to be times when you will wish your partner didn\u2019t do a certain thing, like spending too much money on a pair of kicks or staying out until the early hours of the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

But telling him that he \u2018can\u2019t\u2019 do something makes you look controlling and kind of like his parent and you don\u2019t want that.<\/span><\/p>\n

As much as you want to tell him that, don\u2019t, as you really shouldn\u2019t tell him what he can or cannot do. He is a grown-up and he should know how to make good, smart decisions himself.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. \"C\u00e1lmate\" o \"Rel\u00e1jate\".<\/h2>\n

Saying this to your partner is acceptable literally only if you want him to get ten times as upset as he already is. This usually does the opposite of what it\u2019s supposed to.<\/span><\/p>\n

Intenta validar sus sentimientos<\/a> at all times. If you don\u2019t understand where he\u2019s coming from, ask!<\/span><\/p>\n

But don\u2019t make him seem irrational for having feelings and openly expressing them. Act like a mature adult and talk without judging or diminishing his feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

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4. \"Siempre haces esto\/lo otro\".<\/h2>\n

Cuando empiezas una discusi\u00f3n con esto, inmediatamente le est\u00e1s acusando de algo, dando a entender que siempre hace algo mal.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esa no es la forma de mantener una conversaci\u00f3n sana y s\u00f3lo har\u00e1 que \u00e9l elija la v\u00eda defensiva.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present. If he has to defend himself all the time, he\u2019s just not going to take it that much longer.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. \"Si me quisieras, har\u00edas esto por m\u00ed\".<\/h2>\n

Si sigues haciendo que te demuestre su amor haciendo ciertas cosas, eso es<\/span> no amor<\/span>. It\u2019s a dysfunctional partnership.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nadie aprecia ser chantajeado para hacer algo. Est\u00e1 claro que te quiere.<\/span><\/p>\n

But don\u2019t make him do something to prove that. That is a childish thing to do and your partner won\u2019t stand for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t like having to prove your love for him by doing this and that, so don\u2019t make him go through the same thing; it\u2019s as simple as that.<\/span><\/p>\n

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When you first start dating someone, you always watch what you say and how you behave, to leave a good impression and to not unintentionally hurt his feelings. But when you\u2019ve been with your man for a while, things you wouldn\u2019t dream of saying at the beginning are now things you will say without thinking…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":30003,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/StockSnap_XE6KTUQ1SX.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30000","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30000"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30000\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}