{"id":31055,"date":"2019-01-10T09:06:34","date_gmt":"2019-01-10T09:06:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31055"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:09:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:09:39","slug":"30-verdades-desagradables-que-te-ayudaran-a-encontrar-tu-alma-gemela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/30-verdades-desagradables-que-te-ayudaran-a-encontrar-tu-alma-gemela\/","title":{"rendered":"30 verdades desagradables que te ayudar\u00e1n a encontrar a tu alma gemela"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. No one is perfect. The sooner you realize that, the better your life with your partner will be. Learn to embrace the flaws your partner has because remember, you\u2019re not perfect either. So, if you give room to compromise, your chances of meeting and staying with your soulmate are better.<\/p>\n<p>2. You and your partner have to work together. Ignore all the arguments because in the end, you want the same thing &#8211; to be happy.<\/p>\n<p>3. Find out what your partner loves, and try to fulfill it. Maybe they don\u2019t want flowers and romantic getaways. Maybe all they want is to come home to a clean house after work or a cute message saying you miss them.<\/p>\n<p>4. What counts is that you enjoy spending time with each other even if you are bored as hell. If you don\u2019t have anything to do, but you still want to be by each other\u2019s side, that\u2019s a win.<\/p>\n<p>5. Relationships take a lot of work. You can\u2019t expect to just be in a relationship and let everything else take its course. You have to work on it every day and put constant effort to make it work.<\/p>\n<p>6. Sometimes the two of you aren\u2019t just meant to be. Sometimes, you may love each other but you can\u2019t be with each other. It simply doesn\u2019t work.<\/p>\n<p>7. El amor no es todo lo que necesitas. Paciencia, confianza y trabajo duro son las tres cosas m\u00e1s importantes si quieres que funcione.<\/p>\n<p>8. Sometimes your partner is going to be in a bad mood, and usually, it won\u2019t have anything to do with you. People have bad days, don\u2019t make it about yourself, but try to find out what is bothering your partner and try to help him.<\/p>\n<p>9. Learn how to be alone before you enter a relationship. Don\u2019t be ashamed of one-night-stands and casual hookups. Just make sure you have protection all the time, and test yourself for STD\u2019s. Fuck what everyone else has to say. Enjoy!<\/p>\n<p>10. Pay attention to what you say in the heat of the moment. You might say things you don\u2019t mean, but your words stay carved in people\u2019s mind. They may say they forgive you, but they will never forget.<\/p>\n<p>11. If you are married, it doesn\u2019t mean that the two of you have to be together all the time. You are two different people who have their own interests. And when you want to do something alone, you should. Give each other some space.<\/p>\n<p>12. Never cheat on your partner. If you don\u2019t love him, let him go, but don\u2019t break him emotionally.<\/p>\n<p>13. Nunca rechaces una disculpa, y nunca dejes de disculparte.<\/p>\n<p>14. End up with someone you don\u2019t mind doing everyday stuff with. Most of your life is going to be just everyday stuff. Spectacular things are not going to happen every day.<\/p>\n<p>15. Never end up with someone out of guilt. If you think you\u2019ve wronged that person, don\u2019t try to make up for it because you\u2019re only going to make things worse. End it while you can, and perhaps the both of you can get to meet your soulmates.<\/p>\n<p>16. Some relationships aren\u2019t meant to last forever. Some relationships are just a journey you have to take and an experience you have to learn from. They are like a prep stage for the serious thing. Don\u2019t keep those people in your life by force. You\u2019re not doing them or yourselves a favor. It may seem hard, but it will get better.<\/p>\n<p>17. The honeymoon phase doesn\u2019t last forever, so don\u2019t expect your relationship to be peachy from the beginning to the end. After a while, you \u2019re going to have problems, and you\u2019re going to have to solve them. After a while, you\u2019ll truly see if you\u2019re meant to be together. It\u2019s easy to be happy when everything is okay, but it\u2019s not so easy to be happy when the real problems kick in.<\/p>\n<p>18. Don\u2019t force yourself to be in a relationship. If you\u2019re not feeling it, you\u2019re not feeling it. You can\u2019t force love.<\/p>\n<p>19. Don\u2019t let your parents meddle in your relationship. They have a life of their own. They have no right whatsoever to make decisions and choices instead of you.<\/p>\n<p>20. If you\u2019re not sure that the person you\u2019re with is the right person for you, move on and find your happiness. Don\u2019t torture yourself by thinking it\u2019s going to get better. It\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>21. Don\u2019t start a fight if you\u2019re feeling agitated. Don\u2019t argue over the phone. Don\u2019t discuss anything until you feel better. If you do it anyway, you&#8217;re definitely making things even worse. You\u2019re going to say things you don\u2019t mean which you\u2019ll regret later.<\/p>\n<p>22. Si la persona que te gusta es tu mejor amigo, yo digo que adelante. Normalmente, la gente te dice que no salgas con tu mejor amigo, pero qu\u00e9 puede haber mejor que eso. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-things-mean-youre-serious-relationship-love-like-crazy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando se tiene una relaci\u00f3n seria<\/span><\/a>, you become friends. Isn\u2019t it better to be friends already and before you start a relationship you know everything about each other?<\/p>\n<p>23. A successful relationship is not dividing the hard work in half. Sometimes you have to give a lot more because your partner can\u2019t. When your partner is feeling distracted or something is bothering them, you have to step up to get them out of that state and help them bounce back.<\/p>\n<p>24. Never lose yourself. Keep your opinion because your opinion matters. Don\u2019t transfer from \u201cI\u201d to \u201cwe\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>25. Help your partner go through a difficult time, but don\u2019t take all the burden. You can\u2019t fight someone else\u2019s battles. You have to let them fight with their demons because in that way, they are growing emotionally. They are learning to deal with everything their life throws at them. You can only be their rock to lean on.<\/p>\n<p>26. Espera a que termine la fase de luna de miel antes de hacer nada serio con tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>27. Everyone makes mistakes. Don\u2019t think that your partner is never going to hurt you or do something stupid. Never expect you\u2019re going to be perfect either. Neither of you wants to hurt the other on purpose. Usually, we do that unwillingly and unconsciously.<\/p>\n<p>28. Apoyarse mutuamente en lo bueno y en lo malo.<\/p>\n<p>29. Tu pareja debe hacer que quieras ser mejor persona. Tu pareja debe inspirarte y desafiarte.<\/p>\n<p>30. Sometimes you have to date wrong people to actually realize what you deserve\u2014or better said don\u2019t deserve. Don\u2019t panic if it takes years for you to realize that. That process is a lesson your life has to give to you. That pain and discontent are there for a reason, so you can truly know what you want and need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-31060 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Nasty-Truths-That-Will-Help-You-Find-Your-Soulmate-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"30 verdades desagradables que te ayudar\u00e1n a encontrar a tu alma gemela\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Nasty-Truths-That-Will-Help-You-Find-Your-Soulmate-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Nasty-Truths-That-Will-Help-You-Find-Your-Soulmate-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Nasty-Truths-That-Will-Help-You-Find-Your-Soulmate.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. No one is perfect. The sooner you realize that, the better your life with your partner will be. Learn to embrace the flaws your partner has because remember, you\u2019re not perfect either. So, if you give room to compromise, your chances of meeting and staying with your soulmate are better. 2. 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