Las fantas\u00edas son nuestra v\u00eda de escape de las limitaciones de nuestra vida cotidiana, donde podemos desprendernos de cualquier limitaci\u00f3n y juicio ajeno y disfrutar de nuestros ardientes y secretos deseos.<\/p>\n
Pero cuando se trata de fantas\u00edas, a menudo son muy diferentes de lo que nos excita en la vida real.<\/p>\n
Learn how to read his cues correctly and give him everything he really wants \u2013 use Lenguaje del deseo<\/a>.<\/p>\n In our fantasies, we allow ourself to delve deep into our most intimate parts of our body and mind and don\u2019t really have any barriers.<\/p>\n Los hombres y las mujeres tienen puntos de vista diferentes sobre lo que les excita y les hace enloquecer de deseo sexual, y lo que funciona para los hombres no suele ser el caso de las mujeres y viceversa.<\/p>\n Firstly, we\u2019re going to focus on what men find incredibly stimulating and appealing in women. What most of you will find most peculiar is the fact that not all of these things are of a physical nature.<\/p>\n Hay otros m\u00e1s sutiles formas de excitar a un chico<\/a> and make him want you beyond your wildest dreams and you don\u2019t even have to touch him to achieve it\u2026 Perm\u00edtanme explicar<\/i>.<\/p>\n Aqu\u00ed tienes todas las formas de excitar a un chico sin tocarle.<\/p>\n Firstly, you\u2019re showing him how intr\u00e9pida y feroz<\/a> que eres poniendo el control en tus propias manos.<\/p>\n And he\u2019s going to love a girl who doesn\u2019t hesitate when she sees something that she wants!<\/p>\n Secondly, it\u2019s going to give you courage to do this again (should this not work, of course) and see exactly what works and what doesn\u2019t, by learning from your mistakes.<\/p>\n And thirdly, the worst thing that can happen is him saying, \u201cNo,\u201d right? You can suck it up, it\u2019s literally 2 seconds of your life, and then you can turn around and never see this dude again in your life!<\/p>\n But my guess is, he\u2019s going to love a girl who knows what she wants and goes after it.<\/p>\n And he\u2019s going to appreciate the fact that you don\u2019t feel like men have to do everything first, so bonus points for that!<\/p>\n I know it\u2019s a little scary to lock eyes with a guy you literally just met as it makes you feel a little vulnerable\u2026 but guess what?<\/p>\n Eye contact is freaking sexy and it’s a big turn-on to every guy! As a matter of fact, it’s one of the top turn-ons for them.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t even matter whether you two just met or if you\u2019ve been going out for a while.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re sitting at a bar and talking about literally anything, make sure to keep eye contact and make him see how interested you are, in both him and what he has to say.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a surefire way to make him realize you\u2019re not messing around and that you want him. Badly.<\/p>\n And in turn, he\u2019s going to get really excited about where this date might end\u2026 Just keep your eyes on the prize, and don\u2019t forget to collect at the end of the night.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no better time than now, right? Then let\u2019s get to it.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re still not ready for a full-on sesi\u00f3n de sexting<\/a>, that\u2019s okay, it\u2019ll come to you with time\u2026<\/p>\n De momento, puedes empezar con algo un poco m\u00e1s inocente. Aqu\u00ed tienes algunas ideas para incluir en la lista de cosas que excitan a los chicos:<\/p>\n Depending on how long you\u2019ve been seeing each other, choose one of these and enci\u00e9ndelo<\/a> without having to move a muscle. You\u2019ll be thanking me later.<\/p>\n It\u2019s widely known that it represents the color of passion, so enci\u00e9ndelo<\/a>! If you put on any red article of clothing, it\u2019s a guaranteed turn-on.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll desire you that much more, especially if that happens to be a hot dress (though it\u2019s not required).<\/p>\n If you\u2019re not feeling so daring, you don\u2019t necessarily need to wear red on your body\u2026 your lips will do just fine! Many studies and new surveys have shown that men are much more drawn to women who wear fiery red lipstick (even though they don’t like too much make-up on a girl)!<\/p>\n As\u00ed que elige una de estas dos vaporosas opciones y aseg\u00farate de que se le acelera el pulso y se le salen los ojos de las \u00f3rbitas. S\u00f3lo hay que tener cuidado de no encenderlo demasiado (especialmente en un <\/i>primera cita<\/i>)<\/i><\/p>\n Here\u2019s what you should do. Come up with a secret signal (it could also be a random word that only you two will know the true meaning of) for when you\u2019re feeling naughty (l\u00e9ase: caliente<\/i>) y quieras salir de donde est\u00e9s y ponerte a ello.