{"id":30418,"date":"2018-12-19T19:51:46","date_gmt":"2018-12-19T19:51:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30418"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:32:02","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:32:02","slug":"asi-es-como-se-detecta-al-chico-bueno-en-una-multitud-de-perdedores-toxicos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-se-detecta-al-chico-bueno-en-una-multitud-de-perdedores-toxicos\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como se detecta al chico bueno en una multitud de perdedores t\u00f3xicos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Spotting a nice guy in a crowd of toxic losers is a real challenge. Especially if you\u2019ve spent great amounts of your time with the toxic ones who made you forget the traits of a nice guy. But, believe me, not all guys are assholes.<\/p>\n<p>There are some good guys out there who are waiting for you to discover them and encourage them to make a move on you. You\u2019ve probably seen them multiple times by now but somehow <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/rasgos-de-chico-malo\/\">chicos malos<\/a> fueron siempre los primeros en capturar tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>But, you realize this when it\u2019s too late and you curse the day when you\u2019ve decided to date a toxic manipulator like him. And then you start wondering where have all of those good guys been hiding from you and the rest of the world?<\/p>\n<p><strong>El caso es que existen, pero no has sido capaz de detectarlas porque todo este tiempo has estado cegado por las t\u00f3xicas.<\/strong> Para solucionarlo, presta atenci\u00f3n a los siguientes consejos sobre c\u00f3mo detectar al chico simp\u00e1tico en un mar de t\u00f3xicos.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Se sentir\u00e1 intimidado<\/h2>\n<p>Nice guys are often intimidated by women because they aren&#8217;t use to being approached by them. If you see that he seems nervous, fidgeting and avoiding eye contact at all costs with you, know that he is a good guy but your presence intimidates him (which will change with time).<\/p>\n<p>A nice guy is not into any of those manipulative games you might have witnessed before him because he\u2019s simply unable to deceive you. His feelings and reactions are genuine and they will never pretend to be something that they\u2019re not only to get you to like them.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Escanear a sus amigos<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure whether he\u2019s a nice guy or just another toxic guy (not worth your time), pay attention to his friends. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll notice the difference between him and his friends (if there is any) and this difference will tell you whether your guy is what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>If his friends are noisy, pushy and dominating while he\u2019s the total opposite, know that he is definitely a nice guy. Nice guys will always be in shadow from the bad ones because it\u2019s in their nature to stay humble.<\/p>\n<h2>3. No intentar\u00e1 sorprenderte<\/h2>\n<p>You will know that he\u2019s a nice guy if he\u2019s not trying hard to amaze you. It is because they are a little bit insecure about themselves and they have a fear of failure. They are afraid that you\u2019re going to misinterpret something they\u2019ve said to you and that is why most of the time they choose to play safely.<\/p>\n<p>They respond normally and don\u2019t try hard to show you affection (even if they really like you) because they don\u2019t want to scare you off.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Es honesto<\/h2>\n<p>A nice guy will be 100% honest with you and you\u2019ll see it in his eyes. You will never second guess anything he says to you because you\u2019ll feel that everything he says is nothing but the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes he\u2019ll be honest to the extent of hurting your feelings but they do it subconsciously because they are wired to be honest no matter what. Nice guys are appalled by mind games and that is why they value honesty before anything else.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Te sientes c\u00f3modo hablando con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p>You know he\u2019s a good guy if you feel utterly comfortable talking to him. Your conversations don\u2019t seem pushy or fake. You feel the positive energy in the air and hours feel like seconds.<\/p>\n<p>You enjoy spending time with him and you don\u2019t find it hard to open up to him because it feels like a natural thing to do. You feel like you really trust him and that you\u2019ve known him for years even though the two of you have just met.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Siempre te contesta<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t wait hours for him to text you back. Instead, he always makes sure to text you in a decent amount of time because he respects you and enjoys talking and texting to you.<\/p>\n<p>A nice guy will never let you wait when it comes to texting because they don\u2019t really plan their actions (because their ulterior motives are not toxic). They see your message, they answer it and then they hope for the best.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Se atiene a sus decisiones<\/h2>\n<p>Si dice que te enviar\u00e1 un mensaje o te llamar\u00e1, ten por seguro que lo har\u00e1. Un buen chico siempre cumple sus decisiones y promesas. Si promete que har\u00e1 algo por ti, se asegurar\u00e1 de hacerlo a tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Te aprecia como persona y respeta tus l\u00edmites y deseos. Nunca har\u00e1 nada que te haga sentir inc\u00f3moda o algo que te haga cuestionar sus intenciones.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Te trata como a una dama<\/h2>\n<p>Yes. You will know he\u2019s a nice guy if you feel that he\u2019s different from everyone else you\u2019ve been dating so far. And it is different, because it\u2019s true. He treats you like a lady and he makes sure you feel entertained and safe with him.<\/p>\n<p>Once you experience the magic of being with a nice guy, you\u2019ll never think about the toxic ones who were definitely not worth your time. And once you target your nice guy, hold on to him and never let him go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30420\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/her-way-1-2-200x300.png\" alt=\"As\u00ed es como se detecta al chico bueno en una multitud de perdedores t\u00f3xicos\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/her-way-1-2-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/her-way-1-2.png 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spotting a nice guy in a crowd of toxic losers is a real challenge. Especially if you\u2019ve spent great amounts of your time with the toxic ones who made you forget the traits of a nice guy. But, believe me, not all guys are assholes. There are some good guys out there who are waiting&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":30419,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/marvin-meyer-190670-unsplash.jpg",800,600,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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