Instead of waiting for him to do something about it, to read your mind and to magically find out about your feelings, you\u2019ve decided to ask him out on a date. But you don\u2019t know how to do it.
\nWell, you\u2019ve come to the right place because you are about to read 12 proven ways and pieces of advice on how to ask a guy you like on a date.<\/p>\n
1. Piense en sus expectativas<\/h2>\n
Antes de invitar a salir a un chico que te gusta, en primer lugar tienes que ser clara y sincera contigo misma. Piensa en lo que esperas de esa cita.<\/p>\n
\u00bfD\u00f3nde piensa trazar la l\u00ednea si el primera cita<\/a> happens? How far are you ready to go for him to say \u2018yes\u2019 to your invitation?<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 esperas de esta cita? \u00bfQuieres conocerle mejor y ver a d\u00f3nde os lleva la noche?<\/p>\n \u00bfO piensas invitarle a tu casa si la cita tiene \u00e9xito? \u00bfVes a este chico como tu futuro novio y alguien con quien podr\u00edas desarrollar una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda si \u00e9l est\u00e1 dispuesto a ello?<\/p>\n \u00bfEsperas que acepte salir contigo de inmediato? \u00bfO crees que existe la posibilidad de que rechace tu propuesta?<\/p>\n These are all the questions you should ask yourself before making the first move. Even though it is clear that you can\u2019t have an impact how everything will turn out, and you can\u2019t know his view on things, it is important for you to know what you want. This way, you\u2019ll prepare yourself more, and you\u2019ll have a chance to play your cards just right.<\/p>\n El siguiente paso deber\u00eda ser intentar darte cuenta de si le gustas a este chico. \u00bfTe ve como algo m\u00e1s que una amiga o te considera como una m\u00e1s? \u00bfExiste la posibilidad de que le gustes pero sea t\u00edmido y tenga miedo al rechazo?<\/p>\n If this is someone you talk to on a regular basis, pay close attention to the non-verbal signs he\u2019s been sending you. Can you see any signs of flirting in this man\u2019s behavior?<\/p>\n \u00bfTe toca el brazo o la pierna cuando habla? \u00bfIntenta mantener el contacto visual? \u00bfLe hace cumplidos? \u00bfHace todo lo posible por hacerte re\u00edr?<\/p>\n Si la respuesta a al menos algunas de estas preguntas es positiva, entonces es m\u00e1s que evidente que le gustas pero le cuesta dar el primer paso. Recuerda que no todos los hombres son iguales y que algunos de ellos, incluido \u00e9ste, necesitan un poco m\u00e1s de seguridad de que la chica que les gusta les corresponde antes de invitarla a salir.<\/p>\n If this is the case with the object of your affection, just go for it. Propose a date activity for the two of you, and I promise you that you won\u2019t get a \u2018no\u2019 for an answer.<\/p>\n But on the other hand, there is the possibility that the man you like isn\u2019t showing you any hints that he might see you as more than a friend. Or the two of you don\u2019t have any contact whatsoever, so you can\u2019t tell. This might be some random dude you saw in the bar or a friend of a friend.<\/p>\n En cualquier caso, cuando esto ocurre, es crucial que te expongas antes de hacer ning\u00fan movimiento. Tiene que empezar a percibirte como la mujer atractiva que eres antes de soltar la invitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be scared to flirt with him when you see him in person. Like his social media posts or \u201caccidentally\u201d show up somewhere where you know you could meet him.<\/p>\n La cuesti\u00f3n es enviarle se\u00f1ales no verbales y ver si recibes alguna respuesta. Aseg\u00farate de no exagerar y de tomarte las cosas con calma.<\/p>\n Talking to the man you like, let alone asking him out on a date and making the first move, can be scary, and it is everything but easy. So don\u2019t beat yourself up if you are insecure about this. It is perfectly natural to feel this way.<\/p>\n Pero, por otro lado, el miedo no te llevar\u00e1 a ninguna parte, y s\u00f3lo puede hacer que pierdas tu oportunidad con \u00e9l. As\u00ed que lo que tienes que hacer es encontrar la manera de aumentar tu confianza antes de dar el paso.