{"id":30653,"date":"2020-10-28T16:06:47","date_gmt":"2020-10-28T16:06:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30653"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:38:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:38:57","slug":"como-tratar-a-un-chico-cuando-se-da-cuenta-de-que-dejarte-fue-un-error","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-tratar-a-un-chico-cuando-se-da-cuenta-de-que-dejarte-fue-un-error\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo tratar a un chico cuando se da cuenta de que dejarte fue un error"},"content":{"rendered":"

No hay nada peor que arrepentirse de las propias decisiones y, si no est\u00e1s seguro de tomarlas, volver\u00e1n y te perseguir\u00e1n el resto de tu vida.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo lidiar con alguien que signific\u00f3 el mundo para ti y ahora es s\u00f3lo un recuerdo lejano? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY c\u00f3mo lidiar con ellos cuando se den cuenta del error que supuso dejarte marchar?<\/span><\/p>\n

A veces necesitan perder lo que tienen para darse cuenta de lo que ten\u00edan.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that is when he starts panicking that he\u2019s made the mistake of his life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo primero que se le ocurre es acercarse a ti y rogarte que le perdones.<\/span><\/p>\n

Es dif\u00edcil pensar racionalmente cuando se trata de esto porque nunca se puede estar completamente seguro de que haya cambiado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca podr\u00e1s aceptar el hecho de que fuiste una segunda opci\u00f3n para quien una vez fuiste una prioridad. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to understand the greediness of people to own everything and to always want more.<\/span><\/p>\n

Les des lo que les des, no quedar\u00e1n satisfechos. Y esa es la maldici\u00f3n de ser humano. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cometes un error, buscas el perd\u00f3n, vuelves a equivocarte y as\u00ed sucesivamente. Pero, \u00bfd\u00f3nde est\u00e1n los l\u00edmites en todo esto?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfDeber\u00edas aceptar sus disculpas y<\/span> dale una segunda oportunidad<\/span><\/a>? \u00bfO deber\u00edas descartarlo y seguir adelante con tu vida? Como siempre, la elecci\u00f3n es tuya.<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00e1rate a pensar en lo que realmente quieres.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who needs to weigh up all of the pros and cons of your decision and you\u2019re the one who needs to live with that decision. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que quieres? \u00bfTodav\u00eda sientes algo por \u00e9l? <\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Do you think that he\u2019s changed and he is utterly sorry for his past behavior? Will you be happy with your decision? <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico a lo que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n es a c\u00f3mo te hace sentir esta decisi\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe imaginas de nuevo con \u00e9l o ser\u00edas m\u00e1s feliz si dejaras todos tus recuerdos con \u00e9l en el pasado?<\/span><\/p>\n

Saber lo que realmente quieres te ayudar\u00e1 a tomar una decisi\u00f3n acertada que influir\u00e1 en tu futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y nunca debes dar por sentado tu futuro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si quieres que vuelva, haz que demuestre que ha cambiado.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve decided to give him a second chance, first make sure that he proves to you that he\u2019s worthy of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Make him work hard to fix what he\u2019s done wrong in the past and tell him that this will be his last chance to reassure you of his intentions.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de que conoce el peso de sus malas acciones y s\u00f3lo entonces ac\u00e9ptalo de nuevo en tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t realize the seriousness of his actions, you giving him a second chance will be in vain.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make him realize what he\u2019s lost and make him work hard to deserve it again.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever let anyone take you for granted because you deserve much better. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Hazle ver que <\/span>te mereces algo mejor<\/span><\/a> and if he\u2019s not willing to give it to you, you\u2019ll find it somewhere else and he will never have another chance to prove himself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nada duele tanto como una oportunidad perdida. Con todo esto en su mente, tendr\u00e1 una idea de lo que pasa por tu cabeza. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will know that he\u2019s really fucked up this time and he will try hard to fix it and win your heart again.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if he doesn\u2019t, you\u2019ll know that he\u2019s simply not meant to stay in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t want him back, show him that you\u2019re a bigger person than he\u2019ll ever be.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you rather decide that you don\u2019t want anything to do with him, tell him nicely and explain it to him in a calm manner. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t yell at him or show your rage because it will not make sense. Why would you be mad in the first place?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re happy with your decision, you will not have the urge to be mad at him because you\u2019ll be happy with what you\u2019ve decided. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that is how you\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve made the right decision.<\/span><\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strale que sigues teniendo un gran coraz\u00f3n y que \u00e9l no es digno de \u00e9l. As\u00ed se dar\u00e1 cuenta de lo que ha perdido y nunca podr\u00e1 olvidarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca podr\u00e1 olvidarte y ese ser\u00e1 su mayor castigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll make him realize how it feels to be rejected when you want something with all of your heart. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que no hay errores; los errores son s\u00f3lo lecciones que hay que aprender.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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