{"id":30020,"date":"2020-05-14T14:06:55","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T14:06:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30020"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:10:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:10:24","slug":"por-eso-sigues-aferrandote-a-quien-no-estaba-destinado-a-ser-tuyo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-sigues-aferrandote-a-quien-no-estaba-destinado-a-ser-tuyo\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que sigues aferr\u00e1ndote a quien no estaba destinado a ser tuyo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSe ha dado cuenta alguna vez de que la mayor\u00eda de nosotros tenemos la costumbre de aferrarnos con m\u00e1s fuerza a quien sabemos que deber\u00edamos dejar marchar? <\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfA la persona que, en el fondo, sabes que no est\u00e1 hecha para ti? <\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfQue sufrimos m\u00e1s cuando perdemos a quien nunca fue realmente nuestro?<\/b><\/p>\n

Y usted no es una excepci\u00f3n. Aunque esa persona de la que hablamos se haya ido f\u00edsicamente de tu vida hace tiempo, sigue estando muy presente en tu mente.<\/p>\n

Ese hombre al que echas tanto de menos sigue siendo el \u00fanico en el que puedes pensar, aunque te esfuerces por no hacerlo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You did everything in your power to forget all about him; you\u2019ve cut all ties with him, you got rid of everything that might remind you of him and you cut off all the people who connect the two of you.<\/p>\n

Seguiste la regla de no contacto, bloqueaste su n\u00famero y le dejaste de seguir en todas sus cuentas de redes sociales.<\/p>\n

Todos a tu alrededor asumen que este hombre no es m\u00e1s que una parte de tu pasado lejano.<\/p>\n

Even the ones closest to you are convinced that you\u2019ve gotten over him and that you\u2019ve moved on with your life completely, as if he was never a part of it.<\/p>\n

But the truth is different. The truth is that you\u2019ve<\/b> aprendi\u00f3 a vivir sin \u00e9l<\/b><\/a> hasta cierto punto, pero que todav\u00eda est\u00e1 consumido por el pensamiento de este hombre.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Que siga siendo lo primero que se te pasa por la cabeza nada m\u00e1s despertarte y que su imagen sea lo \u00faltimo que ves cuando est\u00e1s a punto de cerrar los ojos y dormirte.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que todav\u00eda sientes mariposas cada vez que ves a alguien que se parece a \u00e9l o escuchas una voz parecida a la suya.<\/p>\n

And most of all \u2014 the truth is that you still hope that one day, he\u2019ll come back to you, admitting that he made a mistake when he walked out on you.<\/p>\n

That you still wait for his phone call and that you hope it\u2019s him every time you hear the sound of receiving a text message.<\/p>\n

Pero eso es algo que te niegas a admitir ante nadie, ni siquiera ante ti mismo. Porque despite all of the feelings you still have for this man, deep down, you know that you guys aren\u2019t meant to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You aren\u2019t happy without him but you are also aware that you wouldn\u2019t be anywhere near happiness with him either.<\/b><\/p>\n

So basically, you aren\u2019t holding on to this man<\/b>\u2014<\/b>te aferras a su recuerdo y al potencial de vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

Te aferras a los bellos momentos que compartisteis y a lo que podr\u00eda haber sido de vosotros dos, si \u00e9l hubiera elegido ser diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Odio ser quien te lo diga... pero est\u00e1s haciendo todo esto porque subconscientemente quieres que las cosas sean as\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n

You want to hold on to him, even though you know that you\u2019ll have to let go sooner or later.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes por qu\u00e9? Porque tu recuerdo es lo \u00fanico que mantiene viva esta relaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Porque si lo dejas ir, si realmente dejas de pensar en \u00e9l y si haces todo lo posible por borrar a este hombre tanto de tu mente como de tu coraz\u00f3n, significa que aceptas que se acab\u00f3.<\/p>\n

It means that you accept that this guy is just a part of your past. And most of all \u2014 it means that you accept that he isn\u2019t coming back.<\/p>\n

Even though you think you are ready to do this, it is clear that you aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n

It is more than obvious that you don\u2019t want to move on with your life and that you are more comfortable with your painful thoughts because with time, they\u2019ve become familiar to you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve allowed the dolor para definirte <\/a> y se ha convertido en parte de ti.<\/p>\n

Y aunque te duela mucho, se ha convertido en tu zona de confort que te da demasiado miedo abandonar.<\/p>\n

But let me tell you one thing \u2014 you can\u2019t spend the rest of your life living like this.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to understand that holding on to something that you know wasn\u2019t meant to be yours is pointless.<\/p>\n

And when this happens, you\u2019ll turn around and you\u2019ll see that you wasted precious years of your life on a man who isn\u2019t and never will be yours.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That you\u2019ve caged yourself with memories and that you are the one who kept herself stuck in one place.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, mira la verdad a los ojos y acepta el final.<\/p>\n

Dejar de buscar el cierre <\/a> , for an explanation, stop overthinking about all the possible scenarios and reasons for your relationship to end the way it did. Just accept that the two of you weren\u2019t meant to be and let go.<\/p>\n

Porque s\u00f3lo cuando lo hagas despejar\u00e1s el camino para el hombre que realmente est\u00e1 destinado a ser tuyo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo cuando realmente dejes ir a este tipo de tu coraz\u00f3n y pensamientos ser\u00e1s capaz de seguir adelante de verdad. S\u00f3lo cuando lo hagas, te sentir\u00e1s liberada.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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