{"id":30990,"date":"2020-07-09T09:09:53","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T09:09:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30990"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:33","slug":"verdaderas-razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-eligen-el-cobarde-acto-del-ghosting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/verdaderas-razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-eligen-el-cobarde-acto-del-ghosting\/","title":{"rendered":"Razones reales por las que los hombres eligen el cobarde acto de Ghosting"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ghosting es la peor forma de ruptura<\/a> con alguien, todo por ese sentimiento persistente que permanece en nuestro coraz\u00f3n debido a la falta de cierre.<\/p>\n

Juega con nuestra cabeza, nos llena de dudas y destruye nuestra confianza en nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n

Te deja incapaz de seguir adelante con tu vida porque est\u00e1s constantemente cuestion\u00e1ndolo todo, pregunt\u00e1ndote si has sido t\u00fa y sin saber c\u00f3mo solucionarlo.<\/p>\n

You make all these excuses for him but deep down\u2026 you know it\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a really crappy dating habit that is plaguing today\u2019s society and here are some insightful reasons why men resort to this horrendous way of breaking our heart:<\/p>\n

1. Es un vago<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A veces, los chicos son as\u00ed de inmaduros.<\/p>\n

He may have lost the interest he previously had in you and instead of being a man and letting you down gently, he\u2019ll stop any and all communication.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that he probably doesn\u2019t even see it as a problem.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll just stop answering and act as if it\u2019s the most normal thing in the world and move on to some other girl, while you\u2019re desperately trying to figure out what you did wrong.<\/p>\n

Los t\u00edos pueden ser unos gilipollas inmaduros a veces.<\/p>\n

2. He doesn\u2019t have the balls to tell you how he feels<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Sometimes, guys are afraid of how we\u2019re going to react. As if women are some kind of time bombs that are going to explode when broken up with.<\/p>\n

Vamos, \u00a1danos algo de cr\u00e9dito!<\/p>\n

So instead of dealing with their emotions and sending us a text saying they\u2019re not interested in continuing this, they\u2019ll disappear and hope we won\u2019t lose our shit at them.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s just easier to resort to fantasma<\/a> que tener que responder a nuestra simple pregunta, pregunt\u00e1ndose qu\u00e9 ha ido mal.<\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s keeping his options open<\/h2>\n

\"guapo<\/p>\n

Guys have this deluded belief that if they don\u2019t technically end things with you, there\u2019s a chance later if they decide to hit us up again while searching for someone better.<\/p>\n

This is such a twisted way of thinking and keeping their options open, in case they don\u2019t find anyone better than you.<\/p>\n

They believe this to be okay since they never really broke it off in the first place. They just didn\u2019t text, call or reply.<\/p>\n

4. Quiere evitar tus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A veces los chicos piensan que dejarte sin decir nada va a dejarte menos herida que hacer toda la charla de ruptura.<\/p>\n

Como si de alguna manera estuvieran perdonando tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Es gracioso, lo s\u00e9, pero algunos se lo creen de verdad.<\/p>\n

Como si no tener ning\u00fan cierre y sentarse all\u00ed pregunt\u00e1ndose qu\u00e9 diablos sali\u00f3 mal podr\u00eda de alguna manera ser mejor que escuchar una raz\u00f3n v\u00e1lida de por qu\u00e9 quiere terminar las cosas.<\/p>\n

In reality, this is all just about protecting his own feelings, rather than your own. He might actually believe that he\u2019s doing it for you but deep down, he\u2019s protecting himself.<\/p>\n

5. He just doesn\u2019t really care<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

This is the worst kind of guy. One who truly doesn\u2019t give a shit about how he makes you feel.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be with you for as long as it\u2019s convenient for him but the minute he gets bored or finds someone else, he\u2019ll just leave without a word and not care how much it hurts.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that it will suck for you not having any closure but he just won\u2019t care to give it to you. Really classy.<\/p>\n

6. No tiene ni idea de qu\u00e9 decir<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He is really bad at breaking up. He panics and doesn\u2019t know what to say as he will probably only make it worse, so he does the only thing he knows\u2014leaves without a trace.<\/p>\n

This kind of guy doesn\u2019t really want to hurt you and even though he definitely is making it hard on you, he\u2019s really just the type of guy who doesn\u2019t handle pressure of any kind well.<\/p>\n

It sucks, I know. And you should in no way feel sorry for him but hey, at least he\u2019s better than the guy who genuinely doesn\u2019t give a shit, right?<\/p>\n

7. 7. Falta de tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Pero es la excusa m\u00e1s absurda. Un mensaje de texto r\u00e1pido son, literalmente, 20 segundos de tu tiempo.<\/p>\n

Puede que est\u00e9 ahogado en trabajo y obligaciones, pero todo hombre deber\u00eda tener la decencia de terminar las cosas con gracia y respeto.<\/p>\n

Si tienes tiempo para tomarte un descanso en el trabajo, tienes tiempo para una llamada o un mensaje de texto. Muy sencillo.<\/p>\n

\"Razones<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ghosting is the worst way of breaking up with someone, all because of that lingering feeling that remains in our heart due to lack of closure. It plays with our head, fills us with self-doubt and destroys our self-confidence. It leaves you unable to move forward with your life because you are constantly questioning everything,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":120022,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Real-Reasons-Why-Men-Choose-The-Cowardly-Act-Of-Ghosting-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30990","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30990"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30990\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120022"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30990"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30990"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30990"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}