{"id":31063,"date":"2020-07-18T09:19:51","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T09:19:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31063"},"modified":"2022-02-27T11:03:14","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T11:03:14","slug":"si-sigues-perdonandolo-aunque-no-cambie-lee-esto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-sigues-perdonandolo-aunque-no-cambie-lee-esto\/","title":{"rendered":"Si sigues perdon\u00e1ndole aunque no cambie, lee esto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s de nuevo, repitiendo el mismo viejo escenario, esperando que algo cambie. Esperando que se d\u00e9 cuenta de lo que vales y te trate mejor.<\/p>\n

Mira dentro de tu alma y s\u00e9 sincero contigo mismo<\/i><\/b>\u2014<\/i><\/b>nunca va a cambiar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to change. He already thinks he is great and on the days when he himself can\u2019t justify his actions, he blames you for his behavior.<\/p>\n

He blames you for everything because it\u2019s easier than admitting that he is wrong. It\u2019s easier to hacerse la v\u00edctima <\/a> que ser un hombre y enfrentarse a sus acciones.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier than to see a fault in his system and try to improve it.<\/p>\n

Claro, hay d\u00edas en los que jura que cambiar\u00e1. Suelen ser los d\u00edas en los que teme perder para siempre el control que tiene sobre ti.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Pero en cuanto le perdones, en cuanto sienta que vuelves a caer en sus mentiras, volver\u00e1 a las andadas. Te har\u00e1 da\u00f1o una y otra vez, mientras se lo permitas. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Volver\u00e1 a faltarte al respeto. Volver\u00e1 a no mandarte mensajes, a no encontrar tiempo para ti y a no darte el apoyo emocional que tanto necesitas.<\/p>\n

With him, it\u2019s always going to be the same. The same scenario will keep on repeating itself until you decide that enough is enough.<\/p>\n

Deja de ponerle excusas. No las hay. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No hay nada en este mundo que pueda justificar todas las l\u00e1grimas que rodaron por tu cara. No hay nada que pueda compensar la falta de amor y respeto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s breaking your heart that no matter how much you love him and no matter how many times you tried to make things work, it was never enough.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t beat yourself up. It\u2019s not your fault. There was nothing you could have done better or said differently to change the final result; you simply se enamor\u00f3 de la persona equivocada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you open your eyes and see that. You deserve a better life than this.<\/p>\n

Te mereces la felicidad que \u00e9l nunca supo darte. Mereces ser amada por alguien que sepa amar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l no es ese hombre. S\u00f3lo se ama a s\u00ed mismo. S\u00f3lo est\u00e1 atento a sus necesidades, s\u00f3lo se preocupa de sus propios intereses.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo le interesan las cosas que puede quitarte porque no tiene nada que dar.<\/p>\n

Open your eyes and see what your life could be without him. You could be free of this emotional roller coaster that\u2019s getting you nauseous all the time. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas encontrar por fin esa paz interior de la que \u00e9l te ha privado.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The thing you have with him or had with him, whichever you prefer, is not your life\u2019s love story. It\u2019s just one bad chapter you had to experience so you could grow stronger from it.<\/p>\n

Para que pudieras romper y sanar y no volver a repetir el mismo error.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l no es el indicado para ti, s\u00f3lo es alguien que tuvo que ense\u00f1arte c\u00f3mo debe ser el amor, con qu\u00e9 no debes conformarte.<\/p>\n

Recon\u00f3cete a ti misma que con \u00e9l te est\u00e1s conformando. Te est\u00e1s conformando con algo que va y viene y se lleva partes de ti con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1s conformando con inversiones bajas y fragmentos de amor. Te est\u00e1s conformando con una vida sin alegr\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t sell yourself short. Don\u2019t be afraid to be alone. Ser soltero <\/a> puede ser una bendici\u00f3n en s\u00ed misma si se mira de la manera correcta.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, permanecer en una relaci\u00f3n de mierda, perdonar constantemente a alguien que est\u00e1 m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del perd\u00f3n, creer en un cambio que nunca suceder\u00e1, s\u00f3lo te destruir\u00e1. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e1lvate de sus garras t\u00f3xicas. Deja de perdonarle y en su lugar p\u00eddele perd\u00f3n a ti misma, porque te quedaste cuando en el fondo sab\u00edas que deb\u00edas irte.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jalo ir y ag\u00e1rrate a ti mismo. Qui\u00e9rete con cada \u00e1tomo de tu ser. S\u00e9 una mujer que tiene el valor de valerse por s\u00ed misma y construir su propia felicidad.<\/p>\n

Lo tienes, puedes hacerlo por ti misma, \u00e9l s\u00f3lo se interpone en tu camino.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Here you are again, repeating the same old scenario, hoping that something will change. Hoping that he will realize your worth and treat you better. Look inside your soul and be honest with yourself\u2014he is never going to change. He doesn\u2019t want to change. He already thinks he is great and on the days when…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":104476,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31063","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Keep-Forgiving-Him-Even-Though-He-Isnt-Changing-Read-This.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31063","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31063"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31063\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31063"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31063"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31063"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}