{"id":30520,"date":"2019-12-21T09:07:16","date_gmt":"2019-12-21T09:07:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30520"},"modified":"2023-01-04T12:27:24","modified_gmt":"2023-01-04T12:27:24","slug":"8-cosas-importantes-que-debes-saber-antes-de-salir-con-una-madre-soltera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-cosas-importantes-que-debes-saber-antes-de-salir-con-una-madre-soltera\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cosas importantes que debes saber antes de salir con una madre soltera"},"content":{"rendered":"

Madres solteras<\/span><\/a> son verdaderos h\u00e9roes. Sacrifican todo lo que tienen para criar a sus hijos de la mejor manera posible y nunca se arrepienten.<\/p>\n

Son abnegados, cari\u00f1osos, atentos y valientes. Pero tambi\u00e9n necesitan a alguien que les demuestre que no est\u00e1n solos.<\/p>\n

Necesitan un hombre que sea lo suficientemente bueno como para ganarse el coraz\u00f3n de una madre soltera. Y un hombre que trata de ganar el coraz\u00f3n de una madre soltera necesita saber algunas cosas importantes.<\/p>\n

1. Nunca ser\u00e1s su prioridad ya que sus hijos ya lo son<\/h2>\n

Si sales con una madre soltera, debes saber que nunca ser\u00e1s la persona m\u00e1s importante de su vida. Ella tiene gente peque\u00f1a a la que tiene que cuidar y siempre ser\u00e1n su m\u00e1xima prioridad.<\/p>\n

She has those who were there before you and she won\u2019t let you take their place. She will always put them first and if you can live with that, then you are a perfect candidate to win the heart of a single mom.<\/p>\n

Pero si compites con sus hijos por su atenci\u00f3n, m\u00e1s vale que te rindas a tiempo porque perdiste hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

2. Tienes que ser bueno con sus hijos<\/h2>\n

No single mom would ever put up with a man who isn\u2019t good to her kids. That\u2019s why you need to respect her kids because they are her everything.<\/p>\n

Ella vive para ellos y nunca dejar\u00eda que nadie les hiciera da\u00f1o. Cuando empieces a salir con ella, debes tener cuidado con c\u00f3mo te comportas delante de ellos.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever let them feel like you will replace their dad because you can never do that. But instead, make them feel like you are just a friend who will spend more time with their mom and them of course.<\/p>\n

Cuando vea que eres cari\u00f1oso y atento con sus hijos, te aceptar\u00e1 por completo.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t try to play any games with her<\/h2>\n

The truth is that you really can\u2019t play any juegos mentales<\/span><\/a> con una madre soltera. Ha pasado por muchas cosas en su vida y lo \u00faltimo que necesita ahora es otro ni\u00f1o al que criar.<\/p>\n

She needs an emotionally stable man to be her support when she can\u2019t do it anymore.<\/p>\n

Ella necesita a alguien que sea abierto sobre sus sentimientos. Un hombre que diga si quiere algo y no la haga tener que adivinar nada.<\/p>\n

So, whatever you do, don\u2019t play any games because she is sick and tired of them. She only likes those games she plays with her kids and nothing else.<\/p>\n

4. Necesitas saber que su ex siempre formar\u00e1 parte de su vida<\/h2>\n

Even if she is divorced there is something that will connect her to her ex for the rest of her life\u2014her kids.<\/p>\n

Necesitas saber que \u00e9l estar\u00e1 cerca todo el tiempo porque necesitan hablar de sus hijos y encontrar la manera de criarlos con normalidad.<\/p>\n

So, if you can accept the fact that another man will always be there and that you also need to respect him, then you have a chance with her. Otherwise, it really doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

5. Est\u00e1 ocupada, pero muy ocupada<\/h2>\n

Una madre soltera tiene un trabajo (o dos) y unos hijos que cuidar. Adem\u00e1s, todos los d\u00edas tiene que cocinar para su familia y hacer todas las tareas dom\u00e9sticas.<\/p>\n

Y no hay nadie que la ayude. As\u00ed que debes comprenderla cuando dice que est\u00e1 demasiado cansada para salir y que prefiere pasar la tarde con sus hijos.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t judge her for not focusing on you since she has others who need her more than you. And that is completely normal.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you need to organize and plan dates with her so she can spend enough time with her kids but devote time to you as well.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 14 Dating A Single Mom Red Flags You Shouldn\u2019t Ignore<\/a><\/p>\n

6. She doesn\u2019t need you to save her<\/h2>\n

A single mom knows what her life looks like and she is okay with that. She doesn\u2019t feel sorry for herself so you shouldn\u2019t feel sorry for her.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want pity. She just wants someone who will be there to hug her when she is down.<\/p>\n

Alguien que le diga que est\u00e1 haciendo un trabajo incre\u00edble y que sus hijos tienen mucha suerte de tenerla como madre.<\/p>\n

She is the one who kisses and hugs her kids and from time to time she needs someone who will hug her and tell her they love her. That\u2019s all she wants, normal communication and a normal life.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t push things<\/h2>\n

Cuando salgas con una madre soltera, debes tener mucho cuidado porque su vida no es f\u00e1cil y debes tenerlo en cuenta.<\/p>\n

No matter how much she would want to do things that make her happy she can\u2019t because of her kids. But she has accepted this as totally normal and she is okay with that.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t push things because ya es bastante dif\u00edcil<\/span><\/a> for her. I know that you want to have her only for yourself for a couple of hours but that won\u2019t be possible because there are little people in her life who are her priority.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que olv\u00eddate de quedarte a dormir porque a sus hijos les parecer\u00eda raro.<\/p>\n

Espera a que te conozcan mejor e intenta ser su amigo para que empiecen a creer en tus buenas intenciones. S\u00f3lo entonces podr\u00e1s entrar poco a poco en sus vidas. S\u00f3lo entonces sabr\u00e1n que est\u00e1n a salvo contigo y que lo \u00fanico que quieres es que sean felices.<\/p>\n

8. Hay tanto amor dentro de ella<\/h2>\n

The truth is that there is so much love inside a single mom. She can love you in ways you didn\u2019t know existed and she is willing to give all of herself to the right man.<\/p>\n

Una mujer as\u00ed ha pasado por un infierno y s\u00f3lo quiere a alguien que la quiera sin jugar a nada. Ella necesita un hombre que le dar\u00e1 todo lo que ella anhela y que nunca se dar\u00e1 por vencido en ella.<\/p>\n

Hay tanto amor y afecto en ella y es tan buena d\u00e1ndoselo a la gente que quiere.<\/p>\n

Es cari\u00f1osa con sus hijos que son todo su mundo y le encanta ser su mam\u00e1 y cuidarlos pero tambi\u00e9n necesita a alguien que le recuerde lo especial que es.<\/p>\n

Christine is the author of \u2018Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>\u2019, a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.<\/p>\n

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