{"id":30724,"date":"2020-05-04T13:55:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T13:55:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30724"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:40:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:40:30","slug":"6-maneras-de-lidiar-con-un-novio-poco-romantico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-maneras-de-lidiar-con-un-novio-poco-romantico\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneras de lidiar con un novio poco rom\u00e1ntico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve expected a boyfriend who will surprise you with romantic dinners with candles, romantic weekend getaways, serving you your favorite breakfast in bed or giving you \u2018I love you\u2019 poems.<\/p>\n<p>And instead, you\u2019ve got someone whose biggest romantic gesture is to hold your hand and share the last two spoons of ice cream with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s disappointing and at the same time frustrating, and you cannot blame him for being unromantic because romance is not something you\u2019re born with.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s something you acquire through time, so don\u2019t think it\u2019s something unattainable.<\/p>\n<p>If you give it some time, stay patient and follow these 6 tips on how to cope with the situation you\u2019re in, I assure you that everything will fall into place.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">D\u00edgale lo que espera de \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85784\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sonriente hablando en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tu novio es un alma poco rom\u00e1ntica, tienes que entender que no tiene ni idea de lo que significa ser rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, no puedes esperar que sepa lo que tiene que hacer o c\u00f3mo tiene que comportarse para expresar su lado rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n<p>Lo mejor que puedes hacer es decirle cu\u00e1les son tus expectativas, y esto le ayudar\u00e1 a entender c\u00f3mo funcionan las cosas en el mundo rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n<p>Esto le abrir\u00e1 los ojos, y por fin sabr\u00e1 lo que debe hacer si quiere hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t equate his unromantic side with his affection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85785\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"El retrato de la sensualidad pareja bes\u00e1ndose en el dormitorio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever let his unromantic side make you question his affection for you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s necessary for you to understand that he cares about you and he loves you, but he has some problems with expressing this with romantic gestures.<\/p>\n<p>Cuanto antes se d\u00e9 cuenta de ello, m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil le resultar\u00e1 afrontar el problema.<\/p>\n<p>Unromantic people simply see things differently than others because they don\u2019t have a feeling for what\u2019s romantic and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>Y por eso tienes que ser su gu\u00eda y mantenerte paciente el mayor tiempo posible.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with your relationship or your partner; it just needs some time and effort.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t judge him or compare him with others (more romantic partners)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer sonriente mirando a un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo peor que puedes hacer es comparar a tu novio con otros novios o con tus ex que fueron m\u00e1s rom\u00e1nticos que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Es realmente doloroso para \u00e9l escuchar eso y piensa c\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas t\u00fa si \u00e9l te dijera lo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Compararle con los dem\u00e1s s\u00f3lo prolongar\u00e1 la situaci\u00f3n y herir\u00e1 sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p>Y tu objetivo es abrirle los ojos y guiarle en la direcci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica, no hacerle da\u00f1o en el proceso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Show him how it\u2019s done<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer tumbados en la cama y comiendo pizza\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve explained what you expect him to do, show him how it\u2019s done.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00edrvele su desayuno favorito en la cama, planea una cena rom\u00e1ntica o piensa en alguna otra cosa que le muestre c\u00f3mo debe ser.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando vea tu(s) ejemplo(s), podr\u00e1 atar cabos y copiar tus acciones (lo que no deja de ser un avance en la direcci\u00f3n correcta) o pensar en algo m\u00e1s innovador (lo que suceder\u00e1 con el tiempo). Decida lo que decida, si\u00e9ntete orgulloso de sus peque\u00f1os pasos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar dispuesto a transigir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85792\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sonriente sentada en el suelo y jugando a la videoconsola\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Also, be ready to do things that you\u2019ve perhaps avoided doing in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Si a tu novio le gustan mucho los juegos, prueba a sentarte a su lado y pedirle que te explique c\u00f3mo se juega a un determinado juego. Disfrutad del tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos.<\/p>\n<p>You can always create a romantic atmosphere regardless of the activities you\u2019re engaged in.<\/p>\n<p>And when he sees that you\u2019re ready to compromise and go out of your way to be part of something he really enjoys doing, he will also be ready to do such things for you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l ya no <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/real-men-dont-make-excuses-they-make-an-effort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">poner excusas<\/a> that he doesn\u2019t know how to prepare a romantic dinner or similar.<\/p>\n<p>Har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para hacerte feliz porque sabe que eso significa para ti tanto como sus juegos para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Apreciar sus esfuerzos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja abrazandose en el salon\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Always remember to acknowledge his efforts because he will need your support and give him the green light that he\u2019s doing something right.<\/p>\n<p>Appreciating means telling him that you\u2019re proud of his progress and everything he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t need to be something big to let him know that he\u2019s done it right.<\/p>\n<p>Reconozca cada cosa que haga que tenga algo que ver con ser rom\u00e1ntico, y har\u00e1 todo lo posible por seguir haci\u00e9ndolo.<\/p>\n<p>After all, all the greatest things need practice, and this isn\u2019t an exception.<\/p>\n<p>Y si sigue siendo persistente en apoyar a su pareja a trav\u00e9s de su viaje de transformaci\u00f3n, se sorprender\u00e1 de lo que ambos son capaces de lograr juntos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 maneras de lidiar con un novio poco rom\u00e1ntico \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve expected a boyfriend who will surprise you with romantic dinners with candles, romantic weekend getaways, serving you your favorite breakfast in bed or giving you \u2018I love you\u2019 poems. And instead, you\u2019ve got someone whose biggest romantic gesture is to hold your hand and share the last two spoons of ice cream with you&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":85796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30724","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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