<\/p>\n \u00a1Saber que s\u00f3lo vosotros dos entend\u00e9is ese gesto o se\u00f1al es caliente a su manera, pero tambi\u00e9n la idea de escabullirse e ir a alg\u00fan lugar inapropiado para hac\u00e9rselo es un nivel completamente nuevo de HOT!<\/i><\/p>\n He\u2019s going to be so turned on (as will you, let\u2019s be honest) and he\u2019ll take you the moment you sneak into the restaurant bathroom or wherever the hell you two are. If you add some frases de dirty talk<\/a> to the equation, girl, he’ll lose his mind over you!<\/p>\n And then, going back, as if nothing ever happened, is going to be so satisfying and it\u2019s going to make you so pleased with yourselves.<\/p>\n Esa se\u00f1al puede ser tan simple como un gui\u00f1o de ojos o sacudirte el pelo, pero tambi\u00e9n puede ser una palabra al azar que incluyas en la conversaci\u00f3n y que s\u00f3lo vosotros dos sep\u00e1is que significa un rapidito en el ba\u00f1o.<\/p>\n Caliente, \u00bftengo raz\u00f3n? Ahora ve a buscar tu hombre<\/a> e inventa tu palabra clave, as\u00ed podr\u00e1s intentarlo la pr\u00f3xima vez que quieras hacer algo loco, sexy y salvaje, sin que nadie lo sepa.<\/p>\n First, you go to a bar and sit by yourself. Then your man can come along and introduce himself as if it\u2019s the first time you\u2019ve met each other. You play along, let him sit, buy you a drink and chat you up.<\/p>\n You can decide how you want this to play out. You can do this little role-playing bit for the rest of the evening if you wish. Let him seduce you as if he\u2019s really trying to win you over and don\u2019t make it easy on him. Make him sweat a little.<\/i><\/p>\n And when you finally let your guard down, you can take him home, and keep pretending like you don\u2019t know each other\u2026 and let the fantasy take over.<\/p>\n There\u2019s this raw sexual aspect of seducing a stranger in a bar. It makes a guy feel confident and capable and boosts his ego.<\/p>\n So give him the satisfaction and do as he pleases that night\u2026 stroke his ego (among other things\u2026 gui\u00f1o, gui\u00f1o<\/i>) y hacer realidad sus fantas\u00edas<\/a>.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll be so turned on and EXCITED about your next role-play session. He won\u2019t mind doing anything your mind can come up with.<\/p>\n Ambos pod\u00e9is sacar provecho de este juego divertido y sexy. Juega bien tus cartas y tu hombre estar\u00e1 encantado.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s picking you up for a date, make sure to let him know you\u2019re going commando by slowly and quietly whispering it in his ear as you\u2019re entering the restaurant.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t even look at him. Just say it and keep walking with a subtle smile on your face and just know that he is barely restraining himself at that very moment. <\/i>Ser un <\/i>coqueto<\/i> diosa<\/i><\/a> y deja que aumente la expectaci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/p>\n Just imagine how fun it\u2019s going to be when you finally leave the restaurant and get inside your bedroom\u2026 he\u2019s going to go crazy for you. And I mean bien<\/i> loco.<\/p>\n Making him wait for something can only increase his excitement and make it that much more worthwhile for you in the end. There\u2019s a reason they say patience is a virtue.<\/p>\n Now that we\u2019ve covered all the non-physical ways to turn a guy on, let\u2019s get a little physical.<\/p>\n Ahora que ya conoces todas las formas sexys y picantes de ponerle cachondo sin necesidad de tocarle (aunque las caricias son m\u00e1s que bienvenidas despu\u00e9s), hay otras formas de conseguir exactamente el mismo resultado que implican contacto f\u00edsico:<\/i><\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de llegar a casa tras un largo d\u00eda de trabajo, aseg\u00farate de hacer que tu chico se siente en el sof\u00e1, se relaje a tu lado y le sorprendas con un buen masaje en los pies (que puede ser preliminares incre\u00edbles<\/a>).<\/p>\n Get some oil and slowly and gently rub it on his feet and move upwards if you want to take things a little further (and I bet he definitely wouldn\u2019t mind).<\/p>\n Massage him with soft touches and get a little sensual as you move onto his next body part and from there, I\u2019m pretty sure you know what to do.<\/p>\n That\u2019ll make him crazy horny! If necessary, tie him to the bed and get to work. Slowly undress him and gently caress his body from his head to his toes.<\/p>\n No podr\u00e1 hacer otra cosa que gemir de excitaci\u00f3n y dar gracias a Dios por una novia tan fant\u00e1stica, sexy, imaginativa y gran vida sexual<\/a>.<\/p>\n And when it\u2019s time for the main act, it\u2019s your decision whether to keep his hands off limits or untie him. Decide what will turn him on more and get going.<\/p>\n Tell him a secret fantasy that you\u2019ve never told anyone and make him do the same.<\/p>\n Think of the sexual turn-ons you\u2019ve got and spare no details. Not only will it turn him on, it will turn you on as well! And then carefully listen to his and if you\u2019re not already on edge, you will be by the time he tells his story.