{"id":31187,"date":"2019-01-11T10:38:21","date_gmt":"2019-01-11T10:38:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31187"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:42:40","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:42:40","slug":"6-senales-de-que-aun-no-has-aceptado-tu-ruptura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-senales-de-que-aun-no-has-aceptado-tu-ruptura\/","title":{"rendered":"6 se\u00f1ales de que no has aceptado tu ruptura (todav\u00eda)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No es f\u00e1cil aceptar que la ruptura ha ocurrido de verdad, sobre todo si saliste con una persona con la que te ve\u00edas para siempre.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why most of us go through the phase of denial in which we decide to ignore the fact that the relationship is over for good, and we feed ourselves with the hope that something will miraculously change.<\/p>\n<p>La cuesti\u00f3n es que puede que ni siquiera seas consciente de que est\u00e1s en negaci\u00f3n. Empieza como un mecanismo de defensa que te protege de todo el dolor que conlleva la ruptura.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you should check the signs and see if you have accepted your breakup.<\/p>\n<h2>1. La idea de volver a estar juntos est\u00e1 constantemente presente<\/h2>\n<p>Aunque lo negaras p\u00fablicamente, si alguien te preguntara, en el fondo est\u00e1s deseando arreglar las cosas con tu ex y volver a sus brazos.<\/p>\n<p>You spend a lot of time contemplating how to change you ex\u2019s mind. You write them lengthy texts explaining why you two should be together again. You do what you can to make him see you should give this another go,and that\u2019s a pretty clear sign that you haven\u2019t accepted your breakup.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t and under no circumstances should <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-no-quiere-estar-contigo-no-le-obligues-a-quedarse\/\">obligar a alguien<\/a> into the relationship or beg for a second chance. If he was on the same page with you, he would also reach out and a simple text saying: \u201cHi, how are you?\u201d would be all the push he needs to pursue you.<\/p>\n<h2>2. You can\u2019t stop stalking them on social media<\/h2>\n<p>You can\u2019t bring yourself to unfriend them on social media. You are interested in every new picture and status update they make. You are trying to find the clues and read the signs. and sadly, there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n<p>Tener acceso a su vida a trav\u00e9s de las redes sociales te da una falsa sensaci\u00f3n de cercan\u00eda, y sigues sintiendo que \u00e9l forma parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>He is not sending you encrypted messages and the longer you browse through his social media accounts the more pain you\u2019ll be in. Don\u2019t do that to yourself. Delete and block, and let him gradually leave your system.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Te centras s\u00f3lo en las partes buenas de la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>When you look back, you only see the good days, happy moments and sweet things he did and you sweep all the bad and ugly in your relationship under the carpet and refuse to get it out. It\u2019s just too painful to deal with all of that mess, and it\u2019s easier to see the positive sides.<\/p>\n<p>Take a step back from your daydreams, and look at the reality. It wasn\u2019t all that great. You probably spent more days crying, worrying and stressing that you weren\u2019t happy.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make your ex into the Prince Charming he never was and admit to yourself that you deserve better.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Dejas tu vida en suspenso<\/h2>\n<p>Muchas mujeres experimentan esto cuando la relaci\u00f3n termina. Inconscientemente se ponen a disposici\u00f3n de la posibilidad de que \u00e9l vuelva a sus vidas.<\/p>\n<p>So they pass on business or life opportunities that are in front of them They say \u2018no\u2019 without thinking twice to anyone who asks them on a date. They live in the past, replaying everything that happened in their head instead of moving ahead.<\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself among some of these descriptions, it\u2019s time to wake up. It\u2019s time to realize that he\u2019s gone, and you are just beginning your life.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Est\u00e1s intentando dar celos a tu ex<\/h2>\n<p>One more clear sign that you haven\u2019t fully accepted your breakup is that you still care what he thinks and how he feels.<\/p>\n<p>So you post pictures and selfies in which you look hot. You post things that make him think you have somebody else. You show up with some random guy at the place you know he\u2019ll be at, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s intentando ponerle celoso, para que se d\u00e9 cuenta de lo que ha perdido y posiblemente le haga volver.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Infravaloras su nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s unbelievably hard to grasp that your ex has moved on and started a new relationship with somebody new.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que intentas restar valor a su nueva relaci\u00f3n dici\u00e9ndote a ti misma que acabar\u00e1 pronto, que s\u00f3lo lo hace para olvidarte, que te llamar\u00e1 cuando se canse de ella, etc\u00e9tera, etc\u00e9tera.<\/p>\n<p>En realidad, lo \u00fanico que est\u00e1 haciendo es enviarte un mensaje claro de que la relaci\u00f3n entre \u00e9l y t\u00fa ha terminado, y tienes que aceptarlo.<\/p>\n<p>E incluso si se cansa de esa nueva persona e incluso si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-que-quiere-tu-ex\/\">vuelve arrastr\u00e1ndose hacia ti<\/a>, you don\u2019t need someone like him in your life. The moment he decided to go after someone else is the moment he lost you for good.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo aceptar la ruptura y seguir adelante?<\/h2>\n<p>The first step of accepting your breakup is to admit to yourself that you are in denial. And that\u2019s also the trickiest part.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, you have to know that it\u2019s going to be everything but easy and that the quickest way to heal is to embrace the pain that comes with a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante es que necesitas espacio. Tienes que dejar de ser su amiga, bloquearle y evitarle. Ir a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/recuperacion-de-una-ruptura-regla-de-los-90-dias-sin-contacto\/\">ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> es lo mejor que puedes hacer. Al cabo de unos meses, tendr\u00e1s una visi\u00f3n de tu relaci\u00f3n pasada mucho mejor que la que tienes ahora.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t get over somebody who is constantly present in your life. By keeping him close in any way, you are just prolonging your denial period.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-31193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/to-live-a-creative-life-we-must-lose-our-fear-of-being-wrong.-5-200x300.png\" alt=\"6 se\u00f1ales de que no has aceptado tu ruptura (todav\u00eda)\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/to-live-a-creative-life-we-must-lose-our-fear-of-being-wrong.-5-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/to-live-a-creative-life-we-must-lose-our-fear-of-being-wrong.-5.png 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It isn\u2019t easy to accept that the breakup actually happened, especially if you dated a person with whom you saw your forever. That\u2019s why most of us go through the phase of denial in which we decide to ignore the fact that the relationship is over for good, and we feed ourselves with the hope&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":31192,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31187","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/guys-flirting_lead-2.jpg",800,482,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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