{"id":30395,"date":"2020-06-19T10:14:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T10:14:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30395"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:33:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:33:42","slug":"la-belleza-de-conocer-a-un-buen-chico-tras-una-relacion-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-belleza-de-conocer-a-un-buen-chico-tras-una-relacion-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"La belleza de conocer a un buen chico tras una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-habitos-que-atascan-a-las-mujeres-en-las-relaciones-toxicas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Relaciones t\u00f3xicas<\/a> son lo m\u00e1s malo que te puede pasar en la vida. Cuando te entregas por completo a alguien, crees que es el elegido.<\/p>\n<p>Then he disappoints you and hurts you in ways you couldn\u2019t imagine, so your faith in love get shaken a bit.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have the same outlook on love, and you think you won\u2019t fall in love anymore. You feel used, broken and depressed, and no matter how much you want to get over the one who mistreated you, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You hate that you still have feelings for him and you don\u2019t know what to do with them.<\/p>\n<p>You start thinking that you are guilty of all the things that happened, and you don\u2019t see the whole picture crystal clear.<\/p>\n<p>You still don\u2019t blame him for everything between the two of you because you think you could have done something to make things work.<\/p>\n<p>But the harsh truth is that you couldn\u2019t have done anything to save the relationship that was already doomed at the beginning.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92619\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja con problemas de pareja\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t about you; it was about him. You are not the unlovable one; he is. You are not the bad guy in all this story. He is.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00e9 que necesitar\u00e1s alg\u00fan tiempo para entenderlo todo y ordenar las cosas, pero al final, ver\u00e1s las cosas como realmente son.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/4-reasons-need-learn-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">aprende a quererte a ti mismo<\/a>Cuando te des una segunda oportunidad y te des cuenta de que todav\u00eda hay vida despu\u00e9s de \u00e9l, estar\u00e1s lista para seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<p>Once you heal properly, you will be able to start a new chapter of your life. You won\u2019t think you are the unlovable one.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, pensar\u00e1s que t\u00fa, m\u00e1s que nunca, mereces un amor que permanezca. Y eso es lo que buscar\u00e1s siempre.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t put up with any crap because you had enough of that in your last relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t let another man treat you as an option or play mind games with you. You will cut out everyone who tries to do that from your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92621\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia de enfoque de mujer con gafas de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But after all that mess, after your heartbreak, tears spilled and depressive nights when you were trying to find a way out but couldn\u2019t find it, someone will come into your life.<\/p>\n<p>Llegar\u00e1 un hombre que pensar\u00e1 que vales la pena. Conocer\u00e1s a un buen tipo cuando menos te lo esperes.<\/p>\n<p>You will meet him, and you won\u2019t immediately recognize he is the one.<\/p>\n<p>Pero \u00e9l se esforzar\u00e1 por ti y t\u00fa empezar\u00e1s a fijarte cada vez m\u00e1s en \u00e9l. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-injusta-verdad-de-ser-el-bueno\/\">Un buen tipo<\/a> won\u2019t sweep you off your feet as soon as he enters the room. Instead, he will do it slowly because he doesn\u2019t want to push anything.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/horoscope\/que-tipo-de-hombre-necesitas-segun-tu-signo-del-zodiaco\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Es el tipo de hombre<\/a> who would give up on you if you wouldn\u2019t be interested in him. He is a real gentleman, and he treats all women well.<\/p>\n<p>Y ese es el hombre al que tienes que esperar, porque la espera merece la pena. Y una vez que entre en tu vida, ver\u00e1s lo que es el verdadero amor.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s la belleza de conocer al chico bueno despu\u00e9s de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica. Y con \u00e9l, todos tus sue\u00f1os se har\u00e1n realidad.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92622\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sonriente bebiendo cerveza\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You will finally feel special and unique. You won\u2019t have to beg him for his attention because he will give it only to you.<\/p>\n<p>With him, you won\u2019t have to overthink if you are good enough or worthy enough.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t feel any of those negative emotions you felt while you were in a toxic relationship. Instead, you will feel like the happiest woman alive, and you will project your positive energy onto the people around you.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando conozcas al adecuado, todo cobrar\u00e1 sentido al instante. Sentir\u00e1s que puedes conquistar el mundo con una mano si \u00e9l te sostiene la otra.<\/p>\n<p>Y arrasar\u00e1s en todo lo que empieces a hacer.<\/p>\n<p>With the right one, you will feel alive again\u2014alive after so much time spent in sorrow and depression. And that will be the best feeling ever.<\/p>\n<p>The right man, your good guy, will show you that love shouldn\u2019t be hard and that you shouldn\u2019t work your ass off to satisfy your partner. He will show you that love is as natural as breathing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92623\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field.jpeg\" alt=\"encantadora pareja cerca de la cara por qu\u00e9 acostado en el campo de hierba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field-768x512.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te dar\u00e1 todo lo que has estado deseando durante tanto tiempo y nada ser\u00e1 demasiado dif\u00edcil para \u00e9l. Te complacer\u00e1 y te demostrar\u00e1 que todos los hombres ser\u00edan muy felices si pudieran tenerte en su vida.<\/p>\n<p>La persona adecuada te devolver\u00e1 la fe en el amor, y con ella todo tendr\u00e1 sentido. Todos los rompecabezas encajar\u00e1n y sentir\u00e1s la paz interior.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l te sostendr\u00e1 mientras <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-una-chica-que-lucha-por-curarse-tras-una-relacion-toxica\/\">arreglarse tras una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a>...y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, ser\u00e1 muy paciente al respecto.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre intentar\u00e1 comprenderte, y hacerte da\u00f1o ser\u00e1 lo \u00faltimo que tenga en mente.<\/p>\n<p>Te valorar\u00e1 porque ve que eres una mujer de gran calidad, y cada acto que haga ser\u00e1 con mucho amor.<\/p>\n<p>A guy like that would sacrifice his own happiness just so you could be happy. He is someone who will put you first even if you didn\u2019t ask for it.<\/p>\n<p>Es el hombre de tus sue\u00f1os, tu mejor amigo, tu amante, tu mano salvadora, tu llamada nocturna y tu diario humano. Es tu otra mitad.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Y lo mejor es que no se va a ir a ninguna parte.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Christine is the author of \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Staring-Into-Eyes-Anxiety-Depression-ebook\/dp\/B07KGGLQGB\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542715256&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=staring+into+the+eyes+of+anxiety+and+depression\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n<\/a>\u2019, a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92615\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La belleza de conocer a un buen chico tras una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toxic relationships are the meanest thing that can happen in your life. When you give all of yourself to someone, you think is the one. Then he disappoints you and hurts you in ways you couldn\u2019t imagine, so your faith in love get shaken a bit. You don\u2019t have the same outlook on love, and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":92616,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30395","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30395","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30395"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30395\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}