<\/p>\n En lugar de pensar en todas las formas en que este hombre podr\u00eda rechazarte<\/a>Piense en positivo. En lugar de pensar demasiado en todo lo que podr\u00eda salir mal, sea optimista y piense en el mejor escenario posible.<\/p>\n Aseg\u00farate de tus capacidades y deshazte de todos los pensamientos ansiosos y negativos que puedan rondarte por la cabeza. Y aunque te sientas nerviosa una vez que te acerques a \u00e9l, haz todo lo posible por Go shopping or change your hairstyle\u2014whatever will make you feel better about yourself. Think about everything you\u2019ve accomplished in life so far, and stop considering this date as such a big deal.<\/p>\n Antes de invitarle a salir, piensa en todas las buenas cualidades que tienes. Conc\u00e9ntrate en las cosas que los hombres encuentran atractiva<\/a> sobre ti y sobre tus ardientes habilidades sociales.<\/p>\n Ponte delante del espejo y hazte cumplidos. Encuentra lo que m\u00e1s te gusta de ti y conc\u00e9ntrate en ello.<\/p>\n Recuerda que eres inteligente, divertido e ingenioso. Ya lo tienes.<\/p>\n If you are too shy to ask a guy you like on a date, just ask him to hang out with friends. That will definitely take a lot of the pressure away. This way, you\u2019ll get a chance to get to know him better and to see if he has feelings for you without putting yourself out there too much and without taking a concrete step.<\/p>\n The only problem that might occur with this approach is that he might not get the hint. This man might think that you are really asking him out as one of your buddies and that might put you in the friend zone. And let\u2019s face it\u2014this is the last thing you want.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que lo mejor que puedes hacer es elegir bien esta actividad de grupo. Planea algo que tambi\u00e9n te d\u00e9 la oportunidad de pasar un rato a solas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n The best type of a group date is one with couples, and make sure he knows it, as well. Be clear and don\u2019t make things awkward by putting him in a situation where he isn\u2019t aware of your intentions.<\/p>\n Another tip for asking a man out is to ask your mutual friend to talk to him. But don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me advising you to have your best friend ask this guy out on your behalf because that is something you should never allow to happen. The only way your friend can ask him out is on a group date, where you\u2019ll be present, as well.<\/p>\n Que otra persona haga tu trabajo y le pida una cita al hombre que te gusta en tu nombre s\u00f3lo demuestra que eres demasiado inmadura e insegura. Es infantil, y muestra que est\u00e1s haciendo un gran problema de todo esto, que s\u00f3lo puede ahuyentar a este hombre de ti.<\/p>\n Instead, ask a friend just to talk to this guy about you, without making anything too obvious. Ask them to mention you in front of him or to propose inviting you to the next group activity. This can help you see this guy\u2019s reaction, and it will make him think of you more.<\/p>\n The next step into this process is thinking about the way you\u2019ll ask this guy out. Will you do it through a texto dulce<\/a>? \u00bfHar\u00e1 una llamada telef\u00f3nica? \u00bfO se lo pedir\u00e1 cara a cara?<\/p>\n One of the great ways to do it is just to write a little post-it note on which you\u2019ll leave your name and number. I know this might sound cheesy at first glance, but the truth is that it is quite romantic. Besides, it works like a charm with men you don\u2019t know so well, and it will lead you to success with a guy you keep seeing in the gym or with someone who goes to class with you but you don\u2019t have a chance to approach him.<\/p>\n If you plan on asking this guy out in person, make sure that the two of you are not in an overly crowded place while you do it. It can be awkward to make this proposition in front of other people, so choose a private place and a stress-free environment to take this step. I am not saying that you have to be alone with this man to ask him out, but make sure you pick a semi-isolated place where you\u2019ll have a chance to say what you have in mind without anyone interrupting you.