{"id":30204,"date":"2020-11-17T08:47:56","date_gmt":"2020-11-17T08:47:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30204"},"modified":"2024-10-28T20:34:14","modified_gmt":"2024-10-28T19:34:14","slug":"este-ano-me-enseno-a-sobrevivir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/este-ano-me-enseno-a-sobrevivir\/","title":{"rendered":"Este a\u00f1o me ha ense\u00f1ado a sobrevivir sola"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Este a\u00f1o no fue todo lo que esperaba. Fue un a\u00f1o en el que realmente aprend\u00ed muchas cosas, pero de una manera dura.<\/p>\n<p>Fue un a\u00f1o en el que perd\u00ed a mis seres queridos, en el que se revelaron secretos y en el que vi c\u00f3mo la gente a mi alrededor se quitaba la m\u00e1scara y mostraba su verdadero rostro.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/por-fin-estoy-preparado-para-dejar-atras-el-ano\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Durante este a\u00f1o <\/a>Aprend\u00ed que s\u00f3lo puedo confiar en m\u00ed misma. Aprend\u00ed que no importa cu\u00e1ntas veces todos me digan que estar\u00e1n ah\u00ed para siempre, se ir\u00e1n, poniendo excusas en cuanto las cosas se pongan feas.<\/p>\n<p>I learned that I shouldn\u2019t give too much of myself to the people who don\u2019t deserve it and that words mean nothing if actions are different.<\/p>\n<p>I learned that family doesn\u2019t necessarily mean safety and that the ones who swore they will always protect me left with the first bump on the road.<\/p>\n<p>Este ha sido un a\u00f1o en el que he aprendido mucho sobre m\u00ed misma. Aprend\u00ed a controlar mis emociones, a controlar mi forma de reaccionar y a abrazar cada cambio como si fuera lo mejor que me est\u00e1 pasando.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115410 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"la rubia descansa en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-blonde-rests-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Durante este a\u00f1o, he cambiado por completo, pero estoy totalmente de acuerdo con ello.<\/p>\n<p>Tuve la mala suerte de perder a personas que cre\u00eda que eran mis mejores amigos. Pero, en realidad, estaban conmigo s\u00f3lo por alg\u00fan inter\u00e9s personal.<\/p>\n<p>Estaban conmigo porque les conven\u00eda. Y nada m\u00e1s. As\u00ed que perderlos fue algo malo, pero cuando los miro m\u00e1s de cerca, es mejor haber visto sus verdaderos rostros a tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>This year taught me that when someone says they love me, it doesn\u2019t always mean it will last forever. I learned that love is all about how much effort you are willing to make for someone.<\/p>\n<p>It is how much you are willing to give to them without asking for anything in return. I learned that I shouldn\u2019t push things, especially when it comes to love. And that was the most important thing I learned so far.<\/p>\n<p>Este a\u00f1o tambi\u00e9n me ha ense\u00f1ado que la \u00fanica persona en la que debo confiar es en m\u00ed misma. Porque confi\u00e9 en muchos individuos en mi vida, y todos se aprovecharon de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115413 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer est\u00e1 sola junto al r\u00edo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-stands-alone-by-the-river-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Me decepcionaron <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/not-rebuild-take-granted\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> d\u00e1ndome por sentado <\/a> and neglecting me. They didn\u2019t see how much I was willing to make an effort for them. They only looked out for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Este a\u00f1o aprend\u00ed que en la vida s\u00f3lo puedo confiar en m\u00ed misma. Aprend\u00ed que cada vez que me caigo tengo que levantarme. Aprend\u00ed que nunca debo rendirme.<\/p>\n<p>Porque si lo hago, estar\u00e9 completamente perdida. Ser\u00e9 s\u00f3lo una mujer m\u00e1s que renunci\u00f3 a su vida. Y eso no es algo que quiera hacer.<\/p>\n<p>I also learned that there will be different phases in life and that it won\u2019t always all be so flawless. There will be hard times, times where I will feel I am losing my mind but that I will get over them if I believe in myself.<\/p>\n<p>I learned that life and love isn\u2019t only about one man, and if he doesn\u2019t make me feel happy, then I shouldn\u2019t hold onto him.<\/p>\n<p>I learned that love will come when I least expect it and that it is something I shouldn\u2019t push. It should come to me naturally.<\/p>\n<p>I learned that I don\u2019t need a man to complete me. I don\u2019t need one to be my hero either. I am strong and capable enough to take care of myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115416 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road.jpg\" alt=\"una chica sonriente con sombrero se sienta en medio de la carretera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-smiling-girl-with-a-hat-sits-in-the-middle-of-the-road-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E incluso cuando est\u00e9 cansada hasta los huesos, encontrar\u00e9 esa pizca de fuerza dentro de m\u00ed para seguir adelante. Nunca me rendir\u00e9, sobre todo conmigo misma.<\/p>\n<p>This year taught me so many things, and some of them changed my outlook on life completely. I learned that I can survive everything that happens to me on my own and that I don\u2019t need anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n<p>Y aunque este a\u00f1o han pasado m\u00e1s cosas malas que buenas, estoy agradecida por ello. Estoy agradecido porque as\u00ed aprend\u00ed a afrontar los problemas de la vida y a salir de ellos con la cabeza fr\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Este a\u00f1o me ha ayudado a crecer y a entenderme mejor a m\u00ed misma. Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, me ayud\u00f3 a ver que no importa cu\u00e1nto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/not-rebuild-take-granted\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Estoy roto <\/a>...puedo volver a estar completo.<\/p>\n<p>Christine es autora de <em>\u2018<a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Staring-Into-Eyes-Anxiety-Depression-ebook\/dp\/B07KGGLQGB\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542715256&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=staring+into+the+eyes+of+anxiety+and+depression\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n <\/a>\u2019<\/em> Un libro que cambiar\u00e1 tu forma de combatir la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115421 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Year-Taught-Me-How-To-Survive-On-My-Own-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Este a\u00f1o me ha ense\u00f1ado a sobrevivir sola\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Year-Taught-Me-How-To-Survive-On-My-Own-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Year-Taught-Me-How-To-Survive-On-My-Own-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Year-Taught-Me-How-To-Survive-On-My-Own-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Year-Taught-Me-How-To-Survive-On-My-Own-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Year-Taught-Me-How-To-Survive-On-My-Own-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This year wasn\u2019t everything that I expected. It was a year in which I actually learned a lot of things but in a harsh way. It was a year of losing my loved ones, secrets revealing themselves, and seeing people around me taking off their masks and revealing their real faces. During this year ,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":176883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30204","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/This-Year-Taught-Me-How-To-Survive-On-My-Own-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30204","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30204"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30204\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176884,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30204\/revisions\/176884"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30204"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30204"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30204"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}