{"id":30881,"date":"2020-02-08T12:58:01","date_gmt":"2020-02-08T12:58:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30881"},"modified":"2022-03-22T02:10:20","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T02:10:20","slug":"como-lidiar-con-un-chico-que-no-te-respeta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-lidiar-con-un-chico-que-no-te-respeta\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo tratar a un chico que no te respeta"},"content":{"rendered":"

There\u2019s this famous quote that caught my eye immediately when I saw it and it has been in my head for so long since then: \u201cYou don\u2019t have to love me. You don\u2019t even have to like me but you will respect me.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

La cita sugiere que el respeto va m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del amor y el afecto y que es algo que debes exigir. Pero tambi\u00e9n tienes que saber que el respeto hay que gan\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n

How to deal with a guy who doesn\u2019t respect you<\/b><\/p>\n

I know it is really frustrating when you don\u2019t know what you did wrong to deserve such treatment from a guy you\u2019ve been chatting to, dating or you\u2019re in a relationship with but not all hope is lost.<\/p>\n

Here are 4 simple steps that you need to go through in order to save yourself from the unfortunate situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n

Make sure that you\u2019ve earned respect<\/h2>\n

    \"mujer<\/p>\n

Como ya se ha dicho, el respeto es algo que hay que ganarse. No puedes esperar que un chico te respete si t\u00fa careces de amor propio. Ahora la pregunta es \u00bfc\u00f3mo te ganas el respeto?<\/p>\n

La respuesta es sencilla. Uno se gana el respeto respet\u00e1ndose primero a s\u00ed mismo y luego a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Te lo ganas trat\u00e1ndote con amor y cari\u00f1o y decidiendo no conformarte con menos de lo que mereces.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n tienes que saber que la autoestima no se gana de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n

Es algo en lo que tienes que trabajar durante mucho tiempo y, una vez que lo consigas, nunca m\u00e1s te ver\u00e1s en la tesitura de tener que buscar la manera de lidiar con un comportamiento irrespetuoso.<\/p>\n

So, the first thing you need to do is ask yourself if you\u2019ve been respectful toward yourself and then you can proceed to the next step.<\/p>\n

Determinar la naturaleza de su comportamiento irrespetuoso.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hay muchas causas para un comportamiento irrespetuoso. Tu chico podr\u00eda haberlo hecho porque estaba frustrado por otra cosa que no tiene nada que ver contigo, pero aun as\u00ed, no es una excusa v\u00e1lida.<\/p>\n

You will know that he\u2019s done it unintentionally if he immediately apologizes afterward or a few days later.<\/p>\n

Significa que te respeta de verdad, pero que algo le ha llevado a actuar as\u00ed y a herir tus sentimientos sin querer.<\/p>\n

But if he\u2019s done it intentionally, chances are that he will never apologize for what he\u2019s done.<\/p>\n

It is because he thinks you deserve what he\u2019s done to you and he will not go out of his way to prove to you differently.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a big difference between the two and once you realize the nature of his disrespectful behavior, you will be able to see the bigger picture behind his actions and find a proper solution to it.<\/p>\n

Establezca sus l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve determined the reason for his behavior, you can think of setting firm boundaries that will serve as an ultimatum for if he repeats the same again.<\/p>\n

Establecer sus l\u00edmites<\/a> significa hacerle saber que la ha cagado y que no vas a tolerar sus gilipolleces.<\/p>\n

La falta de respeto es algo que requiere una intervenci\u00f3n inmediata y si te limitas a dejar que se disculpe sin hacerle saber que no tolerar\u00e1s que vuelva a cometer el mismo error, te dar\u00e1 por sentado.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si crees que se lo merece, puedes darle una segunda oportunidad para que se disculpe y cambie su comportamiento hacia ti.<\/p>\n

If you see that he\u2019s utterly sorry because of it and he is assuring you that he didn\u2019t mean it, be sure that he will change.<\/p>\n

If he still doesn’t respect you, respect yourself enough to walk away<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

El \u00faltimo paso, pero tambi\u00e9n el m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil, es encontrar el valor para respetarte a ti mismo lo suficiente como para alejarte.<\/p>\n

If he still doesn\u2019t show signs of respect toward you, regardless of your ultimatum, know that it is time to let him go.<\/p>\n

Es lo mejor que puedes hacer por ti y sin duda te lo mereces.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be treated with the amount of respect you\u2019re giving to everyone else. So, if you see that he hasn\u2019t changed, leaving him is non-negotiable.<\/p>\n

Hay muchos otros tipos que saben c\u00f3mo tratar a una mujer con respeto<\/a> y que har\u00e1 cualquier cosa para hacerla sentir feliz y dichosa.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que resp\u00e9tate lo suficiente como para esperar a alguien que merezca tu tiempo.<\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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