{"id":30380,"date":"2020-05-19T09:01:33","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T09:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30380"},"modified":"2022-01-06T16:00:56","modified_gmt":"2022-01-06T16:00:56","slug":"esto-es-por-lo-que-crees-que-todavia-lo-amas-despues-de-todo-lo-que-ha-hecho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-por-lo-que-crees-que-todavia-lo-amas-despues-de-todo-lo-que-ha-hecho\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que crees que a\u00fan le quieres, despu\u00e9s de todo lo que ha hecho"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe has sorprendido alguna vez a\u00fan sintiendo algo por \u00e9l<\/a> – the last man on earth to deserve you loving him? <\/span><\/p>\n

Deep down, you are very much aware that you shouldn\u2019t be thinking about him and that you are crazy for still caring about him but you just can\u2019t help yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you look at things clearly, you see this guy\u2019s true colors. You remember everything he put you through<\/span>\u2014<\/span>te acuerdas de la <\/span>abuso emocional<\/span><\/a>la manipulaci\u00f3n y el enga\u00f1o.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas c\u00f3mo te hizo sentir este tipo<\/span>\u2014<\/span>recuerdas todas las humillaciones y decepciones por las que te hizo pasar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando piensas en \u00e9l, recuerdas todas las cosas malas<\/span>\u2014<\/span>todas las segundas oportunidades que le diste y todas las veces que hizo todo lo posible por menospreciarte en todos los sentidos. Pero tambi\u00e9n recuerdas las cosas buenas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerdas c\u00f3mo te hac\u00eda sentir al principio. Recuerdas las mariposas y la monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones por las que te hac\u00eda pasar cada vez que os reconciliabais.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerdas la sensaci\u00f3n de estar en la cima del mundo mientras le cog\u00edas de la mano. La sensaci\u00f3n de perder el suelo bajo tus pies cada vez que \u00e9l te miraba.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"adorable<\/p>\n

And there you are, missing him all over again, even though you shouldn\u2019t. There you are, still loving your abuser, even though it is the last thing you should be feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo esto te hace sentir incre\u00edblemente culpable. C\u00f3mo puedes amar a alguien que te ha hecho tanto da\u00f1o?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes cuidar a alguien que te ha hecho tanto da\u00f1o y que ha dejado cicatrices inborrables en tu coraz\u00f3n roto? \u00bfAlguien que hizo de tu vida un infierno y que cambi\u00f3 la esencia de tu personalidad?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo es que <\/b>can\u2019t move on<\/b><\/a> y dejar ir el recuerdo del hombre que destroz\u00f3 tu coraz\u00f3n en pedazos?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfDel hombre que se alej\u00f3 de ti sin mirar atr\u00e1s y que te abandon\u00f3 cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitabas?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo es que todav\u00eda puedes amar al hombre que obviamente nunca te am\u00f3 de verdad? <\/b>\u00bfQui\u00e9n se aprovech\u00f3 de tu amor y qui\u00e9n nunca se preocup\u00f3 por tu bienestar?<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Y sin embargo, aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, haciendo precisamente eso. <\/span>Aqu\u00ed se le echa de menos, ho<\/b>aferrarse a \u00e9l, cuidarle y seguir queri\u00e9ndole. Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es exactamente lo que te pasa?<\/b><\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa<\/span>\u2014<\/span>todo lo que est\u00e1s sintiendo en este momento es completamente normal y natural.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all, this man was a huge part of your life for years and you can\u2019t erase him from your memory just like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that you are just a human being, despite all of your strength. You can\u2019t shut down your emotions by pressing a button.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es que probablemente s\u00f3lo piensas que amas a este hombre. <\/b>Durante a\u00f1os, se encarg\u00f3 de lavarte el cerebro haci\u00e9ndote creer que \u00e9l era el \u00fanico hombre hecho para ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se propuso convencerte de que deb\u00edas estar agradecida por tenerle cerca y de que ning\u00fan otro hombre podr\u00eda amarte como \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Durante a\u00f1os, este hombre te manipul\u00f3 haci\u00e9ndote creer que \u00e9l era el bueno y que t\u00fa eras la responsable de que te maltratara.<\/span><\/p>\n

Into thinking that you\u2019d never love anyone the way you loved him and that your relationship was a karmic connection that only happens once in a lifetime.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y aunque ahora sabes que todo eso es mentira, pasaste a\u00f1os creyendo cada palabra que te dec\u00eda ese tipo. As\u00ed que es natural que en alg\u00fan lugar de tu cabeza a\u00fan puedas o\u00edr su vocecita, repitiendo todo esto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es natural que haya cambiado tu imagen de ti mismo y tu perspectiva del amor y las relaciones.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y eso es exactamente lo que este narcisista quer\u00eda hacer<\/span>\u2014<\/span>quer\u00eda enjaularte de por vida y quer\u00eda hacerte creer que nunca podr\u00edas salir adelante por ti misma.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque esa era la \u00fanica manera de mantenerte cerca.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

But here you are, learning to live without him, the same way you\u2019ll <\/span>aprende a no amarlo<\/span><\/a>. Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, sobreviviendo a su ausencia y super\u00e1ndolo.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you could\u2019ve managed this, if you could\u2019ve cut this toxic man out of your life and if you\u2019ve been strong enough to break all ties with him, what makes you think that you won\u2019t be strong enough to stop thinking about him as well? Because I assure you that you will.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t expect it to happen overnight because these things take time and effort.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero conf\u00eda en m\u00ed<\/span>\u2014<\/span>uno de estos d\u00edas, el recuerdo de este hombre empezar\u00e1 a desvanecerse lentamente de tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

One of these days, you\u2019ll be completely liberated. And one of these days, you\u2019ll meet a man whom you\u2019ll love for real and you\u2019ll realize that everything I was telling you was nothing but the truth.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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