{"id":30413,"date":"2020-02-19T19:45:04","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T19:45:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30413"},"modified":"2022-08-27T09:50:45","modified_gmt":"2022-08-27T09:50:45","slug":"las-cosas-mas-hirientes-que-hace-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-cosas-mas-hirientes-que-hace-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"Las 5 cosas m\u00e1s hirientes que todo narcisista te har\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>En circunstancias normales, el peor resultado de una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-maneras-de-reencontrarse-a-si-mismo-tras-una-ruptura-demoledora\/\">ruptura demoledora<\/a> es un coraz\u00f3n roto. A menos que estuvieras involucrado con un narcisista.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not trying to claim that a broken heart isn\u2019t a big deal because it is definitely one of the most painful things all of us experiences.<\/p>\n<p>But narcissists don\u2019t stop at breaking your heart and the consequences of a relationship with them are much more severe.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Disminuir tu valor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70718\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/offended-man-yelling-at-girl.jpg\" alt=\"hombre ofendido gritando a una chica\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/offended-man-yelling-at-girl.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/offended-man-yelling-at-girl-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/offended-man-yelling-at-girl-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The first thing every narcissist tries to do from the start is diminish his victim\u2019s worth. And what is even worse is that at first, they do it without you even noticing it.<\/p>\n<p>You see, narcissists have a huge problem with low self-esteem. They don\u2019t feel good about themselves, even when they pretend to be the most confident person ever.<\/p>\n<p>And the only way in which they can feel equal to you is by dragging you down to their level. They know they can\u2019t control the independent, strong woman you are.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed pues, un narcisista se encarga de distorsionar la imagen que tienes de ti mismo. Alimentar\u00e1 tus inseguridades y har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para que te consideres menos, en la medida de lo posible.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Gaslight usted<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70719\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja discutiendo en la cocina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otro m\u00e9todo que usan todos los narcisistas es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/gaslighting-6-examples-brutal-mind-abuse\/\">luz de gas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/narcisista-gaslighting\/\">Cuando un narcisista te ilumina con gas<\/a>te hace cuestionar tu propia cordura y trata de convencerte de que t\u00fa eres el loco, cuando en realidad es al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Este hombre te har\u00e1 dudar de tus propias palabras y acciones. Mentir\u00e1, te manipular\u00e1 e intentar\u00e1 convencerte de algo que no es cierto, solo para que acabes pareciendo el malo de la pel\u00edcula.<\/p>\n<p>Este hombre tergiversar\u00e1 todo lo que ocurra entre vosotros dos hasta que se meta completamente en tu cabeza y hasta que empieces a creerte cada una de sus palabras.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Hacerte sentir culpable<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70720\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-hugging-a-pillow.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste abrazando una almohada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-hugging-a-pillow.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-hugging-a-pillow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-hugging-a-pillow-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Narcissists don\u2019t have a sense of responsibility. And even when they know they are the guilty one, they\u2019ll never admit it to anyone, let alone to their victim.<\/p>\n<p>Every narcissist has a way of making excuses for himself and justifying his toxic behavior. But he won\u2019t stop there\u2014he also wants to persuade you that you are the one to blame for everything wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, al principio, eres muy consciente de c\u00f3mo son las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>Pero al final, este hombre consigue convencerte de que t\u00fa eres la causa de todos los problemas de vuestra relaci\u00f3n y que eres t\u00fa la que tiene que cambiar a mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Incluso cuando un narcisista act\u00faa como si asumiera la culpa, lo hace de una forma retorcida y enferma.<\/p>\n<p>Incluso cuando pida perd\u00f3n y admita que es culpable de haber hecho algo, te manipular\u00e1 para que pienses que fuiste t\u00fa la que le hizo ser as\u00ed y la que provoc\u00f3 que te hiciera da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, you start to think that you had it coming and that you deserved everything this man has been doing to you. And that was a narcissist\u2019s master plan all along.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Cambia la esencia de tu personalidad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70723\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As it was already stated, narcissistic people don\u2019t stop at breaking your heart. No, they have the need to crush you completely and to break your spirit in every possible way as well.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de pasar a\u00f1os al lado de alguien as\u00ed, te cuesta reconocerte porque borra todo rastro de la persona que eras antes de que entrara en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Usted <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cada-chica-alguna-vez-perdio-hombre-narcisista\/\">pi\u00e9rdete<\/a> completamente en esta b\u00fasqueda de la felicidad junto al hombre equivocado.<\/p>\n<p>And when a narcissist sees that he\u2019s succeeded in his intentions, that is when he thinks he has won.<\/p>\n<p>Sabe que ha conseguido dejar una huella permanente en tu personalidad y eso desborda su ego.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Te hacen perder la fe<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70725\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Walking away from a narcissist is one of the most difficult things to do. And if this is something you\u2019ve been through, you know exactly what I am talking about.<\/p>\n<p>Pero curarse despu\u00e9s de un abuso narcisista es a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil. Ver\u00e1s, un narcisista te hace perder la fe en los hombres y en las personas en general.<\/p>\n<p>Este hombre te ha causado tanto da\u00f1o que es natural que esperes que todos los dem\u00e1s hombres de tu vida te traten de la misma manera.<\/p>\n<p>You think that everyone has the intention of breaking your heart and that there doesn\u2019t exist a man on this planet who will see your worth and who will love you for real.<\/p>\n<p>But the worst part is that narcissists make you lose faith in yourself. They convince you that you are the unlovable one and that you don\u2019t deserve to find true love.<\/p>\n<p>Te hacen creer que no sirves para nada y hacen que dejes de quererte de verdad.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70721\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-5-Most-Hurtful-Things-Every-Narcissist-Will-Do-To-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Las 5 cosas m\u00e1s hirientes que todo narcisista te har\u00e1\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-5-Most-Hurtful-Things-Every-Narcissist-Will-Do-To-You-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-5-Most-Hurtful-Things-Every-Narcissist-Will-Do-To-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-5-Most-Hurtful-Things-Every-Narcissist-Will-Do-To-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In normal circumstances, the worst outcome of a shattering break-up is a broken heart. Unless you were involved with a narcissist. Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not trying to claim that a broken heart isn\u2019t a big deal because it is definitely one of the most painful things all of us experiences. But narcissists don\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":70726,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-5-Most-Hurtful-Things-Every-Narcissist-Will-Do-To-You.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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