{"id":30513,"date":"2020-11-14T08:45:20","date_gmt":"2020-11-14T08:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30513"},"modified":"2024-10-29T17:04:53","modified_gmt":"2024-10-29T16:04:53","slug":"este-ano-deja-ir-a-quien-no-esta-listo-para-amarte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/este-ano-deja-ir-a-quien-no-esta-listo-para-amarte\/","title":{"rendered":"Este a\u00f1o, deja ir a quien no est\u00e1 preparado para amarte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Que \u00e9ste sea el momento de tu vida en el que decidas que ya es suficiente. No te quedes en un lugar donde no te ven, no te aprecian o no te quieren.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t stay, because things will only get worse. I know it\u2019s a big decision and that it will be painful and hard but cut the cord that\u2019s holding you attached to him.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing you can say or do to change the way he is. He will always stay the same and he\u2019ll never be good enough for you.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Abre los ojos babygirl y verlo por lo que realmente es, no para que usted quiere que sea. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Casi nunca encuentra tiempo para ti. Lo hace todo por su propia conveniencia. Para ti lo es todo menos para \u00e9l, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-senales-de-que-solo-eres-una-opcion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">s\u00f3lo eres una opci\u00f3n<\/a> and you know that deep down. It\u2019s killing you slowly.<\/p>\n<p>His games and this on-again, off-again thing you have with him is making you lose your sanity. You\u2019ve been on this emotional roller coaster ride for so long and it seems it will never stop until you decide to put a stop to it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>M\u00edrate en el espejo, nena, te mereces mucho m\u00e1s.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-113802 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"la chica se mira en el espejo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/the-girl-looks-in-the-mirror-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>M\u00edrate bien y comprueba lo hermosa que eres, lo especial, bondadosa y extraordinaria que eres.<\/p>\n<p>Silence those voices that make you think you are not good enough, pretty enough, or smart enough and that they are the reasons why he doesn\u2019t give you the time of day.<\/p>\n<p>That couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Que te trate mal tiene todo que ver con \u00e9l y el l\u00edo que tiene en la cabeza y nada que ver contigo. Deja de dudar de ti misma. Deja de centrarte en tus defectos y c\u00e9ntrate en tus perfecciones.<\/p>\n<p>You have many of them, don\u2019t toss them away so easily. Don\u2019t pretend that they are not important. Embrace your flaws as well and accept yourself because you are amazing just the way you are.<\/p>\n<p>See yourself with a whole different set of eyes, the ones that aren\u2019t polluted with his presence.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are not made for him babygirl, he doesn\u2019t know how to love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-113805 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl.jpg\" alt=\"el retrato de una pelirroja triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-red-haired-girl-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you are all about love. You need someone who notices that and is not scared to love you back. Someone who isn\u2019t afraid to feel. Someone who is ready to be the man you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Ese alguien no es \u00e9l. Es incapaz de amar. Todo lo que sabe es c\u00f3mo tomar de ti sin dar nada a cambio. Lo \u00fanico que le importa es \u00e9l mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Ac\u00e9ptalo por lo que es, un cap\u00edtulo de aprendizaje de tu vida que te ense\u00f1\u00f3 c\u00f3mo debe ser el amor.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t confuse him for your forever person, he is nothing more than a tough lesson you had to learn so you could become stronger, wiser and learn to love yourself more.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sue\u00f1a y crea, peque\u00f1a. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Invierte en ti tanto como has invertido en \u00e9l e incluso m\u00e1s. Date tiempo para curarte pero sigue avanzando siempre; no importa lo lento o r\u00e1pido que avances, cada paso cuenta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-113806 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"fuera, en la valla, se sienta una mujer sonriente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/outside-on-the-fence-sits-a-smiling-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow your relationship status to define you. Cherish the inner peace you have when you are alone instead of the mess he puts you through. Count on yourself like you could never count on him. Be your own rock. You got this.<\/p>\n<p>You can do whatever you put your mind to, just give yourself the same amount of energy, love and commitment he didn\u2019t value and see how your life starts changing for the better.<\/p>\n<p><b>Let go of the one who isn\u2019t ready to love you, babygirl. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9jalo ir por mucho que duela porque su presencia en tu vida doler\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/el-tiempo-admite-merecer-algo-mejor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te mereces algo mejor<\/span><\/a> que esto.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve that all-consuming, \u2018can\u2019t live without you\u2019 type of love and not the one you need to push and pull and force. That love is not true, it\u2019s only temporary.<\/p>\n<p>Empieza este a\u00f1o haciendo borr\u00f3n y cuenta nueva y libre de \u00e9l. Haz sitio a alguien que merezca m\u00e1s la pena, a alguien que est\u00e9 preparado para ti, a alguien que se vuelva loco por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Y nunca te conformes con menos.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Este a\u00f1o, deja ir a quien no est\u00e1 preparado para amarte\" class=\"wp-image-113807\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let this be the point in your life in which you decide that enough is enough. Don\u2019t stay somewhere you are not seen, appreciated or loved. Don\u2019t stay, because things will only get worse. I know it\u2019s a big decision and that it will be painful and hard but cut the cord that\u2019s holding you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":177113,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You_-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30513"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177114,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513\/revisions\/177114"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}