{"id":31153,"date":"2021-01-01T08:57:11","date_gmt":"2021-01-01T08:57:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31153"},"modified":"2024-10-30T11:26:48","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T10:26:48","slug":"este-ano-deja-de-huir-del-amor-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/este-ano-deja-de-huir-del-amor-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Este a\u00f1o, deja de huir del amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019ve been hurt too many times in the past, the only natural thing to do is for you to look for ways to protect your scarred heart from experiencing any more emotional pain.<\/p>\n

It is normal that you are ready to do whatever it takes just to prevent yourself from going through the same kind of hell you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve been broken and wounded by the ones you\u2019ve trusted the most, it is perfectly natural to put your guard up and to become careful when it comes to the people you let in. It is normal to stop seeing the good in people and to become the negative and bitter person you swore you\u2019d never be.<\/p>\n

After all that you\u2019ve been through, one can\u2019t judge you for losing your faith in love.<\/b><\/p>\n

The fact is that the ones you\u2019ve loved the most and the ones you were convinced loved you back have done you the most harm, so consequently you think that the only way to keep yourself safe from all that pain is to renunciar al amor <\/a> en conjunto.<\/p>\n

Sin ni siquiera ser consciente de ello, le coges miedo al amor.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Construyes gruesos muros alrededor de tu alma, pones una armadura de acero alrededor de tu coraz\u00f3n y te pones en guardia, convencido de que es la \u00fanica manera de salvarte.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y esto es exactamente lo que te pas\u00f3 a ti.<\/p>\n

You convinced yourself that pushing people away and not allowing yourself to have meaningful relationships were the only choices you had if you didn\u2019t want to expose yourself to another heartbreak.<\/p>\n

With years, you\u2019ve changed completely. All of this abandonment trauma that you went through caused you to have serious trust issues and made you a different person.<\/p>\n

Pero este a\u00f1o, te ruego que dejes de cerrar tu coraz\u00f3n al amor porque esto te ha estado destruyendo lentamente, sin que ni siquiera seas consciente de ello.<\/p>\n

Este a\u00f1o, te ruego que seas lo bastante valiente como para dejar que el amor vuelva a entrar en tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que tienes miedo, aunque no se lo admitas a nadie, ni siquiera a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que volver a salir ah\u00ed fuera da mucho miedo, porque no dejas de pensar en todo lo malo que te puede pasar y en todas las consecuencias negativas de esto.<\/p>\n

Pero conf\u00eda en m\u00ed y, por una vez, deja de pensar tanto. Por una vez, deja de suponer lo peor y, por una vez, ten fe.<\/p>\n

Ten fe en que no todas las personas son iguales y que llegar\u00e1 un hombre que te ayudar\u00e1 a borrar tus cicatrices y a arreglar tu coraz\u00f3n destrozado.<\/p>\n

That there will come a man who will give you all the love you deserve and a man who won\u2019t think that you are damaged beyond repair.<\/p>\n

Ten fe en que Dios finalmente te enviar\u00e1 a alguien digno de ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

Alguien que te ayudar\u00e1 a recoger tus pedazos rotos y alguien que te har\u00e1 creer de nuevo en el amor.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Pero lo m\u00e1s importante es que tengas fe en el poder del amor. Ten fe en que te ayudar\u00e1 a curarte y que te ayudar\u00e1 a volver a ser la persona que sol\u00edas ser, antes de que ocurrieran todas estas cosas malas.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not advising you not to listen to your gut or to give access to just about anyone who wants to enter your life.<\/p>\n

I am not telling you to fight for love which doesn\u2019t exist or to beg for it.<\/p>\n

No, s\u00f3lo te pido que est\u00e9s m\u00e1s abierto a ello. Te pido que bajes la guardia y dejes de pensar que eres <\/b>no destinado a ser amado<\/b><\/a>, just because you\u2019ve been through a lot.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te pido que elijas el amor en lugar del odio. Que elijas el perd\u00f3n en lugar del resentimiento. Que finalmente te liberes de tu pasado y seas lo suficientemente valiente como para adentrarte en tu brillante futuro.<\/p>\n

To stop allowing all the pain you\u2019ve experienced to define you and to stop letting it cage you. Porque a la \u00fanica persona a la que haces da\u00f1o priv\u00e1ndote de amor es a ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014even if you let love back in your life, it doesn\u2019t mean that you are safe from any negativity or potential pain.<\/p>\n

Yes, there is a possibility that you\u2019ll run into some bad people who will want to hurt you all over again.<\/p>\n

But there is also a big possibility that finally, you\u2019ll find someone who is meant to be yours. That you\u2019ll find your soulmate and the missing piece of the puzzle.<\/p>\n

Alguien que har\u00e1 tu vida mucho m\u00e1s bella y que te ayudar\u00e1 a ver que cada uno de tus desamores sucedi\u00f3 por una raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Someone who will give you the love you can\u2019t even imagine exists.<\/p>\n

Y estoy bastante seguro de que merece la pena correr ese riesgo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Este<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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