<\/p>\n If you can\u2019t seem to catch this guy alone, approach him while he is with other people. Just ask him if you can get a second of his time, and move away from the group.<\/p>\n Acu\u00e9rdate de empezar la conversaci\u00f3n con una peque\u00f1a charla antes de hacer la pregunta. Haz que el ambiente sea lo m\u00e1s relajado posible y, una vez que lo hagas, haz la proposici\u00f3n, sin pausas dram\u00e1ticas y sin que suene a gran cosa.<\/p>\n Por otro lado, si te da miedo invitarle a salir en persona, hazlo por tel\u00e9fono. Es mucho mejor llamarle que enviarle un mensaje de texto porque demuestra que todav\u00eda tienes un cierto nivel de autoestima.<\/p>\n You can just start your conversation casually and proceed with telling him about your intentions. You might also add that he doesn\u2019t have to give you an answer right away. He can get back to you when he makes a decision. Just make sure not to sound too desperate!<\/p>\n Besides thinking about the place and the way in which you\u2019ll ask your crush on a date, you should have in mind that the timing is crucial as well. There is a huge difference between sending a late night drunk text or calling at a reasonable hour. That will also have an impact on his decision and the further course of events.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, ser\u00eda estupendo que hicieras una peque\u00f1a b\u00fasqueda de antecedentes de este hombre porque necesitas estar segura de que est\u00e1 soltero y emocionalmente disponible antes de hacer nada.<\/p>\n I know you expect him to tell you about his relationship status as soon as you starting talking about your potential date, but sadly, things aren\u2019t always like that, so it is better to be sure. The last thing you want is to be someone\u2019s hidden affair or rebound girl.<\/p>\n If you are shy about asking your crush on a date, a great way to do it is to make up an excuse for seeing him, and therefore, not make this get together an \u2018official\u2019 date. This way, you\u2019ll avoid the potential awkwardness, but you\u2019ll still have the chance of getting to conocer mejor a este hombre<\/a> y de acercarse a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n If you guys work together or are in the same class, tell him that you need his help about a project. Tell him that there is something you don\u2019t understand regarding work or school and that you would appreciate if he could give you a hand. The same goes with men you meet at some other activities, such as language courses, the gym or some other sport you train on together.<\/p>\n Cuando consigas que acepte ayudarte, inv\u00edtale a tomar un caf\u00e9. Incluso puedes invitarle a cenar despu\u00e9s, para mostrarle tu gratitud y aprecio.<\/p>\n But what if you can\u2019t think of anything you might need from your crush? Well, there is a solution for that, as well. Have you ever heard of the extra ticket trick, where you tell your crush that you have a spare ticket for an event that you\u2019d like to visit and that you know he would enjoy seeing?<\/p>\n Tambi\u00e9n puedes decirle que necesitas a alguien que te acompa\u00f1e a una actividad de grupo en la que s\u00f3lo habr\u00e1 un pu\u00f1ado de parejas. Decidas lo que decidas, aseg\u00farate de que tu chico capta que quieres que seamos algo m\u00e1s que amigos cuando consigas que salga contigo.<\/p>\n Uno de los consejos m\u00e1s importantes en cualquier encuentro rom\u00e1ntico es ser directo. Y organizar la primera cita no es una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n2. Ver si le gustas<\/h2>\n
3. Aumenta tu confianza<\/h2>\n
\nque no lo vea. S\u00ed, un poco de inseguridad es bonito, pero demasiada puede ahuyentar a ese chico.<\/p>\n4. P\u00eddele que salga con amigos<\/h2>\n
5. P\u00eddele a un amigo que hable con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Think of the way you\u2019ll ask him out<\/h2>\n
7. El momento oportuno lo es todo<\/h2>\n
8. Inventa una excusa para invitarle a salir<\/h2>\n
9. Ser directo<\/h2>\n