<\/p>\n The whole point is to exchange sexy secret desires from trying new sex toys to kinks you\u2019d never say aloud and if you\u2019re feeling daring, make them come to life! I bet you\u2019re turned on just thinking about this right now.<\/p>\n Go get him and delve deep into his secret desires, it\u2019ll make you crazy satisfied in the end.<\/p>\n And knowing that you have those sexy, lacy, red panties on, accompanied by a red, tiny bra\u2026 it\u2019ll be a huge turn on for you, let alone for him.<\/p>\n Make him work for it and when you\u2019ve had enough of teasing him, let him take your clothes off one article at a time\u2026 and be (pleasantly) surprised to see what you\u2019re wearing.<\/p>\n No s\u00f3lo se pondr\u00e1 muy cachondo al verte as\u00ed de sexy sino que te har\u00e1 sentirse sexy y poderoso<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n He will be extra-sensitive to touch, as he won\u2019t see it coming, so his excitement will be at an all-time high.<\/p>\n Probablemente se le pondr\u00e1 la piel de gallina, esperando impaciente tu siguiente caricia, sin saber cu\u00e1ndo esperar que le ll\u00e9valo a la ciudad de los locos<\/a>.<\/p>\n The anticipation is what makes it so hot. He won\u2019t be able to tell where you\u2019ll touch him or kiss him next\u2026 so it will be one of his most memorable sexual encounters with you.<\/p>\n Okay, so now we\u2019ve covered the ways guys love to be turned on and exactly how to do it in great detail.<\/p>\n Now that you\u2019re fully equipped, you know what to do, ladies. And as for us girls, here are some sensual ways how you guy can return the favor and make your girl moan with excitement, in more ways than one.<\/p>\n Here’s the dealio. Tell your girlfriend how amazing you think she looks, when she least expects it, and she\u2019ll be appreciative in more ways than one, if you\u2019re lucky.<\/p>\n Trust me, she\u2019ll love this. Feeling secure in your arms as she is opening her eyes is the best way to start her morning.<\/p>\n Esto le ayudar\u00e1 a relajarse y a sentirse protegida. Ni que decir tiene que tambi\u00e9n enci\u00e9ndela<\/a>. And if she\u2019s feeling giving, it\u2019ll pay off for you as well.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll love the unexpected touch and probably get turned on by it. Unexpected touches have the power to drive anyone crazy (especially when they’re done in public). Try it!<\/p>\n Ser capaz de hacerla re\u00edr es una de las cualidades m\u00e1s importantes y atractivas de un hombre. No hay nada m\u00e1s sexy que un buen sentido del humor<\/a> y saber exactamente qu\u00e9 har\u00e1 llorar de risa a tu chica.<\/p>\n Perhaps you haven’t thought of it like this before, but a great sense of humor is definitely on the list of excitaci\u00f3n femenina<\/a> porque nos ayuda a relajarnos y demuestra esfuerzo. Y esforzarse es muy sexy.<\/p>\n And after she\u2019s done laughing, there\u2019s going to be plenty more action that follows. Girls really aren\u2019t that complicated. Make her laugh and she\u2019ll make it worthwhile.<\/p>\n Here’s a tip for guys: It doesn\u2019t even matter what you\u2019re saying, as long as you put your face so close to hers and make her feel your warm presence next to her.<\/p>\n She will find it so hot and if you accompany it with a sexy little message in her ear\u2026 there will be goosebumps everywhere.<\/p>\n A good massage is always on the list of turn-ons. There doesn\u2019t even need to be an excuse to give your girl a massage. Just show her your appreciation by gently massaging her neck, feet, or whichever part of the body you feel like.<\/p>\n Le encantar\u00e1n tus caricias por todo el cuerpo. Adem\u00e1s, hay muchas posibilidades de que esto se convierta en algo un poco m\u00e1s sensual (o t\u00f3rrido) en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/p>\n After you’re finished with massaging her, going down on her would be a nice and smooth transition (if she feels like it, of course).<\/p>\n As for oral sex, here’s something interesting.<\/p>\n Un estudio de EdenFantasys ha analizado lo que m\u00e1s excita a hombres y mujeres<\/a> cuando se trata de sexo. El 76% por ciento de los hombres afirma que practicar sexo oral a su pareja les excita enormemente, frente a s\u00f3lo el 56% por ciento de las mujeres.<\/p>\nPero lo que nos excita en la vida real es otra historia.<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>What floats our boat in the sack isn\u2019t necessarily in sync with our fantas\u00edas secretas<\/a> and that\u2019s awesome, as you find out more about yourself from these things than you thought you possibly could.<\/p>\nLo que m\u00e1s excita a los hombres<\/h2>\n
Toma el control y da el primer paso.<\/h3>\n
