{"id":30361,"date":"2021-09-26T07:45:11","date_gmt":"2021-09-26T07:45:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30361"},"modified":"2024-10-29T15:04:57","modified_gmt":"2024-10-29T14:04:57","slug":"me-estoy-dando-un-respiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-estoy-dando-un-respiro\/","title":{"rendered":"En 2025, me dar\u00e9 un respiro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>In 2025, I\u2019m starting all over.<\/b> I\u2019m giving myself a break, another chance to start from the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m going to plan my moves and revisit my goals and dreams. I\u2019m going to get myself together because of myself and the people I love.<\/p>\n<p>This year, it\u2019s going to be a new me, an improved version of myself. I\u2019m going to take a leap into the future and go into the unknown.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know what is ahead of me, but I\u2019m not scared. I\u2019m ready for whatever awaits me.<\/p>\n<p>This year I\u2019m going to be bold enough to try the things I\u2019ve always been scared of. This year is going to be my year.<\/p>\n<p><b>In 2025, I\u2019m going to be kind to myself.<\/b> I\u2019m going to be smarter. I\u2019m not letting the demons from the past come with me into the new year. I\u2019m leaving them locked in another dimension, in another world, in a chapter that I was finished with.<\/p>\n<p><b>Just like when I putting a full stop (a period) on the paper to finish my sentence, to end my train of thought, I\u2019m going to finish that chapter and imprison my past with that one tiny dot, that one punctuation mark.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108900\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con port\u00e1til y notas en una cafeter\u00eda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-with-laptop-and-notes-in-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>In 2025, I\u2019m forgiving myself.<\/b> I\u2019m leaving behind all the mistakes I\u2019ve made. I\u2019m forgiving myself for all the heartbreak I had. I forgive myself for trusting people I shouldn\u2019t have trusted and letting down my guard so easily.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m forgiving people who hurt me, and I\u2019m forgiving myself for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-te-da-por-sentada-muestrale-que-te-esta-perdiendo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dar por sentado<\/span><\/a> people who love me. I\u2019m done holding a grudge because of all the failed relationships I had, for the ones that slipped away from me and the ones which left big scars.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m forgiving myself for all the souls I\u2019ve stirred and all the eyes I made cry. I forgive those who kept me awake at night, sobbing in my room. I forgive myself, and I forgive them.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m forgiving my past for being so ugly and horrible. I\u2019m forgiving myself for the poor decisions I made.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>In 2025, I\u2019m going to believe in myself.<\/b> I believe that I can do whatever I want to do. I believe that there is a lot of strength in me which was tamed and couldn&#8217;t get out because of the fear\u2014a fear of the unknown, a fear of judgment, a fear of abandonment.<\/p>\n<p>This year I believe that my flaws are not my shortcoming. This year I believe that I\u2019m special, a person that is one of a kind, someone who can change the world.<\/p>\n<p>Not only am I believing in myself, but I\u2019m believing in people, too. I believe that there are good people out there, people who want to be your sincere friends, people who love you without any reason, people who care about you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108901\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends.jpg\" alt=\"amigas sonrientes\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-female-friends-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hay quienes tienen un coraz\u00f3n bondadoso y grande, y creo que los encontrar\u00e9. S\u00e9 que estar\u00e1n a mi lado cuando otra tormenta se abata sobre m\u00ed, cuando una nueva dosis de dolor me encuentre.<\/p>\n<p><b>In 2025, I\u2019m going to stay true to myself.<\/b> I\u2019m not going to lie to make my life easier. I\u2019m not going to turn my head to the other way side and ignore what\u2019s bothering me.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m going to deal with everything and everyone because that is the only way I can keep my soul and my heart pure and uncorrupted.<\/p>\n<p>When I\u2019m not okay, I\u2019m going to say it. I\u2019m not going to put on a false smile and pretend I\u2019m the happiest person alive if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/lee-cada-vez-que-sientas-que-te-desmoronas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m falling apart on the inside<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not about being strong; it\u2019s about staying true to yourself. I\u2019m not going to trick my own mind into thinking that everything is okay.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m going to be honest and true to the people who are around me. I know that I\u2019ll lose a lot of them, but the ones worth having will stick around.<\/p>\n<p><b>En 2025, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-gusta-en-quien-me-estoy-convirtiendo\/\">I\u2019m going to become the person I\u2019ve always wanted to be<\/a>.<\/b> This year I don\u2019t care what people are going to say.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108897\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente en el exterior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/smiling-woman-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This year I\u2019m going to listen to myself. I\u2019m not going to force myself to do things that are not meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m going to take risks and go into the unknown. I\u2019m going to embrace everything that destiny has in store for me. I will cry. I will love. I will keep on trying.<\/p>\n<p><b>In 2025, I\u2019m going to give myself a break.<\/b> After everything I\u2019ve been through, I deserve to get some rest. I deserve something nice to happen to me. Heck, I deserve a standing ovation!<\/p>\n<p>I deserve to be admired\u2014not because I\u2019m perfect, not because I\u2019ve done something right, but because I\u2019ve survived, because I got up from bed every day.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of walking from one day to another, I was crawling. But I never stopped. I never said I can\u2019t move one inch further. I fought like a lioness and I\u2019m still fighting.<\/p>\n<p><em>Este a\u00f1o quiero empezar de cero. Quiero cambiar mi vida a mejor. Me lo merezco, y t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Maria Parker wrote a book to help people deal with narcissistic exes called \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/B07KGDMNY3\/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542116975&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=maria+parker\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u00f3mo superar a un narcisista<\/span><\/a>\u2019<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"En 2025, me dar\u00e9 un respiro \" class=\"wp-image-177098\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2025, I\u2019m starting all over. I\u2019m giving myself a break, another chance to start from the beginning. I\u2019m going to plan my moves and revisit my goals and dreams. I\u2019m going to get myself together because of myself and the people I love. This year, it\u2019s going to be a new me, an improved&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":177099,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-Im-Giving-Myself-A-Break-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30361","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30361"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30361\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177100,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30361\/revisions\/177100"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}