{"id":30110,"date":"2020-11-15T19:14:35","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T19:14:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30110"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:32:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:32:10","slug":"si-realmente-la-amas-no-la-destruyas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-realmente-la-amas-no-la-destruyas\/","title":{"rendered":"Si la quieres de verdad, no la destruyas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando una mujer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/asi-es-como-te-abres-al-amor-despues-de-haber-sido-danado-emocionalmente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">abre su coraz\u00f3n al amor<\/a> gracias a ti, est\u00e1 saliendo de su zona de confort.<\/p>\n<p>Ignora todos sus miedos e inseguridades y decide confiar en ti, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>She tears down the walls around her heart which she\u2019s been building for years and she lets you in all the way, even though she promised not to do that ever again.<\/p>\n<p>She decides to put her faith in you and to believe that you won\u2019t do her any harm.<\/p>\n<p><b>Cuando una mujer te quiere, por muy fuerte y autosuficiente que sea, tambi\u00e9n te est\u00e1 dando mucho poder sobre s\u00ed misma. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ella te est\u00e1 dando todo su ser y con eso, te est\u00e1 dando la oportunidad de romperle el coraz\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I<\/b><b>n cierto modo, te est\u00e1 dando la oportunidad de hacerle da\u00f1o y de arruinarla.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118825\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de negocios que mira hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/business-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>And it is just up to you if you\u2019ll take that chance.<\/b> It is up to you if you\u2019ll use her and take advantage of the fact that she is wearing her heart on her sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>Depende de ti si amar\u00e1s a esta mujer de verdad. <b>But just remember one thing\u2014you don\u2019t destroy the ones you love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, <b>don\u2019t break her heart if you love her.<\/b> Because she\u2019s been through something like that in the past and she couldn\u2019t stand having another heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t make her beg for your attention.<\/b> Si la amas, demu\u00e9strale la profundidad de tu amor.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make her feel unloved or unwanted. Don\u2019t ruin her confidence and don\u2019t ever compare her to other girls.<\/p>\n<p>Si la amas, tr\u00e1tala como si fuera la \u00fanica mujer con la que podr\u00edas estar.<\/p>\n<p>Demu\u00e9strale que ves lo \u00fanica y especial que es y lo orgulloso que est\u00e1s de tener a una mujer as\u00ed a tu lado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118827\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bebiendo caf\u00e9 cerca de la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-drinking-coffee-near-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat her like your last resort because she will always put you first. This girl ought to be your priority and the last thing she deserves is to be treated like a second choice.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t make her feel like your last resort or safety net.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t expect her to deal with your emotional baggage.<\/b> Don\u2019t expect her to be your personal savior and the one who will fix you, while you break her.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t treat her like a rebound relationship because she is much more than that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t treat her like <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-le-hagas-perder-el-tiempo-si-buscas-algo-temporal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>algo temporal<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> Cuando esta chica deja entrar a alguien, quiere que dure toda la vida.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t looking for just a good time and she isn\u2019t looking for meaningless relationships. Instead, she wants you to love all of her.<\/p>\n<p>She wants you to be her partner in every sense of that word and if this is something you can\u2019t offer her, please walk away in time, before you enter her heart completely.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118828\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"silueta de mujer mirando el sol en la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-silhouette-watching-sun-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t play games with her<\/b> porque se dar\u00e1 cuenta de tus intenciones.<\/p>\n<p>No, she won\u2019t think of you as the bigger man if you pretend to be this tough guy who is incapable of loving because that will only chase her away.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to send her mixed signals because she doesn\u2019t have the time or the energy to waste on decoding you and your actions. Just be honest with her.<\/p>\n<p>There is no need for you to hold back your emotions or to hide your vulnerable side because I promise you that she\u2019ll never use them against you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t allow her to be <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/im-hecho-uno-tratando\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>el \u00fanico que lo intenta<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> If you love her, make her feel that love. Show her that you care because it is the only way she\u2019ll believe you.<\/p>\n<p>This girl won\u2019t justify you for not treating her right because she knows that your love is shown through your efforts around her.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t make her chase you.<\/b> Because she never will. And it doesn\u2019t have anything to do with the fact that she doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118829\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer rubia mirando hacia otro lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blondy-woman-looking-away-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como ves, esta chica sabe lo que vale y nunca permitir\u00eda que alguien la humillara haci\u00e9ndola mendigar su amor.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t try to control her and don\u2019t try to manipulate her<\/b> because she knows who she is and she knows she doesn\u2019t need you, even though she loves you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s worked hard to become the woman she is today and she won\u2019t let anyone change her.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo m\u00e1s importante, <b>if you love her, don\u2019t ever let her go.<\/b> Because trust me\u2014this is the girl you find once in a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>A girl like no other and a girl you\u2019ll be searching for in every other woman, if you happen to lose her.<\/p>\n<p>So please, do your best to keep her around. Because if you do, she\u2019ll show you what it means to be loved and she\u2019ll show you that she is worth it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118824\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si la quieres de verdad, no la destruyas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><br \/>\n<!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a woman opens her heart to love because of you, she is stepping out of her comfort zone. She is ignoring all of her fears and insecurities and she decides to trust you, no matter what. She tears down the walls around her heart which she\u2019s been building for years and she lets you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":118826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/If-You-Really-Love-Her-Dont-Destroy-Her-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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