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Aunque la idea de acercarse primero a un chico<\/a> y exponerte a pedirle salir primero puede parecer desalentador, piensa en todos los aspectos positivos.<\/p>\nLook him straight in the eye (it\u2019ll drive him nuts!)<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Contacto visual<\/a> is one of the surest ways to get a man\u2019s attention and haz que te desee mucho <\/a>(especialmente durante makeout caliente<\/a> sessions). It’s one of the most powerful things on the list of turn ons for men.<\/p>\nPonle cachondo con los mensajes de texto.<\/h3>\n
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If you\u2019ve been with a guy for a while, this won\u2019t be a problem but even if you\u2019ve only been on a few dates, this is the perfect opportunity to break the ice and start with some steamy texting sessions.<\/p>\n\n
\u00a1V\u00edstete de ROJO!<\/h3>\n
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In case you didn\u2019t already know, it\u2019s a known fact that the color red can increase a person\u2019s blood pressure and heart rate, so use it to your advantage!<\/p>\nTen una se\u00f1al secreta que signifique pensamientos traviesos.<\/h3>\n
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Esto es un camino seguro<\/a> \u00a1para excitar a tu chico hasta los huesos! (Juego de palabras.<\/i>)<\/p>\nPretend you\u2019re total strangers at a bar!<\/h3>\n
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This works especially well if you\u2019ve been together for a while and want to spice things up a bit.<\/p>\nLet him know you\u2019re not wearing underwear!<\/h3>\n
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Muy bien, chicas, s\u00e9 que esto no necesita explicaci\u00f3n. Si ya hab\u00e9is tenido relaciones \u00edntimas, este es el movimiento perfecto para excitaros al instante.<\/p>\n\u00a1Dale un masaje!<\/h3>\n
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I really don\u2019t understand why people think that girls are the only ones who love massages, when guys enjoy them just as much, if not more!<\/p>\nProh\u00edbele usar las manos.<\/h3>\n
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Make it known that you\u2019re in the mood but also establish some ground rules. You\u2019re going to make him really happy\u2026 but under one condition. He is not allowed to use his hands.<\/p>\n\u00a1Intercambiar fantas\u00edas!
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<\/h3>\nPonte la lencer\u00eda que m\u00e1s le guste de ti.<\/h3>\n
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There\u2019s nothing sexier than una mujer ferozmente segura de s\u00ed misma<\/a> who isn\u2019t shy about showing her hot body!<\/p>\n\u00a1V\u00e9ndale los ojos!<\/h3>\n
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Another way to seduce your guy is to break out the good, old blindfold! By doing that, you are denying him one of his senses, so he\u2019s going to have to rely on his other ones to please you and his attention will be exactly where it needs to be.<\/p>\nDesaf\u00edos para los hombres<\/h2>\n
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Si quieres excitar a tu chico como una profesional, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas cosas que deber\u00edas evitar hacer:<\/p>\n\n
La lista de cosas que excitan a las chicas<\/h2>\n
Tell her you think she\u2019s beautiful<\/h3>\n
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This may sound cheesy to you but we\u2019re really not that complicated! If you want to turn us on and make us feel special, you just need to use the right words.<\/p>\nAc\u00e9rcala a tu lado de la cama cuando te despiertes.<\/h3>\n
Toca suavemente su rodilla bajo la mesa<\/h3>\n
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It doesn\u2019t have to be too sexual, just slowly and secretly brush her knee with your hand, without anyone noticing, or you can use your leg instead.<\/p>\nHazla re\u00edr<\/h3>\n
Sus\u00farrale al o\u00eddo<\/h3>\n
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I don’t know about you but I personally LOVE when a guy is whispering in my ear or nibbling my ear.<\/p>\nDale un masaje despu\u00e9s de un d\u00eda dif\u00edcil en el trabajo<\/h3>\n
Sorpresas<\/h3>\n
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Most girls really can\u2019t resist ![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/man-talking-to-woman-ear-in-bed.jpg\")
Girls love to feel your touch. It\u2019s really that simple.<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/woman-enjoying-a-back-massage.jpg\")
Si quieres impresionar a tu chica y excitarla, evita hacer estas cosas:<\/p>\n![\"un](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/man-is-presenting-flowers-to-his-girlfriend.jpg\")
I hope you’ve enjoyed the list of turn ons for him and her and that you’ll try some or all of the things above in the near future (if you haven’t already).<\/p>\n![\"La](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/The-Ultimate-List-Of-Turn-ons-Guys-And-Girls-Edition-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\")
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