No, you don\u2019t get that in real life.<\/b><\/p>\n
En la vida real, te enfrentas a tu propia mierda t\u00fa solo. Nadie sacar\u00e1 el cuello para salvarte.<\/p>\n
Te enfrentas a tus propias batallas y arriesgas tu felicidad tomando tus propias decisiones. No tienes ni idea de si est\u00e1n bien o mal, pero cometes errores y aprendes a no volver a cometerlos.<\/p>\n
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You see, all men are kind of emotionally unavailable. You know why? It\u2019s because all men are kind of scared to open up.<\/p>\n
Son como nosotros, tienen miedo de que les hagan da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n
Algunos lo ocultan con su dureza, otros lo esconden tras la perspectiva de un dios griego. Algunos son descarados, otros est\u00e1n llenos de s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n
Pero, en el fondo, todos son emocionalmente no disponible<\/a> porque tienen miedo de hacerse da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n En el fondo, son gilipollas emocionalmente inaccesibles porque tambi\u00e9n son humanos.<\/b><\/p>\n As\u00ed que, antes de que se enamore de un hombre emocionalmente inaccesible<\/a>, and you will, keep in mind some of the following things and just maybe you\u2019ll find at least the image of true love everyone is talking about.<\/p>\n Cuando, en realidad, lo \u00fanico que necesitamos es alguien con quien volver a casa, alguien que nos escuche, alguien que nos respete y alguien en quien confiar.<\/p>\n If you are lucky enough to find this, you\u2019ve found \u2018true love\u2019.<\/p>\n Dile exactamente lo que quieres de \u00e9l. Dile que quieres un marido considerado, un buen padre y, lo m\u00e1s importante, un amigo de verdad.<\/p>\n Dile que quieres a alguien que te escuche, alguien que te aconseje cuando lo necesites.<\/p>\n Dile que quieres un hombre que est\u00e9 a tu lado y act\u00fae en vuestra relaci\u00f3n como la uni\u00f3n de dos personas que intentan hacer la mejor vida posible para s\u00ed mismas.<\/p>\n Demu\u00e9strale que sois compa\u00f1eros que ten\u00e9is que ayudaros y trabajar juntos.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t get your hopes up, you can\u2019t get disappointed. Don\u2019t expect him to be emotionally mature.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t expect him to be a man of many words. If he keeps his distance and doesn\u2019t talk much about feelings, it\u2019s just who he is.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll have to accept that. But never try to change it, because it\u2019s impossible. It\u2019s who he is and you can\u2019t do anything about that.<\/p>\n If his behavior is a deal-breaker, then leave him but once again, and I can\u2019t stress this enough, don\u2019t ever try to change him because in the end, you\u2019ll end up destroying each other.<\/p>\n You have nothing to do with whether he changes or not. You can love him to the moon and back, you can promise him the stars from the sky and he\u2019ll stay the same.<\/p>\n You can threaten to leave him if he doesn\u2019t turn his life around and he will stay the same.<\/p>\n No hay absolutamente nada que puedas hacer para cambiar su perspectiva y su forma de pensar y actuar.<\/p>\n Si quiere cambiar, si no est\u00e1 satisfecho con su comportamiento, entonces tienes una oportunidad.<\/p>\n Still, it\u2019s going to be a bumpy road filled with denial, dedication and a lot of hard work on your part. Change is never easy, even if the person is willing to give it a try.<\/p>\n When you want to talk to him about something serious, don\u2019t go right at him.<\/p>\n Se sentir\u00e1 amenazado y en cuanto se d\u00e9 cuenta de que tiene que bajar la guardia y mostrar emociones, se echar\u00e1 atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n And you\u2019ll get one big nothing.<\/p>\n Si no hay comunicaci\u00f3n en la relaci\u00f3n, eso relaci\u00f3n es listo para fracasar<\/a><\/span>.<\/a> It is hard for every couple to be on the same page, especially couples who aren\u2019t one hundred percent true and honest with each other and their own feelings.<\/p>\n As I already said, he won\u2019t change. He is emotionally distant, he is unavailable and he will stay that way.<\/p>\n Tal vez con el tiempo aprenda a confiar en ti, pero su primer instinto ante la se\u00f1al de problemas es levantar sus muros y no dejar entrar a nadie, ni siquiera a ti.<\/p>\n You\u2019re actually learning how to be loved by a person you love twice as much.<\/p>\n You are well aware of what you’re getting into, so you have to be prepared to live a life without emotional support and crazy acts of love.<\/p>\n You\u2019re going to live an emotionally lonely life. Be prepared for that.<\/p>\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It has been a long time since I stopped believing in fairy tales. It was such a long time ago that I stopped hoping that one day a real man would come along and steal my heart and make it his for the rest of his days. I don\u2019t buy that crap anymore. I put…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":78344,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30789","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Things-You-Need-To-Know-Before-Loving-An-Emotionally-Unavailable-Man.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30789","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30789"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30789\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78344"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30789"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30789"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30789"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Ten muy claro lo que necesitas de \u00e9l<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon\u2019t expect too much<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon\u2019t try to fix him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTrate de averiguar c\u00f3mo llegar a \u00e9l<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAprende a vivir con un hombre emocionalmente distante en tu vida<\/h2>\n
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