{"id":30273,"date":"2018-12-17T20:30:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-17T20:30:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30273"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:39:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:39:53","slug":"la-verdad-brutalmente-honesta-sobre-por-que-nunca-consigues-al-chico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-brutalmente-honesta-sobre-por-que-nunca-consigues-al-chico\/","title":{"rendered":"La cruda verdad sobre por qu\u00e9 nunca conquistas a tu pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre te preguntas por qu\u00e9 siempre acabas soltero. Cada vez que conoces a un posible nuevo inter\u00e9s amoroso, la llama se apaga antes incluso de tener la oportunidad de encenderse. Nunca puedes aferrarte a un chico lo suficiente como para llamarlo novio y siempre aceptas cualquier excusa poco convincente que tenga para dejarte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso cuando conoces a un chico con el que tienes mucho en com\u00fan y las conversaciones son incre\u00edblemente estimulantes, tu <\/span>qu\u00edmica textual<\/span><\/a> se sale de lo normal y te sientes tan atra\u00edda sexualmente por \u00e9l, que nunca parece ser suficiente para durar. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 siempre resulta as\u00ed?<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re baffled and annoyed! It\u2019s not like you\u2019re not a catch! You\u2019re good-looking, you\u2019re ambitious and you are not superficial. You have good values and you\u2019re kind to the people around you. So, what gives?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too serious.<\/b><\/p>\n

Think about it. You may still feel too young for marriage and kids but you\u2019re also too old for meaningless conversations and superficial values.<\/span><\/p>\n

At this point in your life, you\u2019re serious. Serious about your intentions with a significant other and serious about commitment. You no longer crave trivial chats through text but want a phone call from him asking how your day went.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want someone who\u2019s going to call you at 2 AM, drunk off his ass, screaming into your ear, very clearly wasted but rather a guy who\u2019s going to call at that ungodly hour to tell you he misses you and he can\u2019t wait to get home.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya no buscas nada d\u00e9bil o vago, ahora quieres algo de verdad. Un compromiso. Y los chicos pueden sentirlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, some men are intimidated as soon as they sense it and they\u2019re gone before you know it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pides demasiado.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have standards. You have needs. You no longer settle for anything half-assed. You are perfectly capable of dealing with their wants and needs but they can\u2019t seem to handle yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Les pides tiempo. Sabes que es importante pasar tiempo juntos para poder crecer y conectar como pareja. Exiges inter\u00e9s. Necesitan poder preguntarte por tu d\u00eda, sin que tengas que record\u00e1rselo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You demand trust. You want to be able to trust them when they\u2019re off doing their thing, the same way they know they can trust you. But they can\u2019t seem to return the favor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Never feel bad about needing commitment from a guy. A real relationship has to check all those boxes. If it doesn\u2019t, keep searching. <\/span>Un buen tipo<\/span><\/a> tiene que existir en alguna parte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que ser su prioridad.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t ask for the moon and the stars. You don\u2019t ask for them to have eyes only for you. All you want and deserve is a guy who is never going to make you feel like you come second.<\/span><\/p>\n

He can still have his life. He can still hang out with his buddies. But you need to be high up on that priority list as well. You\u2019re not here to beg for anyone\u2019s attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some guys just can\u2019t deal with that. They feel like going off the radar for a few days without checking in is okay and then they make you the crazy one for asking why they didn\u2019t at least text that everything was all right.<\/span><\/p>\n

The right guy will always check on you. He will never make you feel crazy for needing a healthy amount of communication. So don\u2019t give up due to immature jerks. <\/span>Un hombre de verdad<\/span><\/a> te encontrar\u00e1 cuando dejes de buscarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meaningless flings don\u2019t interest you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You want a real conversation. You want to be able to confide in him and seek solace in his arms. You don\u2019t need a boy who\u2019s just going to nod at whatever you say and then go play video games.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quieres una relaci\u00f3n. Una sociedad. Y algunos hombres simplemente quieren un cuerpo caliente para cuando se sienten solos. Si sigues encontr\u00e1ndote con esos tipos, empieza a buscar en otra parte.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are guys out there capable of giving you what you need out of a relationship. Just because you keep running into immature assholes doesn\u2019t mean a relationship is not meant for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todos tenemos nuestro camino que recorrer y el tuyo a\u00fan est\u00e1 en marcha. S\u00e9 paciente y espera a un hombre que vea todo de ti y sepa lo que vales. Nada m\u00e1s vale tu tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

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