{"id":31105,"date":"2019-01-10T12:14:08","date_gmt":"2019-01-10T12:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31105"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:05:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:05:58","slug":"6-cosas-que-los-hombres-creen-que-hacemos-por-ellos-pero-no-es-asi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-los-hombres-creen-que-hacemos-por-ellos-pero-no-es-asi\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que los hombres creen que hacemos por ellos (pero no es as\u00ed)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Llevar tacones altos, perfume (aunque s\u00f3lo vayamos a la tienda), mantener nuestro maquillaje a punto y cosas as\u00ed no es algo que hagamos por ti. Lo hacemos por nosotras porque hacer algo bonito por nosotras mismas y disfrutarlo nos sienta de maravilla.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think we would go out of our way only to appease your greedy eyes and secret fantasies. We don\u2019t wear yoga pants because of you. We wear them because they are comfy as hell, and it feels good to wear them.<\/p>\n

And we\u2019re sorry to tell you that being comfortable in our skins is more important than what you\u2019re going to think of us. But, don\u2019t get us wrong. Your opinion matters to us but not that much as you might have thought.<\/p>\n

1. Cuidamos especialmente nuestro cabello y maquillaje<\/h2>\n

Our hair is something holy to us, and we\u2019ve always taken special care of it. We continue taking special care of it for us, and not for you.<\/p>\n

Se necesita mucho conocimiento y habilidad a la hora de peinarnos y maquillarnos con clase, y uno se siente bien cuando descubre esa f\u00f3rmula secreta.<\/p>\n

We, as women, have a different mindset when it comes to making ourselves pretty. While 99% of time you\u2019re making yourself look good only to get into our pants, you need to know that our motives are a little bit different than yours.<\/p>\n

2. Nos vestimos para nosotros mismos y no para seducirte<\/h2>\n

When it comes to dressing, we don\u2019t wear skirts, dresses, or other clothes that accentuate our curves only to seduce you. We wear them for of two reasons. The first reason is comfort, and the second is because we have the urge to express ourselves.<\/p>\n

Contrary to you, we have a different sense of fashion, and we\u2019re devoted to it for different reasons. We dress according to our moods, emotional state, time of the month and the availability of clean laundry. And no, we don\u2019t choose not to wear a bra so that you can stare at our nipples.<\/p>\n

3. Llevar lencer\u00eda no s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 reservado para tus ojos<\/h2>\n

We don\u2019t wear lingerie only when we\u2019re about to have some action. We also wear it on a daily basis! Surprise! It is our feminine secret, and wearing it makes us feel like goddesses.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think that we\u2019re buying it only to get you to drool. We\u2019re buying it because it makes US feel sexy for US. It makes us feel good in our skin, and no matter what mood we\u2019re in, it\u2019s something that always makes our day.<\/p>\n

Wearing lingerie is not only reserved for your pleasure. It is something we do for our pleasure as well, and it\u2019s our secret weapon that makes us tener confianza<\/a>.<\/p>\n

4. We don\u2019t go to the gym so that you can stare at us<\/h2>\n

Nope! We don\u2019t go to the gym so that you can stare at us while we\u2019re doing squats. Our priorities are far different from that. We go because we want to do something good for ourselves. We go because we take care of our bodies, health and well-being.<\/p>\n

And, believe us, it has nothing to do with us making a show for you out there. While to you this might look like we\u2019re trying hard to entertain you, to us it looks like we\u2019re trying hard to maintain our health and feeling good vibe.<\/p>\n

5. Being nice to you doesn\u2019t mean we\u2019re instantly into you<\/h2>\n

When we\u2019re being all nice to you, please, do us a favor, and don\u2019t think that we\u2019ve instantly fallen for you. And for God\u2019s sake, when has being nice become something we should be ashamed of only because you could imagine things in your head?<\/p>\n

We\u2019re being nice because we\u2019re being nice to everyone, and not just to you. We\u2019re being nice to taxi drivers, hairdressers, waitress, our boss, colleagues, you name it.<\/p>\n

And why in the world would you think that if we\u2019re being nice to you, this must mean we\u2019re instantly into you? Next time you think this, think again.<\/p>\n

6. We don\u2019t have sex with you only to appease you<\/h2>\n

Sex is not something that is invented only for your pleasure, and we\u2019re certainly not doing it only to appease you. We\u2019re doing it because we want to and because it feels good.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re doing it for our own pleasure just as you\u2019re doing it for yours. Those times when women were treated like subordinates have passed. We\u2019re no longer ashamed of our sexuality, and we\u2019re free to explore.<\/p>\n

And if we choose to have sex with you, it is because we\u2019ve decided that we want to and not because we\u2019re head over heels for you, and we want to do anything to appease you.<\/p>\n

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Wearing high heels, perfume (even if we only go to the store), keeping our makeup on point and things like this are not something we do for you. We do it for ourselves because doing something nice for ourselves and enjoying it feels totally awesome. So, don\u2019t think we would go out of our way…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":31106,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29650],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-code"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29650,"label":"girl code"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/brooke-cagle-170054-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29650,"name":"girl code","slug":"girl-code","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29650,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","parent":29643,"count":41,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29650,"category_count":41,"category_description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","cat_name":"girl code","category_nicename":"girl-code","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31105"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31105\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}