{"id":30307,"date":"2018-12-18T08:48:33","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T08:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30307"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:38:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:38:36","slug":"amor-fati-la-belleza-de-aceptar-lo-que-te-es-dado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amor-fati-la-belleza-de-aceptar-lo-que-te-es-dado\/","title":{"rendered":"Amor Fati: La belleza de aceptar lo que te dan"},"content":{"rendered":"

Para todos aquellos que no sepan lo que es el amor fati, intentar\u00e9 dar una explicaci\u00f3n sencilla. Es simplemente aceptar todo lo que te sucede durante tu vida.<\/p>\n

It means that even when bad things happen, like losing a family member or going through some bad things in your business or love life, you calmly accept and embrace it all. It means knowing that you can\u2019t affect some things and that by accepting them, you bring the peace you need into your life.<\/p>\n

El amor fati fue popularizado por el fil\u00f3sofo alem\u00e1n Friedrich Nietzsche, cuyos estudios tuvieron un enorme impacto en la filosof\u00eda occidental. Adem\u00e1s, este t\u00e9rmino se repiti\u00f3 a menudo en la obra de Marco Aurelio, por lo que es conocido en todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

But today, I would love to show you what happens when you finally accept all that is happening to you. I want you to know what happens when the universe\u2019s guiding force takes you to the places you never thought you would ever go.<\/p>\n

En la mentalidad estoica, amor fati significa manejar con firmeza todas las cosas malas que te suceden y no quejarte nunca de ellas. Es como si la vida te abofeteara una y otra vez y cada vez que eso ocurre, pusieras la otra mejilla.<\/p>\n

Eso es lo que dicen que es una f\u00f3rmula para la grandeza y, de ese modo, est\u00e1n demostrando que siempre lo ocultan a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

And even if this mindset is pretty extremist, some people still follow it. They don\u2019t want others to know that something bad has happened to them because they don\u2019t want to make their loved ones sad. They don\u2019t want others to think son v\u00edctimas<\/span><\/a> o para que sientan l\u00e1stima por ellos.<\/p>\n

There are a lot of examples that can show you how amor fati is similar to some things in your life. For example, when you get married and when you plan to have kids, you know in advance that it won\u2019t be easy but that it will be worth it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same with amor fati. If you accept it as a blessing and as something that can help you grow and become a mejor persona<\/span>ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil aceptar todas esas cosas negativas y malas que te suceden.<\/p>\n

Y la gente que vive seg\u00fan estas reglas suele decir que esta forma de vivir siempre aporta algo de emoci\u00f3n a su vida y que no es aburrida, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

Siempre tienen algo de qu\u00e9 hablar y problemas que resolver. Ven cada cosa mala que pasa como un mensaje, o un reto. Y cada vez que la situaci\u00f3n se complica, se pone a\u00fan mejor, porque descubrir\u00e1s de lo mucho que eres capaz, al reaccionar ante una situaci\u00f3n as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

The worst thing you can do is complain about your bad destiny because in that way, you won\u2019t change anything. You will just make things worse and in the end, you will end up frustrated and depressed.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, deber\u00edas aceptar lo que te ocurre, pero no como si fuera agradable que te haya ocurrido. Deber\u00edas aceptarlo como algo grandioso, como la noticia m\u00e1s positiva que podr\u00edas haber esperado.<\/p>\n

Only then will you feel that you are totally free from all your problems. They won\u2019t be problems anymore, they will just be messages that will help you see your future clearly.<\/p>\n

Una vez que empieces a ver tu vida como un reto que tienes que manejar, ver\u00e1s su verdadera belleza.<\/p>\n

You will finally understand that all that worrying about things you couldn\u2019t affect was in vain and that you just did yourself harm by bothering your head with it.<\/p>\n

I know that it sounds a bit strange to embrace things that you didn\u2019t want to happen but you never know why God gives you something you don\u2019t want in your life. Maybe that is a lesson He is trying to teach you.<\/p>\n

Tal vez sea una especie de prueba que tienes que superar para ser m\u00e1s fuerte. Puede significar muchas cosas, as\u00ed que nunca rechaces lo que llega a tu vida, por malo que sea. Las cosas as\u00ed suelen prepararnos para algo mejor y salimos de ese tipo de experiencias m\u00e1s fuertes e inteligentes.<\/p>\n

Also, if you take a moment and look back, you will see that when you were younger you weren\u2019t so brave, whereas now you don\u2019t put up with any shit and you always stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n

That happens thanks to all those bad things that happened to you and taught you to handle problems as they appeared. If it wasn\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t know how to defend yourself in bad situations. You wouldn\u2019t feel good because you couldn\u2019t do anything good for yourself and you would start being depressed.<\/p>\n

And you will realize that amor fati is a real thing for you because in that way, you are accepting things that you can\u2019t change. It is something that teaches you to be a mejor persona<\/span><\/a> y trabajar en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

You will realize that the problems in your life aren\u2019t long-term and something that bothers you now won\u2019t probably bother you in a year or two. When you figure that out, you won\u2019t sweat the small stuff anymore and it will be easier to live your life in a quality way.<\/p>\n

Because to be honest, you don\u2019t have any other option. You can cry or scream but the pain won\u2019t go away. Problems won\u2019t go away. They will just be bigger because you don\u2019t know how to handle them.<\/p>\n

Pero si los aceptas y esperas a ver qu\u00e9 te depara el futuro, entonces est\u00e1s haciendo lo correcto.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed porque s\u00e9 lo que digo. Yo pas\u00e9 por esas cosas y s\u00e9 c\u00f3mo me comportaba en esas situaciones. S\u00e9 que enloquec\u00eda ante cada peque\u00f1o problema que me ocurr\u00eda y eso me afectaba bastante.<\/p>\n

That process lasted a long time and I saw the consequences of me losing my confidence. I wasn\u2019t happy anymore and I was thinking about my problems all the time. I couldn\u2019t focus on anything else and I realized I couldn\u2019t continue living like that.<\/p>\n

Entonces me rend\u00ed. Dej\u00e9 de preocuparme. Y en el momento en que empec\u00e9 a hacerlo, sent\u00ed que hab\u00eda vuelto a nacer. Me estaba liberando de la roca bajo la que hab\u00eda vivido durante tanto tiempo. Y fue una gran sensaci\u00f3n poder volver a vivir con los pulmones llenos.<\/p>\n

I remember at first, the people around me were looking at me strangely since I behaved like I didn\u2019t have problems, even if I didn\u2019t know what to do with them. I saw that I couldn\u2019t do anything about that and I started being indifferent. And that was the best thing I did in my life.<\/p>\n

Me convert\u00ed en una persona sin problemas porque acept\u00e9 cada uno de ellos como una bendici\u00f3n y un mensaje. Siempre intentaba encontrar el significado oculto en ellos y eso me convirti\u00f3 en una persona m\u00e1s inteligente y m\u00e1s fuerte. Me hizo a prueba de balas para cosas como la ansiedad en relaci\u00f3n con mi vida empresarial y mi vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

Tuve la paciencia de esperar a que se resolvieran los problemas y siempre escuchaba lo que el Cielo ten\u00eda que decir. Y en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, respondi\u00f3 positivamente a todas mis plegarias.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For all of you who don\u2019t know what amor fati is, I will try to give a simple explanation. It is simply accepting all that happens to you during your life. It means that even when bad things happen, like losing a family member or going through some bad things in your business or love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":30311,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/radu-florin-648487-unsplash-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30307","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30307"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30307\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30311"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30307"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30307"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30307"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}