{"id":30970,"date":"2019-01-09T08:06:26","date_gmt":"2019-01-09T08:06:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30970"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:16:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:16:57","slug":"si-quieres-dejar-de-atraer-a-chicos-toxicos-deja-de-hacer-estas-6-cosas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-quieres-dejar-de-atraer-a-chicos-toxicos-deja-de-hacer-estas-6-cosas\/","title":{"rendered":"Si quieres dejar de atraer a chicos t\u00f3xicos, deja de hacer estas 6 cosas"},"content":{"rendered":"

For so many years, I was in this weird loop where I kept dating these horrible guys who took much more than they actually gave. It was such a toxic environment and I honestly didn\u2019t know what the hell was wrong with me to keep attracting all the wrong men into my life.<\/p>\n

No dejaba de pensar en ello y sab\u00eda que ten\u00eda que haber alguna raz\u00f3n v\u00e1lida para ello, as\u00ed que hice examen de conciencia y llegu\u00e9 a la conclusi\u00f3n de que mi comportamiento era la raz\u00f3n principal por la que siempre acababa con el tipo equivocado<\/span><\/a>!<\/p>\n

Inconscientemente manifest\u00e9 ciertos rasgos poco saludables que me alejaron de los hombres que realmente merec\u00eda y, en cambio, atrajeron un mar de tipos t\u00f3xicos a mi vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t want to repeat my mistakes and get your dating life back on track, read these 6 things I did wrong and save yourself years of regret.<\/p>\n

1. Me atra\u00edan los tipos oscuros y misteriosos con un pasado turbio<\/h2>\n

Fui lo suficientemente tonta como para creer que ser\u00eda capaz de romper su duro exterior y conseguir que se abrieran a m\u00ed como nunca antes lo hab\u00edan hecho. Evidentemente, me equivoqu\u00e9, \u00a1y siempre volv\u00eda para atormentarme!<\/p>\n

Puede que esos tipos s\u00f3lo parezcan atractivos y atrayentes en apariencia, pero en realidad son almas da\u00f1adas incapaces de quererse a s\u00ed mismas, y mucho menos a otra persona. Mantente alejada.<\/p>\n

2. secretamente me gustaba cuando eran un poco malos conmigo<\/h2>\n

This is a messed up thing to admit and it probably goes back to my childhood when I was told that if a boy was mean or teased me, it meant he liked me! That is a crazy concept and I can\u2019t believe anyone would ever be told that!<\/p>\n

So it translated back to my adult years, where I believed that if he yelled at me, it must\u2019ve meant he really cared! What a shitty thing to be made believe.<\/p>\n

3. I wasn\u2019t interested in nice guys<\/h2>\n

Nice guys just always somehow seemed boring. I am aware that one can\u2019t judge a book by its cover and now I don\u2019t anymore but I used to believe that I could get no thrill by being with a buen chico<\/span><\/a>, as it just seemed too ordinary. And now, I would kill for that \u2018ordinary\u2019 type of love! Stability over unpredictability.<\/p>\n

4. Me gustaban los hombres que acababan de salir de una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

Por razones que a\u00fan desconozco, siempre me he enamorado de los chicos que acababan de salir de una relaci\u00f3n o que arrastraban cargas emocionales de relaciones pasadas.<\/p>\n

Est\u00fapidamente cre\u00ed que yo podr\u00eda ser la persona con la que encontrar\u00edan el \"felices para siempre\" y que les devolver\u00eda al buen camino. Rara vez result\u00f3 as\u00ed y la mayor\u00eda de las veces fue doloroso, ya que siempre me sent\u00ed como una segunda opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Now I see that I should\u2019ve waited for them to get over their past love before I started anything with them.<\/p>\n

5. Segu\u00eda dejando a los hombres sin ninguna raz\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

Me gustaba demasiado tener raz\u00f3n, as\u00ed que en lugar de solucionar las cosas, acababa dej\u00e1ndoles para no tener que pelearme con ellos. Era un c\u00edrculo realmente t\u00f3xico que no era sano para los dos y todo era culpa m\u00eda.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t accept that I wasn\u2019t right all the time so it was easier to end it and find another tipo t\u00f3xico<\/span><\/a> para reemplazarlo. Fui muy ego\u00edsta y nunca me di cuenta.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t really think they were that bad in the first place, I somehow made them act that way due to my twisted way of thinking and acting toward them.<\/p>\n

6. I would act crazy if I didn\u2019t have my way<\/h2>\n

If things didn\u2019t work out how I wanted them to, I would blame it all on the guy. I always had to have it my way and I made myself believe that if a guy couldn\u2019t conform to that, he was not the guy for me and there had to be something wrong with him. And all this time, it was me who messed everything up.<\/p>\n

Fui demasiado terco para admitir que estaba equivocado y pagu\u00e9 el precio. Gracias a Dios, ahora veo que una relaci\u00f3n es una calle de doble sentido y que ambas partes merecen ser escuchadas y reconocidas por igual. Cualquier otra cosa no es justa y ahora por fin lo veo.<\/p>\n

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