{"id":3004,"date":"2020-09-01T13:09:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-01T13:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3004"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:57:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:57:09","slug":"narcisistas-manipuladores-psicopatas-personas-toxicas-dano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/narcisistas-manipuladores-psicopatas-personas-toxicas-dano\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como te da\u00f1an los narcisistas manipuladores"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las personas t\u00f3xicas suelen degradar y herir a sus parejas, familiares y amigos utilizando diferentes t\u00e1cticas de distracci\u00f3n que hacen que sus v\u00edctimas no est\u00e9n seguras de la realidad.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, no s\u00f3lo las personas narcisistas utilizan estas t\u00e1cticas, sino tambi\u00e9n otras personas manipuladoras.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed tienes 5 formas en las que la gente t\u00f3xica te hace callar y te degrada.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Verg\u00fcenza p\u00fablica y privada<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Este tipo de personas siempre est\u00e1n dispuestas a hacer comentarios que te menosprecian. Los narcisistas disfrutan haciendo que otras personas se sientan peque\u00f1as, parezcan d\u00e9biles o menos inteligentes que ellos mismos.<\/p>\n<p>However, they will do this subtly so sometimes you won\u2019t even recognize it\u2014such as under the guise of \u201cI\u2019m just kidding.\u201d or \u201cCan\u2019t you take a joke?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Con el tiempo, empiezas a confiar en esas palabras t\u00f3xicas o conf\u00edas en la esperanza de que por fin te acepten como alguien lo suficientemente bueno.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let this go too far. You\u2019re already enough, trust me.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Gaslighting or \u201ccrazy-making\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Este tipo de manipulaci\u00f3n es especialmente peligrosa porque juega tanto con tu mente que empiezas a dudar de ti mismo y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-cosas-que-los-hombres-te-hacen-sentir-como-una-loca\/\">cuestionar tu cordura.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Conoces esa sensaci\u00f3n cuando empiezas a preguntarte si realmente dijiste algo, o si nunca dijeron algo, o si otras personas ven lo mismo que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>Esta t\u00e9cnica funciona perfectamente para el narcisista porque no hay pruebas.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like you can\u2019t prove how they feel or if they said something bad or acted irrationally. And so you go in circles and things get worse and worse.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>DEMASIADO control<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3007 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre con gorra en el bosque\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/forrest-cavale-5249-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sienten que deben controlarlo todo, desde la conversaci\u00f3n hasta el dinero, porque siempre necesitan ser el centro de atenci\u00f3n y el foco principal de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Sienten que si te dejan decidir algo, se volver\u00e1n d\u00e9biles.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/5-cosas-que-la-gente-toxica-destruye\/\">Gente t\u00f3xica<\/a> muestran estos problemas de control en una relaci\u00f3n cada vez que deciden que tienes que cambiar algo de ti, como adelgazar o cambiarte el color del pelo.<\/p>\n<p>Ellos deciden si puedes ver a algunas personas o ir a alg\u00fan sitio o no.<\/p>\n<p>If you recognize these signs early in a relationship, you should run as fast as you can. Don\u2019t wait until it becomes too late.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Minimizar su valor<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Nada de lo que haces est\u00e1 bien hecho. Te has graduado, tienes un trabajo estupendo, grandes amigos y, encima, un aspecto fant\u00e1stico.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, estas personas siempre sacar\u00e1n a relucir algo que deber\u00edas mejorar y hacer de forma diferente. No hay palabras de apoyo en su vocabulario.<\/p>\n<p>They are psychologically trying to diminish your achievements by making you think you\u2019re stupid, boring, ridiculous, or not good-looking.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que alguien te hace un cumplido, se siente en peligro porque no est\u00e1 en la cima. Las personas t\u00f3xicas arruinar\u00e1n poco a poco tus ambiciones y tu vida si dejas que sigan minimizando tu val\u00eda.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Asumir el papel de v\u00edctima<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>No, it\u2019s not their fault. It never is. It\u2019s always your fault and they are victims of your hazardous behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s exactly what they make you believe by playing the role of victim.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you recognize their toxic behavior and face them with facts, they will immediately pretend to be very hurt and insulted because whatever happened\u2014it\u2019s your fault and not theirs.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/3-juegos-mentales-que-practican-todas-las-personas-toxicas\/\">Este juego mental <\/a>is very dangerous because they can be very good and convincing actors. You will soon start hating yourself because obviously, you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n<p>You should always be cool, calm, and collected and stick to the facts, even though it\u2019s very easy to fall under the influence of these people and become their victim.<\/p>\n<p>Se necesita una gran fortaleza, as\u00ed como mucho valor y energ\u00eda para tratar con estas personas.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas usar toda la fuerza emocional y mental que tienes para poder contraatacar, \u00a1pero puedes hacerlo!<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante es mantenerse alejado de los pensamientos de que hay algo malo en ti.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toxic people often demean and hurt their partners, family and friends by using different diversionary tactics that make their victims unsure of reality. Of course, not only narcissistic people use these tactics, but other manipulative people as well. Here are 5 ways toxic people shut you up and degrade you. 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